why are women so hung up on a guys looks or what kinda car he drives?i'm a nice guy but seem to have bad luck when it comes to finding my miss right can someone help me?
2006-11-24 18:12:03 · 25 answers · asked by delopoppa_2000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not all women are hung up on those things. Some care more about how confident a person is, how well they take care of themselves, how they treat others... It's not always about looks and money, for me you've got to have a good heart and sense of humor. Just try and focus on being confident in yourself and displaying your positive qualities. Good luck!
2006-11-26 18:18:12 · answer #1 · answered by sweetienat123 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the women you've been with are hung up on looks or cars, you don't want them anyways. Sounds like you want a wholesome, marryin' type and those kinda girls arent the ones you want. Girls arent AS bad as guys when it comes to the superficial stuff, but some are.. maybe your bad luck is just fate pointing you in the right direction. Good luck... you seem like a decent person that deserves true love.
2006-11-25 02:16:53 · answer #2 · answered by Nicole 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
okay now; is being heavy set the problem? make sure your cool inside with yourself first before worrying about a girls 101 problems that your clearly not ready for. Being confident deeply shows! my ex is short not bad looking but his confidence suffers from little man syndrome so his attitude sucks; it's so pathetic it's funny. Anyhow, are you happy with yourself being over weight? If not then get it together for yourself first before you dedicate yourself to a chic! Nothing more attractive than a MAN who knows what he wants, has a plan for the next 5 or ten years depending on the age, and the nice car only probably has a quarter tank of gas in it with his mama as the lease owner! Remember some girls can be hand fulls and your on a whole different level and categories once in that state; make sure your insecurities are totally dealt with before entering that zone.
2006-11-25 02:32:32 · answer #3 · answered by neesa 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a nice guy, so don't think your appearance will stop you from dating. Some girls won't date heavy men, or date a man if he doesn't have that red sports car. Most women are not like that at all, look the girls in the eye when you talk to them, dress nicely, smile, maybe ask you Mother or Sister, what girls like to talk about. Don't be afraid to ask any girl out, say for a Ice Cream Cone, that way you sit and talk and she will find out what kind of person you are inside and out. Many skinny girls have dated tall good looking skinny boys, only to be their trophy, until they got tired of one girl and on to the next. Join a gym, young ladies go there, join a young adult group in your church, what I am trying to say is get yourself out of the house and in a position of meeting many new people, MS. Right is also looking. Best of Luck.
2006-11-25 02:32:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
not all girls are like that but a lot of them are n its probably because looks are usually the first thing ppl see and cant help but to make some sort of judgement based on that. but even a good looking guy isnt worth a second look if he's got a bad personality. as for heavy set guys actually finding a nice, good looking girl, its definitely possible, seen it. in fact theyre usually nicer, more thoughtful, and loyal. im sure there's a right person out there for you, just gotta keep looking :)
2006-11-25 02:20:33 · answer #5 · answered by lovingangel323 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i have a similair problem bro. It seems like everytime i like an attractive girl she doesnt realize what she is missing when she goes for someone else. I guess its hard for me to say because i have a hard time falling for a heavy set girl as well, so i can see why girls would choose to go for the guy with the muscles instead of a funny and smart guy.
Its the nature of the beast i guess. Girls need physical attraction just as much as us guys do, so being big is an immediate turnoff. It takes a lot for me to get intimmate with a girl, i feel like i have to try a lot harder then most of my friends.
2006-11-25 02:16:53 · answer #6 · answered by keep_it_friscy 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I have no clue. It's dumb. I love me a heavy set dude. I don't know...I like a guy I feel could protect me and hold me tight. Someone who i feel like I wouldn't break. The again I have dated skinny men. I don't feel totally secure with them but I go by personalities, not looks. I want a real person. Not a ken doll to drag around and show off.
2006-11-25 03:01:27 · answer #7 · answered by Kevin's Gurl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because some girls are very superficial, and those girls may be attractive, but are not worth the energy/money to try and get them to like you. Become friends with girls first, and then once they get to know you, they will know how good of a person you are. In the meantime, try eating right and working out a bit, because it will help your chances of getting that special person to like you.
Good luck!
2006-11-25 02:21:40 · answer #8 · answered by Jake 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've always thought big guys were attractive.
Not all girls are that superficial. Don't worry. You'll find the right girl. =)
2006-11-25 02:14:26 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs.Gaddis 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
not all are ,you just haven;t found her yet; are you being to picky too; look for a girl that feels the same way you do. good luck
2006-11-25 02:18:48 · answer #10 · answered by deedee 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋