There's a guy in particular who wants to go out w/me but he's dated such beautiful women and I don't measure up at all... is it odd for a guy who dates gorgeous girls all the time to want to date someone average looking?
2006-11-24 17:27:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actually Aman, I'm not worried about that because we've been friends for a while now. I also don't sleep w/men outside of serious relationships.
2006-11-24 17:51:18 · update #1
>Noticing that you seem to be able to spell and write, has it ever occurred to you that men sometimes like to talk to someone with a brain?<
2006-11-24 17:30:28 · answer #1 · answered by Druid 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
How can you be so sure that you are "average" in his eyes? And I know this is cliche and been said a billion times before, but looks aren't always everything to someone. Sure, it depends on the person, but generally speaking, a good, solid relationship is built on something more than just physical attraction. Physical attraction plays it's biggest role, if it's going to play a role at all, in the beginning of a relationship... if you're already past that point and he wants to go out with you, then perhaps he's already gotten to know you and likes what he's found. And again, who's to say he's not attracted to you?
2006-11-25 01:31:01 · answer #2 · answered by jonnyhandsomex 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he isn't finding anything beyond the looks of these "beautiful" women. He may be looking for a deeper connection...take him up on the date. Sounds to me like all you need is more confidence in yourself b/c if he only dates the eye candy...maybe he sees something sweet in you...
2006-11-25 01:30:53 · answer #3 · answered by me&onlyme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because average looking girls have a less provability to be slutty and
to just want pleasure. even though gorgeous girl can also be good girlfriends and not slutty. he provably likes you just just the way you are and you should be happy because of it. you might think you're an average looking person but to his eyes you're beautiful and that's a fact
2006-11-25 01:32:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the guy. Sometimes there isn't much inside a beautiful person, but there is plenty of beauty inside someone not so beautiful.. Capeesh?
2006-11-25 01:30:32 · answer #5 · answered by inquisitive 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all dont feel inferior to anyone.. I have said earlier also that each individual is unique on this earth having some special things in him/her and so do you..
As regard to your bf who wanna go out with you may have attracted by you with something that you also dont know OR he is just passing the time in absence of that so called gorgious gal... So beware of it...
2006-11-25 01:34:57 · answer #6 · answered by CosmicLight 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
who says your not beautifull, maby you dont see what he does. let me give you some advice. if you dont think highly of yourself no one else will. you need to look in the mirror and say i am a hottie. just dont walk around with that type of attitude. remember real beauty comes from within. the exterior of those other girls may have been beautiful, but was their interior?
2006-11-25 01:33:48 · answer #7 · answered by ltonyasfun 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have dated all different "kinds" of women, its what is between the ears that makes the difference. I am sure you are very attractive and have something on the ball that has this fellow's interest.
2006-11-25 01:30:14 · answer #8 · answered by C.M.O.T. DIBBLER 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. Its what's inside that beautiful that makes the outside breathtaking. Enjoy your date and know that you are not average.
2006-11-25 01:30:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you say your average but he might see you as beautiful as the other girls he have been with. beauty is in the eye of the beholder
2006-11-25 01:31:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋