What do i do when i have a boyfriend and a friend that's a boy and their jealous of one another??

Question

I have an AWESOME boyfriend that i love!! And one of my very best friends is a boy. I went out with a best friend a while ago and really liked him but decided i didn't want to loose the friendship. Then i hooked up with my boyfriend and he is the BEST!! the only problem is that my boyfriend is worried that my best friend still likes me and that he'll loose me while my best friend is worried that i;ll get caught up in my boyfriend. What should i do?!? I love them both! one as a friend and the other one as my boyfriend.. How can i get them to realize that!?!?

Answer 1

Wow, you're kind of in a hard situation.....if I were you, I would tell them exactly how I feel.....just tell your best friend that you really care for him and that you wouldn't want to lose his friendship, if he tells you that he likes you, just tell him that you dont see him that way, but you really love him as a "friend"....and if your boyfriend is jealous I guess he has the right to be, I mean you did date your best friend......but if your boyfriend trusts you, I'm sure he'll get over it, and if you don't give him any reason to be jealous or to doubt you, then you should be ok. Just talk to your friend and tell him exactly how you feel, and tell him that his friendship means a lot to you, if he cares for you, he'll be happy knowing that you are happy with your boyfriend!! If you still see the jealousy goin on after you talk to them.....then just save yourself the headache and choose, I know it's hard to choose......but if they both care about you, you shouldn't worry about anything!!! Good Luck

Answer 2

unfortunatly you can't and if your b/f is jealous he may become controlling... be careful. Try to reassure him that you do not see your ex that way anymore.. On the other hand if you ex is jealous of your current he may still have felings for you. You didnt say how old you are? Maybe your ex is right.... do you spend ALL of your time with current b/f? Maybe you need to spend some with friends... Does b/f like your friends... do your friends like your b/f? these are important questions that you must ask yourself... from personal experience..if b/f does not like your friends it will not work.

Good luck

Answer 3

DONT FORGET U HAVE TO HOLES U CAN ADJUST BOTH OF THEM FINE....... AND EVEN I THINK ONEE CAN NOT SATISFY U FULLY THE MORE THEY R MORE BETTER GOT A GOLDEN OPPORTUNITY ENJOY... EVEN U CAN GET THOSE TWO IN UR SINGLE HOLE IF ITS NOT SO TIGHT

Answer 4

You never will. You really can't have both. There would always be some awkwardness.

Answer 5

...... tell your friend,... you have your boyfriend,.... and 3 wheel's on a bike,.. just does'nt work!...