I am a petite 5'6'' girl. Been a ballet dancer most of my life so I am toned and thin. I am a A cup and worry if that is a deal breaker or something. Is it? I need male advice.
2006-11-24 17:38:34 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its not don't be so self conscious about it, that would be the only thing that could make it into the deal breaker. If your lacking confidence in your appearance that is not sexy to a guy. Personally I have never been a breast man anyway.
-NmD!
2006-11-24 17:41:07 · answer #1 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Unless your chest is so flat that people can't tell you from a guy, you have nothing to worry about. I personally like any breasts, except for the ones that tend to hang way low (you know like Discovery Channel tribe type stuff). So for me it's definitely no big deal. Look at Keira Knightley, she has not much to speak of in terms of breasts, but she's a very sexy girl.
So I think for most of us it doesn't matter. There are some that are really really into large breasts, just like there are some women who are obsessed with a really large dick, but I don't think it's the norm.
What's more important is your attitude, how you carry yourself. If you have the confidence that you are good looking enough for any guy, then the guys will be interested. Also, you can use your physique to your advantage. You can wear clothes that show off your belly, your back, your legs. When you are toned and thin, you'll look better than anyone else in those respects.
So use what you've got and don't worry about the rest. It's no big deal to most guys what size breasts you have, but it is a big deal if you think you're not attractive and act that way, then you'll look like a looser and not catch the guys' eye.
Good luck, sweetie.
2006-11-24 17:46:41 · answer #2 · answered by yishor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I wouldnt call that a deal breaker. Most of the girls Im attracted to wind up being flat chested for some reason. Dont worry about it :)
2006-11-24 17:41:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a girl but all my friends are guys and I'm bi. It does matter but not like you think most guys have a preference but it may be small or large.I prefer an a or b myself. I used to know a guy who said more that a mouthful is to much.I'm at the opposite end of the spectrum, d cup,so I know my guy friends aren't trying to give me a confidence boost when they say they like small breasts. Some guys like blonds some like brunettes some like huge breasts some like really small.And if a guy really likes you he'll get past a feature that doesn't fit his ideal body type.
2006-11-24 17:48:10 · answer #4 · answered by melissa f 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no it's not. a 5'6'' ballet dancer is HOT!!! no deal breaker at all.
and boobs arent everything. if you are thinking about getting a boob job, which i would not recommend cause you already sound pretty hot, i would not suggest anything bigger then a B cup.
besides bigger boobs probably will make it harder for you to dance.
oh yes, by the way... e-mail me.
2006-11-24 17:43:12 · answer #5 · answered by zerohour 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy is or is not attracted to you because of your cup size, that should be a deal breaker for you!
2006-11-24 17:46:20 · answer #6 · answered by topspin 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not tha package ... it's how you present it!
Walk like you care and have confidence, speak with conviction and be articulate. Never wear plaids & stripes ... and wash on a regular basis.
The build you described is very desirable .... an anything more than a mouth full is a waste ..... if the poor boob doesn't she what you have to offer more on!
PS.... if ya haven't tried the bathing thing or walking up-right give 'em a shot ... you catch a good one !
Happy Hunitin'
2006-11-24 17:42:53 · answer #7 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont worry about guys so much. You sound like youre beautiful. You shouldnt have any problem. The ones who judge by cup size you dont want anyway right?
2006-11-24 17:47:37 · answer #8 · answered by Funnel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are guys that go for the athletic, small-chested build and there are guys that go for the pudgy, big-busted build. What a girl looks like does determine what initially attracts the guy to her, but its a good personality and lots of sex that is going to keep him around.
2006-11-24 17:56:20 · answer #9 · answered by Rukh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I p ersonally like a little bigger than an A, like a C, but don't always go by that. If i get along with a gal who is smaller it doesn't bother me, however if you are insecure with your cup size it will show and will be a turn off. Being secure with yourself shows and a lack there of shows too.
2006-11-24 17:42:54 · answer #10 · answered by scratch golfer 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋