Family & Relationships - 23 November 2006

I am male, I have a female friend who has told me a guy went to bed with her when she or both of them were drunk.

I know its normal to feel a bit of anger about this, but I felt totally angry and was scared to even think how close to being rape that was... I'm don't even see this friend a lot, we used to be closer when we were younger though.

2006-11-23 01:59:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i got in touch with a guy....he proposd me latr on bt i refusd saying dt v cn jus b frnds........he acceptd bt time nd again he keeps trying, smtimes talks senti to me n i cnt always stop hm frm behaving so, although i do discuss many times dt v cn jus b frnds n nthng else..........i hv kinda fear of him, he's very self respectful n short tempered n is kinda bully........bt evn if i insult him indirectly, he doesnt mind.........what shud i do???

2006-11-23 01:58:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

How do you know when a man is being genuine? He acts like he really likes me and his body language says so too without being overly obvious. He is the perfect gentleman when he is with me and is always respectful (we are not dating) He always tries to give me the best advice and look after me but he would have a lot to lose if we got together and i mean a lot. I know he has a bad crush on me but how will I know if he genuinely has feelings for me?

2006-11-23 01:56:16 · 12 answers · asked by Michele 3 in Singles & Dating

but icant talk during dates i dont know what to do and i fell nervous. girl dig me of my looks but their theyll get turn off me because they said that i dont have confidence. well i have a problem of hygene

2006-11-23 01:56:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-23 01:55:49 · 13 answers · asked by ~*.*BRiANNA*.*~ 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a mate who is depressed (didn’t want to use that word but had to), her mood changes like the weather. Some times she’s a really good laugh and other times she just stresses out and most of the time she’s in a bad mood. She’s been on anti depressants for a few years but they don’t seem to help. I have tried everything but gota admit I’m not the most humorous person around but I want to help her. She’s always at home, I have asked her to come out and chill with me, Movies, Bowling, or just for a drink but she always says I don’t go out. I have never had a mate like this, so can anyone advise me please?

Thanx

2006-11-23 01:55:32 · 7 answers · asked by Mr. 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend of a year and a half is really passive, and doesn't do much in our relationship at all. He never phones me, or plans to do things. He's just happy following what other people want, and he hates taking decisions.

Of course, it means that we always do what i want. But that lack of reciprocity is really disturbing me, as phone conversations are also really difficult since he's not a very talkative person either (meaning i always have to lead the conversation and he barely answers).

I start to think that maybe we're just not right for each other, but we actually do love each other a lot. He's a really nice person, and we've got lots of things in common too, like our tastes in films, music, and lots of other things. Our temperaments are just really opposed.

Right now I really don't have a clue where we're going, as i often feel quite lonely in this relationship. He knows how i feel but nothing's changed. What should i do? Try something else or give up?

Please help me!!

2006-11-23 01:55:27 · 8 answers · asked by helen 1 in Singles & Dating

Bring on the lies

2006-11-23 01:55:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

well i purchased adult themed movies,and was wondering if someone could give me a couple of ideas or places as where i could hide them from others
thanks to anyone that helps.

2006-11-23 01:53:46 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im in a severe problem...Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 1/2 years, we argue now, and it hurts, we almost broke up a few times, and i like more that 2,000 miles from my family. He basically told me in a fight that If i can't be happier (I get upset and frustrated alot) and more interesting and stop being grumpy, then he will simply say goodbye and go find someone else, I am losing love for him, but I still love him with all my heart, and he tells me sorry and stuff after our fight and he tells me that we have to stop fighting and i have to just be happy or the relationship wont last, Im thinking leaving thoughts...Its killing me, I love him, I want things to go back to the way they were, But I HATE other girls..I hate that i just can't be happy or peppy like they are, which he likes, And im really hurting, Im jealous of other girls, HELP!!! AUGH THIS IS KILLING ME! I love him, but now im in a difficult position...he will leave me if i cant be happy...Please help me?

2006-11-23 01:50:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-23 01:50:06 · 19 answers · asked by xmissxrainxocampo 1 in Family

well as i said in previous posts, i broke up with my ex... and now.. i think im starting to like one of his old mates... im not too sure what to do..? should i go for it? like, he's been calling me babe and stuff and hes really friendly and i just dont know if i should just leave it, or pursue it? wat should i do??

2006-11-23 01:50:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-23 01:48:53 · 10 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been at work all-day the phone hasn't rung once, I haven't had any emails and I have done nothing but answer questions on yahoo, now I have reached my quota for the day and am very bored so bored I think I might die!

2006-11-23 01:46:19 · 33 answers · asked by Peachy Girl 4 in Singles & Dating

On a date recently, I could BARELY fit into the seat on a roller coaster!!! The attendant had to spend extra time pushing the bar down as hard as he possibly could so I wouldn't fall out and I couldn't even breathe during the whole ride!!!!! Later that evening my date told me I was too big for him and that he prefers smaller women. Would this have embarrassed you??

2006-11-23 01:46:05 · 16 answers · asked by spelling nazi 5 in Singles & Dating

I'm 14 and frankly I'm not sure what tough love means exactly. Of course, parents say tough love is something like taking harsh measures when they think it's necessary to correct their kids. But I'm not sure if tough love is something continuous or something that's used only when required, a necessary evil. To me, love does'nt need and shouldn't be given adjectives. So, I guess tough love is just an expression parents use to justify their harsh attitudes towards their kids. That's probabby what my parents did to me almost 1 year ago and that made me so resentful that since them I've avoided them and act like a stranger, though they even say I'm proud of me (except for my resentful behavior, but which is my undeniable right).
So, if in the future my parents are in need and I'm in a very good situation, it's OK I deny them any help and just say this is for their own good, because they will learn and grow up as persons from adversity. Tough love, OK?

2006-11-23 01:45:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Holiday hell with new mother-in-law?
About a month ago I had asked my mother in law if she would mind If I do Thanksgiving my mother had no problem with it but mother in law did. She said it was her favorite holiday and she wanted to do it. I said no problem I just thought it would make things a little easier so that we wouldn't have to go to her house at 12 and my moms at 5. I have no problem doing that but my mother inlaw does. She thinks you should go to one place for the holidays I have always went to 2 familys for thanksgiving and I want to keep it that way. I like to see my family every year as well as my husbands family and I am willing to do both.
My mother-in-law is being really selfish she calls last night to talk to my husband and they are discusing Thanksgiving my husband tells her that we won't be eating dinner there we will have appitizers and stay a while but we are eating at my wifes mothers because we ate last year at your house for dinner. This is the problem my mom is flexible she will do lunch or dinn

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7 minutes ago
she will do lunch or dinner but my mother in law needs to give alittle too. She wanted to have dinner between 2:30 and 3pm. I swear she does it because she is jelous of my husbands relationship with my family we are all very close and we do alot of things together. She doesn't like that. She wants us to go to her house this year and my moms next I don't feel I should give in to something I feel so strong about but I don't want to be her enemy we just got married in September but we have been together over 6 years. Ohh and when she said I couldn't do Thanksgiving she said I can do Christmas day and then she tells us she wont even be their she is going to her sisters. But we have to go to her house christmas eve

5 minutes ago
What do you think of this crappy mess. I need some advice as of now my husband is so upset with his mother we are not even going for Thanksgiving. Thaings can change

2006-11-23 01:44:49 · 11 answers · asked by BabyDolll128 3 in Marriage & Divorce

hey guys,
I'm really having a hard time breaking up with my boyfriend. I am not happy and we - as a couple - do not get along that well... I don't love him anymore and this burden has become unbearable... We've been going out for a year now and I want to find a way to breakup with him without hurting his feelings... Any advice?
Thanks
Zen

2006-11-23 01:44:46 · 15 answers · asked by stuck 3 in Singles & Dating

'they' like to bug people's mind of what punishment others deserve islamic-lawfully ,when others agreed to 'their' suggestions and when people start to recommend 'them' what punishment 'they' should deserve for 'their' wrong doings ,....... 'they' chicken out . and start saving 'themselves' self , 'their' family and divert ALL attention to 'their' victim whom 'they' THOROUGHLY abused . till now no one knew who 'THESE' cowards are . and 'they' are having a BALL making a fool out of others including high ranked leaders .
what kind of people would do all these . all i know they are CONPIRATORS , MASTER MIND etc.

2006-11-23 01:44:22 · 4 answers · asked by always true & always nice : ) 2 in Singles & Dating

When my man wasn't home I went thru his box of photos and old letters and found some things I wish I hadn't. Letters from his ex girlfriend talking about the sweet things he'd say to her.. exactly the same he'd tell me, and in one she rehashed their whole 4yr relationship he'd cheated on her with about 10 girls and thats just what she knew! I havn't had any problems in 6-7 months with that but now I'm wondering if I'm just blind. She described him as never home and he is home almost all the time with me... so maybe he changed? He is always saying how he wants me to have his kids, but he'd said the same thing to her... the way he'd act with her is just so ugly and although he isn't that bad with me... i'mm afraid hes going to get worse. i can't tell him i snooped but should i break it off or give him a chance... maybe he changed?

2006-11-23 01:43:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-23 01:43:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Not to the people who sent good suggestions and thier sympothy... To the ones who sent the insults and the wise cracks, As if you didn't know, that didn't help. I'm living here with my father and mother because I'm the only one of thier kids that would take care of my elderly and disabled pop... The sorry basturd (My Bro) I was refering to is here because he's too dang stupid to take care of himself. As far as my spelling goes Spell this *** wipe..

2006-11-23 01:42:06 · 7 answers · asked by Carl Ray 1 in Family

2006-11-23 01:42:03 · 16 answers · asked by Bungle, Zippy & George 1 in Friends

Money, sex, security, love, friendship, physical attraction?
(or is there something else?)

2006-11-23 01:39:10 · 24 answers · asked by sum1 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

we can enjoy the life and beifits of marriage without marrying. what do u think.

2006-11-23 01:36:46 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

GUYS ONLY I need your honest advice please help me hun XX?
A guy i went out with said i was wierd what does this mean besides the obvious?
this guy asked me out for a bit we went out i was going through a real hard time at work and probably acted a little strange he said i was wierd and left it at that. I sent him a text saying sorry for all the strange things that happened and he texted me back saying not to worry and that he was glad i could laugh at it with a mate and at the end put take care. Does this mean he still fancies me or he has forgiven me...should i text him back what should i put so he still likes and respects me...pleaase help i want him back he waas sooo the right guy just at the wrong time

2006-11-23 01:35:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know 'noone gets over it' but my brother commited suiide 18 years ago, i was 13 he was 15 and i always thought i was o.k, but my kids make me realise its no as easy as i thought, my partner has a big family i dont. and i always feel alone lot. we did not always get on there was a lot of serious family problems. but i just feel lost somehow

2006-11-23 01:32:57 · 22 answers · asked by rachie 4 in Friends

I don't feel pretty enough or even nice enough, I'm too nervous and worry about everything, shoul I change or remain true to myself

2006-11-23 01:31:25 · 5 answers · asked by south e 2 in Singles & Dating

About a month ago I had asked my mother in law if she would mind If I do Thanksgiving my mother had no problem with it but mother in law did. She said it was her favorite holiday and she wanted to do it. I said no problem I just thought it would make things a little easier so that we wouldn't have to go to her house at 12 and my moms at 5. I have no problem doing that but my mother inlaw does. She thinks you should go to one place for the holidays I have always went to 2 familys for thanksgiving and I want to keep it that way. I like to see my family every year as well as my husbands family and I am willing to do both.
My mother-in-law is being really selfish she calls last night to talk to my husband and they are discusing Thanksgiving my husband tells her that we won't be eating dinner there we will have appitizers and stay a while but we are eating at my wifes mothers because we ate last year at your house for dinner. This is the problem my mom is flexible she will do lunch or dinn

2006-11-23 01:30:17 · 11 answers · asked by BabyDolll128 3 in Family

missing person family looking for can anyone help please
anthony smith of amarillo texas 18 years old

2006-11-23 01:30:09 · 1 answers · asked by john h 1 in Family