i got in touch with a guy....he proposd me latr on bt i refusd saying dt v cn jus b frnds........he acceptd bt time nd again he keeps trying, smtimes talks senti to me n i cnt always stop hm frm behaving so, although i do discuss many times dt v cn jus b frnds n nthng else..........i hv kinda fear of him, he's very self respectful n short tempered n is kinda bully........bt evn if i insult him indirectly, he doesnt mind.........what shud i do???
2006-11-23 01:58:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Many of your words are in short hand,and i don't really get it.Anyway be very stern if you're not ready.Tell him you need to think bout it.
2006-11-23 02:01:01 · answer #1 · answered by ike mie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The impression this guy gives is (1) He wants to be more than a friend to you (2) Talks senti, means He is an Emotional Person (3) Keeps Trying means he is dedicated (4) Self Respectful, it's a Quality, If one respects himself, only then he would respect you or others by heart (5) Has he harmed you ever, i think your fear is self-imposed (6) Short-tempered - I don't think so, he could have left you a long ago, I think he has patience because he overlooks when insulted by you. Tell him that you like him and you need time to think if there's more room for something meaningful. Ignoring and Insulting is not conveying your message infact, testing his patience and making you feel insecure or worried and making you ask this question. Feel Confident and Convey Your Message Clearly.
2006-11-26 10:16:28 · answer #2 · answered by Sunlight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u think the guy is serious n if u r not datin anyone then giv him a chance..
if u r not at all interested in having a relationship with him then dont accept his friendship also.you will end up in the similar situation again n again n there is no point in having such artificial friendship.dont keep him n urself in any illusion.your agreeing to his firendship will give him a ray of hope which will be harmful for both of u in the long run.
watevr decision u want to take,take it fast..for urself n for him as well..
2006-11-26 14:28:44 · answer #3 · answered by pari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you repeat the same question "Are you the Guy" and trying to get good ideas from others.
If not "stop thinking" about the nuicense and enjoy your life, every daya you losse cannot be undone, avoid that guy if you don't like him, nothing wrong in talking to your parents, they too come across all these.
2006-11-24 04:33:30 · answer #4 · answered by Mandev 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,
I had to read your question 5 times to understand it. I think you have to cut it off with the guy for good, from what you wrote he sounds abusive, also no one need friends like that do you?
2006-11-23 10:09:34 · answer #5 · answered by Dove4ever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this net based short hand? You write a few love letters to him like this and he will run for his life.
2006-11-23 10:17:55 · answer #6 · answered by Modest 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him,my friend. Forget, do not show your face once again.He wants change you unwantedly.
2006-11-23 12:35:37 · answer #7 · answered by naari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said:
"----kinda fear----" and
"--- kinda bully --"
Both of those tell me to tell you to RUN far and fast.Don't look back.
Good Luck!
2006-11-23 10:04:29 · answer #8 · answered by Clifford W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should learn how to talk like a human and maybe i'll answer
2006-11-23 10:00:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
please dear improve Ur spelling.with this shortcut all i can say your not balance in life nivea...
miss America first u relax Ur mind.he loves u n never going to harm u.one day Ulla realise what u missed..............
2006-11-23 10:39:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋