On a date recently, I could BARELY fit into the seat on a roller coaster!!! The attendant had to spend extra time pushing the bar down as hard as he possibly could so I wouldn't fall out and I couldn't even breathe during the whole ride!!!!! Later that evening my date told me I was too big for him and that he prefers smaller women. Would this have embarrassed you??
2006-11-23 01:46:05 · 16 answers · asked by spelling nazi 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Green--my Avatar name must fit me?? You don't even know what it means! LOL But here's 10 points for ya, dumbass!
2006-11-25 08:04:19 · update #1
Your avatar name must suit you.
2006-11-25 03:48:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Don't let this get you down. Some people have medical reasons for being big. They can't help it. If you have tried diets go to the doctor and see if he can help you. I was with a girl one time that couldn't fit. It was very embarrassing for her. I felt bad for her all day. It was our whole youth group on a trip to 6 flags. I didn't know what to say to her. She had a medical condition. I just told her it would be okay. She left the roller coaster crying when she was to big to get on. It wasn't safe for her to ride. I think that the people that make these roller coasters should be more considerate for people that have a weight problem I am so sorry that this happened to you. I don't know how long ago this was and how long you went out with this guy but it is better for you to have found out now how he feels about you then when you get or married or after you have kids with him. Go on and find someone that loves you for who you are. For what's on the inside cause that's really all that matters.
2006-11-23 01:56:37 · answer #2 · answered by Shell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I used to celebrate our wedding anniversary every year by going to an amusement park because that's where we went on our first date and again on our wedding day. We have given it a break in the past few years because he can't fit in the rides. He was always a big strong guy, but now there's a bit more of him to love. Since there is a bit more of me to love, too, I am not sure whether I would fit now either.
I know it's embarassing. I travel by plane every week and sometimes the seat belts are shorter than normal and I have to squeeze in so that I can buckle them (I refuse to ask for an extender belt, so I just hold my breath). In the end, don't worry about it. Your date sounds like a jerk, anyhow. You'll find someone who will love you for who you are.
Good Luck and stay happy.
2006-11-23 01:55:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course that is embarrassing. But get used to it. It sounds like you are morbidly obese, which means there is a good chance you will die young. If you cannot fit into a roller coaster seat designed for American's then you simply need to lose weight.
Very few men are going to want to date someone like that. You owe it to yourself to talk with your doctor about becoming a normal weight. The longer you wait, the harder it will be to change.
I'm not trying to be mean, you have a serious health issue that is now affecting your love life. Address it or be miserable and unhealthy.
2006-11-23 02:05:37 · answer #4 · answered by ZCT 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
uhhh......Yes that would have embarrassed me too. Sorry to hear that you were rejected because of your size. Too many people only see what's on the outside of a person and not enough people look at what is on the inside. People see a large woman and think that she is large because she doesn't know when to stop putting foood into her mouth. Some people just have a low matabelizm and tend to gain weight just from looking at food but this does not mean that they don't have a good personality or a caring heart. Be patient and someday god will bless you with a man that can see the inner you. Have a wonderful Thanksgiving day.
2006-11-23 01:57:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No... I mean I would've felt embarrassed but I'm not fat... anyway about a month ago when I went to Germany, there was this fat lady on the plane :))) that couldn't manage to fasten her seat-belt, the flight attendant comes and gives her a seat-belt extension and makes a comment about how she should not eat plane food today cause she doesn't have a bigger extension than that:))) so the whole plane start laughing so I would think that If nobody laughed u should be fine... but just for feature references, don't go to anywhere where your *** doesn't fit.. and try lose some weight too.. it won't hurt :)
2006-11-23 02:01:41 · answer #6 · answered by Paolo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? it relatively is not something?! ok so distinctive Rides have distinctive height,weight restrict's that are on your risk-free practices and stuff. So consistently verify what they're, simply by fact some you would be allowed and a few you wont.:// for my area i think of you would be large! yet once you do get Took of the journey For being Over those height Or Weight restrict's simply by fact Its not you! have confidence me its only the optimum Weight the journey can carry. desire this facilitates ;D x
2016-10-12 23:31:38 · answer #7 · answered by dusik 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This would have embarrassed me, and that was a horrible thing for your date to say. But if you're happy in yourself then that incident and what your date said doesn't matter, just put it out of your mind.
2006-11-23 01:49:00 · answer #8 · answered by Ally 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
YEAH! He's a jerk. Don't worry about it though, it's over now and you'll know to never go to an amusment park on a date ever again. Happy Thanksgiving!
2006-11-23 01:52:16 · answer #9 · answered by S. Elizabeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah,but if that was the case..he wasn't the man for me :) Have confidence in yourself :) If a guy really loves you,he'll see much more within than just mere apperances.
2006-11-23 01:55:55 · answer #10 · answered by starrykickz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋