but icant talk during dates i dont know what to do and i fell nervous. girl dig me of my looks but their theyll get turn off me because they said that i dont have confidence. well i have a problem of hygene
2006-11-23 01:56:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go on a double date. Get your best friend (guy) to get his girl and go on a double date. It is awkward when you and your girl go out especially for the first time. You don't know each other and you don't know what to say to her. This should really help break the ice if another couple is there. You can pick her up and take her wherever and then take her back home but the majority of your time is spent with another couple too. Do this a few times and if you still like her you should start feeling confident around her. (I have the same problem with guys) Also look at your childhood. What happened to make you feel insecure around girls? For me it was many things. First and foremost my parents got divorced. I am scared of marriage because I don't want to get divorced. I am also 26 yrs. old and sometimes it is discouraging to not be married right now. Good luck I hope that this helps you!!
2006-11-23 02:01:26 · answer #1 · answered by Shell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take care of the hygene problem first. Be dilligent about it take 2 and 3 showers a day if that is what it takes. Talk to your doctor. Body odor and excessive sweatin can be caused by various medical conditions that can be dealt with treatment. when you know you have gotten the hygene thing uncer control that in itself will help you to feel more confident. You might look at it as washing off the old attitude and rising on another one that believe in your abilties.. Look in the mirror and tell yourself over and over that you can have confidence, why not have it tell yourself all the good things you need to hear. Sounds dumb but trust me it can work wonders. Just say a little comething complimentary about yourself to yourself whenever you see yourself. spoken out is best but if you just stop and make it a conscious thought that will help too. Say it enough and you will begin to believe. That is first After that the rest is easy. Read the papers keep up on current events in the news and in pop culture, go to a current movie even alone, do things so that you will have things to talk about. Also remember the real key is to ask questions and propmt the other person to talk about themselves. Most people love to do that and it will take some of the pressure off of you to do the talking. Be intersted in what they are saying and it might click with something you read or saw or something and then you have a point to make in return and before ya know it you got a full fledged conversation fully engaged. If you look good and are visibly interested in what the girl is saying, you can't miss. Good Luck dear, some lucky girl is waiting out there. Go Find Her.
2006-11-23 02:06:26 · answer #2 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, I'm great looking too. Just talk to them like friends instead of a girl you are about to have sex with, and you will calm down. Why can't you address your problem of hygiene, is it beyond a normal shower and mouthwash problem? Doctors can help.
2006-11-23 01:59:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, consider having a couple of drinks to loosen up. If you have a problem with hygiene, fix it. Girls would generally rather be with a shy person than a nasty dirty one.
2006-11-23 01:59:02 · answer #4 · answered by ZCT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on getting dug or being turned off and never ever keep away until their falling down for getting a thorough dig. turned on.
2006-11-23 02:09:21 · answer #5 · answered by akshay s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be confident. If u want gals, then go and get them. Hygiene can be helped. Use deodorant and take bath everyday.
2006-11-23 01:59:27 · answer #6 · answered by Savor_Savvy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do u need a girl go on with your life let the girl talk to u make her laugh ask a friend that has someone for tips!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-23 02:03:41 · answer #7 · answered by brownsuagr569 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well try and talk during dates....thats all you got to do...talk about something.
2006-11-23 01:57:47 · answer #8 · answered by ♥mcmanda♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wash yo ***, and go out and get both of you drunk. you'll have a great time
2006-11-23 02:07:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-23 02:02:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋