GUYS ONLY I need your honest advice please help me hun XX?

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GUYS ONLY I need your honest advice please help me hun XX?
A guy i went out with said i was wierd what does this mean besides the obvious?
this guy asked me out for a bit we went out i was going through a real hard time at work and probably acted a little strange he said i was wierd and left it at that. I sent him a text saying sorry for all the strange things that happened and he texted me back saying not to worry and that he was glad i could laugh at it with a mate and at the end put take care. Does this mean he still fancies me or he has forgiven me...should i text him back what should i put so he still likes and respects me...pleaase help i want him back he waas sooo the right guy just at the wrong time

Answer 1

just play it cool. if u feel like textn then do but dont sound all desperate.after all he said ur weird for wot ever reason.say hi when passing at work butt dont stop and talk or youll look desperate,maybe after you said hi a couple of times then stop and say hi like.but then say you got things to do so u must dash.but chat a min or two then go.take it from there,but take it eaaaazzzzzzy taaakkee iiiitt eaaazzzzy

Answer 2

I know you said guys only but I wanted to answer. I think you should forget this guy, if you do not see a more positive response or action from him. I mean, he knew you were having a bit of a time right? and then he calls you weird? I think that was not a very caring approach. I think a man with a genuine interest in you would have called you already to make sure that you was ok. He probrably just wanted a good time, and I am sure you deserve better than that don't you?

Love

Answer 3

Every guy is different, so asking another to figure out what one guy was thinking isnt going to work...

But since you both went out once, it means one of two things...or both...
1. He's attracted to you
2. He thinks your cool enough to go out with

If he says your weird it could mean anything, I've said to my friends that some girls Ive gone out with were a little weird and I thought they were great...

Usually weird just means, not what Im used to...(but in a good way).

So definately go for it again. I know it sounds cliche, but just be yourself... ask him out like you were asking out any other friend... and see where it goes when your out on the town. Dont put anything in the message that says you want him bad :)

Good luck

Answer 4

regrettably, darling, i do no longer think of that he the two fancies or has forgiven you. incredibly if he knew which you have been dealing with a stressful time he might've helped you or a minimum of asked you to tell him approximately it, even with the undeniable fact that it does not sound that he did and it does not sound that he cares or respects you and to be hassle-free i might forget approximately approximately him as he definately ain't worth it. i might attempt and are available to a variety regardless of very own and expert subject concerns you have first and then initiate the quest returned for a great bloke. the final element you like is to pass contained in the time of the comparable stuff returned. you may think of he became into the main appropriate guy, yet time will practice and practice that he wasn't.

Answer 5

I'm saying the opposite of other answeers - Tare care sounds to me like a dump. Has he contacted you since? I you really like him you may be "trying too hard" chill out when you are out with him & his friends and that way normality will return. Next time if you can't separate your work from play, cry off with a illness and try and meet after a day away from work when you have had time to calm down from the pressures of work. Good luck.

Answer 6

Say what? Um just ask him how he truly feels about you. If it's true love he should over look your moments of well wierdness. Shoot we all have some bit if wierdness in us don't we. Just be yourself if he can't love you for that then he's not the right guy for ya.

Answer 7

I would not worry to much about it sweetie, by the sounds of it, he meant it in a way that he simply did not expect the reaction that you gave him, and he was a bit flummoxed by it.
Being called weird can be taken, or meant in so many ways, on this occasion I think he just meant it in a play-full, light hearted way.
What has he got to forgive you for??
Just be yourself and be proud of it!
Love n light xx x

Answer 8

Sadly, first impressions are last impressions - if he thought you were weird, he probably still does. Try to relax and concentrate on the guy next time you go out with one. Learn from that and move on, sorry.

Answer 9

As a guy I think that he thinks he has a hold over you and that you cant do any better and you are maybe to him seeming desperate

just tell him how you feel and if he laughs in your face or the equivalent then walk away its his loss

Answer 10

Don't be too keen. Girls who try to catch a guy sometimes end up scaring them away. When I was at university one such lady was nick named Diana the huntress and when she came to a party all of teh guys avoided her she was jsut to keen for a relationship. Obviously you want to let him know the door is open. May be you wait a couple of days, txt hime and ask him to lunch ( on you) as thanks for his understanding. Then see what happens.