Family & Relationships - 20 November 2006

My girlfriend recently told me she dated guys and also had a fling with a married man during it for 3 years. She said he was only at her house once and they would do it in the car. This confuses the hell out of me as if he was married and they couldnt go to his place, why not hers and only car. She has lied before too. Your opinion on if this might be another?

2006-11-20 08:06:49 · 7 answers · asked by blueiiz2003 1 in Singles & Dating

the normal time to break up relationships?
my man is leaving me for Christmas to spend it home as always, but I feel he does not love me and feel how I would have a lonesome Christmas...

2006-11-20 08:06:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Whats your best feature? butt, lips, chest?

2006-11-20 08:06:35 · 15 answers · asked by mhn0982@yahoo.com 1 in Singles & Dating

is it ok to hug a girl. she is my friend and i dont know if she feels comportable hugging me

2006-11-20 08:05:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i really wanta kno!

2006-11-20 08:05:15 · 7 answers · asked by Lily 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-20 08:05:01 · 9 answers · asked by mzvirgo19 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, I really this guy. His name is John. I like him more than I have ever liked ay like guy before, but last year he really liked my friend. I was happy for them, but then he dumped her after like a week. At the start of this year, she was soo mad at him and I was afraid to talk to him because I thought that she would not talk to me again, but I did anyways. Now, they are just friends. But, yesterday I went to her house for her birthday party and he was there. The only reason that I went was to talk to him.. Ok, so at her party me and him were talking and she came over and sat on him and was trying to hold his hand. I could tell that he was uncomfortable by it. I was so jealous of them. He asked me if she still liked him and I did not want to tell him yes, so I asked him if he liked her, he said that he was not gonna go out with her again.

Bottom line is, I really like him, but I always feel really guilty after I talk to him because she still likes him.

What should I do?

2006-11-20 08:05:00 · 4 answers · asked by Me 1 in Friends

My fiance of 2 years is leaving me because he believes I have cheated on him. I HAVE NOT!! He said if I tell him why and that I did it he would stay. Well, I tried that before. He has a recording of him and I and the TV. He says that it is not his voice and that I had two guys here. I am not that type of person. I have been cheated on and know how it feels. I couldn't demean myself nor could I hurt him. I have done everything I could to help him and us. He had major surgery at the begining of our relationship and when his disability ran out I supported him financially and encouraged him to do good for himself. He finally got a job 3 weeks ago and now he is leaving. I know he is just insecure because in all of his major relationships the woman cheated on him. He thinks I am into weird stuff and I am not. I just want to spend the rest of my life with him and have a normal happy relationship. I am heart broken as I can see his is because of what he believes.

Additional Details

1 day ago
He has been cheated on and he doesn't have a high self-esteem. I am klingy and too nice. I must have something to hide right. I told him to take the tape and have it analyzed it would prove it. He also has used drugs on and off during our relationship as well as the last 10 years. I was helping him quite. He has such great qualities when clean. I can't have him attack my morals on a weekly or every other week basis.

2006-11-20 08:04:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This guy and his girlfriend are in my class they are going out and no one knew about it until the teacher asked them in front of the whole class. They never talk during class. No one has ever seen them kiss, hug, hold hands, laugh, and when class is over they sometimes leave together but not always...just the other day the girl left earlier than the guy because he stayed to talk with me. I dont want to get to close to him as a friend because I think his girlfriend is really pretty and I just want to get opinions on whether its right or wrong to start talking to her. last week we talked. Shes real kool and seems to want to have fun and I want to be the one to show her a great time but I dont want to b a homewrecker. Im not sure if this is bad or not to hit on a girl thats going out with a guy. He seems to not care or not want to show her a great time. So should I ?

2006-11-20 08:03:14 · 18 answers · asked by conejo rabbit 1 in Singles & Dating

Oh where to start, well I've been mates with this guy for nearly 8 years and we've always had this flirtatous relationship, and I've always kinda liked him, but never admited it to him (big fat coward, fear of rejection). We hadn't seen each other for ages but we stayed in touch and he's always there in my hour of need, and vice versa. For the first time in years we met up and went out and now I can't get him out of my head. I really want to tell him how I feel, but I don't know if it's a good idea. I don't know if we'd be able to work past it if he didn't feel the same way, I don't know what to do it's really getting me down. I'd psyched myself up to call him and tell him tonight, but I couldn't do it, I'm a bit of a clown and I'm certain that unless I'm drunk I'm never gonna be able to tell him. When I saw him he kept hugging me, and kissing me on the head, (hmm....) but that aside I think I strayed too far into the friend zone what do i doooo. HEEEELP!!

2006-11-20 08:02:14 · 14 answers · asked by Beige girl interrupted 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-20 08:01:54 · 10 answers · asked by Alyssa 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband has always been a rather goofy guy and I love that but he acts like a child sometimes and it drives me crazy. When we get in arguments, he acts like a child by sticking his tounge out at me or saying "la la la la la" really loud while I'm trying to talk or if I say something he doesn't like then he will throw a fit, like a child...literally. I want to hit him with a pillow but that's not going to solve the problem. What are some effective ways to stop this childish behavior? FYI, He didn't really act this way until we moved in together. Any advice, ideas or suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

2006-11-20 08:01:43 · 22 answers · asked by Mrs_Rivera2U 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I trust my friends more than my family, is this the same for everyone? and is it right to trust people who you dont see that much with personal info?

2006-11-20 08:01:28 · 26 answers · asked by Tiamat 2 in Friends

I grew up very independent and have no problems doing things on my own, but when I do them my wife (house wife) gets the feelings that I don't realy need her. but I do need her, she completes me.

2006-11-20 08:01:18 · 13 answers · asked by A A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

They've been going out for 1 year now and they are serious. They want a future together. They have a good connection and alot in common. Could this last?

2006-11-20 08:00:13 · 15 answers · asked by Cookie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Since it is only 15 minutes if the father contest to supervised visits but that is all the mother will allow will the judge change that is the mother can show several police reports proving drug and alchohol problems and domestic violence??

2006-11-20 07:59:47 · 5 answers · asked by liyah's mommy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi all.
whena man tells his g/f his friends call him an *******,and that his g/f does not even know him.Should his g/f take this as a sign.Her b/f is telling her what his friends told him to tell her.
He than repeated his co-workers said he has g/f`s all over the place,again her b/f repeated this to his g/f.
Should she be concerned with these statments he is making of himself?
Thankyou to all who reply.
Take care

2006-11-20 07:59:28 · 4 answers · asked by sunflower2052002 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-20 07:59:17 · 20 answers · asked by bigguns 1 in Singles & Dating

I only get to see him about two times a week, I know he has things on his mind, and I do too. But I dont believe that every time we are together we have to act on them. We dont, but I have a feeling that he thinks we should. I like being with him and am not always thinking about sexual things. I really like him and enjoy being with him, our time together is limited because of the distance, what do you think we should do to make the best of our time together when we are with each other? Serios answers please. I have spent the night with him twice before and loved it, but I am not always able to stay. Any suggestions would be helpful.

2006-11-20 07:58:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay. I have my best friend, Jamie, and she just told me she is pregnant! Her parents dont kno, the guy was some sorta creep, and shes too far in to abort. What 2 do!?!

2006-11-20 07:57:52 · 20 answers · asked by Lily 2 in Singles & Dating

I've gotton too close to my female friend.I told her how I felt and we decided it wud be best to remain friends.We are so close that she didn't want to risk the friendship,our special bond.We are now on good terms as before my confession.

Said she can’t imagine me not being in\part of her life---this mean anything??

Stuff we do is:
Go to dinner\lunch together,drinks in the evening. We go on roadtrips together to the coast\countryside for walks, usually followed by dinner and its just the 2 of us.this happens regularly.We also flirt with each other and we’re in touch practically everyday etc

How do I make sure that we(I) don't get too close to her again???
I don't want to start acting odd or hurt her by a sudden change in behaviour.

Its difficult for me knowing we both fancy each other,but the friendship means more to her.

Anyone be in a similar position??

Advice....

2006-11-20 07:57:48 · 17 answers · asked by sircrazydude90 2 in Friends

I want him to open the present and think it's something lame - like a plaid sweater or something, but then pull it out and see the tickets...something LIKE that, but maybe more inventive...

2006-11-20 07:57:47 · 4 answers · asked by Miss Quiz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you do with a wife who is a real Mrs know it all.
From finance to counselling friends and family but cant control her own kids( not my kids)

2006-11-20 07:57:37 · 9 answers · asked by quinton p 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend has openly told me she is still physically attracted to 2 of her ex boyfriends. I also found out that she dated these two guys at the same time and she double dipped for almost 3 years. She would meet one guy (who was married) on and off for dinner, drink and sex in the car for about 3 years. She would have the other guy for relationship and on and off dating with other guys. I found this out and she lied at first. She says she is not proud of her skeletons in her closet, but it knaws at me that she could do this. Your thoughts on if this will be too tough to move forward on this are appreciated

2006-11-20 07:56:43 · 10 answers · asked by blueiiz2003 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friends boyfriend is a total jirk to me and im afraid that she will get mad at me if i confunt him because that already happend...I don't know what to do because she loves him but i know hes a bad guy for her and shes so pretty and can do so much better...

2006-11-20 07:56:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My bf who i am engaged to i am 18 so is he thinks i am living in the future because i save my money and a good portion and i budget my self with my checking account. I work for my moms landscape design company/ real estate as an assistant secratary i make 8.00 dollars an hour 10 hrs a week as of now because its winter. I have about 1300 dollars in savings and a little less than 200 in my checking account right now. I want to do something in buisness or communications wich are my major and minor right now in college. I now that most likely i will have to live in N.Y.C for a little while like my cousins did or commute i live in NJ. So i have set aside a savings account to start saving for when i graduate so i have money to live on my own .He keeps asking me for money though because he has no job and dropped out of school.

2006-11-20 07:55:35 · 26 answers · asked by Jenny R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he is going out with another girl. he goes out with any girl that he wants and i think he is a player thats why i don't play with him like other girls do.
do you think he realll likes me.

2006-11-20 07:55:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've had the idea for this in my head for a week. I finally tried to write it, and I couldn't find the words I wanted to express the thought. What do you think of it?

I feel as though the idea deserves a better expression. Suggestions? Improvements?

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It took a snow child,
to free my heart from the cold.
To rouse my curiosity,
and lure me from the icy tomb I'd resigned to call home.
Her eyes glowed with possibility,
something less ordinary,
something genuine.
A sweet blue girl weeping gently into her pillow,
locking the door to her own prison,
but so wanting to be free.
It might take a better man to ease her fears,
to coax the girl out as she did my soul.
Perhaps one day my best efforts will be seen,
but for now, my snow child,
leaves me in the cold.

2006-11-20 07:54:00 · 10 answers · asked by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 in Singles & Dating

Can you feel it,feel it burning inside
Way you moving,feel so right...
try and see it,see see it burning inside
never knew that it could feel so right.

Tonight,tonight ohh
I never thought i'll wonna be with you
never thought i'll fall inlove..
tonight-you're wright here with me
never thought i wonna be with you
never thought i'll fall inlove.

Did not mean it
all the things that i said
just remember we hurt the same
hold on to me,just look into my eyes
and the sorrow will not remain.

Re: tonight,tonight,oh.........

2006-11-20 07:53:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been hurt before but not like this I never ever want to be hurt by this person again or even see this person again but the truth is I want to forgive this person but it's hard to forget and forgive
how do I face her again???

2006-11-20 07:53:41 · 10 answers · asked by may_jhenae 2 in Friends