Okay. I have my best friend, Jamie, and she just told me she is pregnant! Her parents dont kno, the guy was some sorta creep, and shes too far in to abort. What 2 do!?!
2006-11-20 07:57:52 · 20 answers · asked by Lily 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
talk to her parents and be supported towards her
2006-11-20 08:29:34 · answer #1 · answered by robert899295 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, first off she should tell her parents! They deserve to know. Then she should think of her options. If she's too far into the pregnancy for an abortion, really all that's left would be to keep the baby or put it up for adoption. But don't forget that the decision is hers to make. No one-not even her parents-can make it for her. You can offer advice, but as a friend you have to be there for her no matter what she decides to do. I'll be praying for her.
2006-11-20 08:03:07 · answer #2 · answered by Bre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well- There are really only 2 other options. Both involve her parents finding out in the end. She can adopt the baby out or keep it and raise it herself. I don't know where you live but in my area there are teen health clinics in some of the high schools. You don't have to go to that school to use the clinic. They may be able to help her weigh her options. I am also not sure of the abortion laws in your state but some states will let you have one until you about 4 or 5 months along (not that I condone this option because I don't but to each their own).
2006-11-20 08:07:54 · answer #3 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should see a doctor and find out how far along she is. Then the only choice, since she is going to be going at this alone is to tell her parents. It is gonna be hard to do, but they will eventually have to find out. Her and her parents are going to have to sit down, talk it out and make the best decision for your friend Jamie.
2006-11-20 08:02:33 · answer #4 · answered by heaven o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will have to seek medical advice, and tell her parents. This is not the end of the world, and yes, things could be worse. Encourage her to do the right thing, and in the end she will be glad she done it. Children are very delicate, and for alot of people are hard to have, all the more reason for her to tell her parents. There are alot of options for her, but encourage her to do the right thing.
2006-11-20 08:04:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not to be mean but.... jamie should have thought about that before she decided to sleep with a creep(oooh, that kind of rhymes..lol) no, but on a serious note, tell her to just make the best of it and contact the"creep" and let him know that he will be a father soon, and to grow up. tell jamie good luck.
2006-11-20 08:02:20 · answer #6 · answered by apple martini 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to tell her parents.Needs to see how shes gonna take care of the baby.She needs to know if the guy is gonna be there or not.But most important she needs to take care of her baby and figure out how shes gonna support it.Be there for her,during pregnancies the girl always needs someone thats not going to leave her side.
2006-11-20 08:04:03 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to tell her parents the truth because in a situation like this its always better to have some sort of parental guidance and keep supporting her in her hard time
2006-11-20 08:01:13 · answer #8 · answered by chaikid88@sbcglobal.net 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
There are free clinics that your friend can go to for help. Look in your local phone directory for assistance.
Also, I think she needs to talk to her parents about all this since they are the people who can help her the best.
2006-11-20 08:04:12 · answer #9 · answered by angelbeliever114 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is to tell her parents right away and get to the Dr. office and check out what's the status of her pregnancy and make sure she is healthy her and the baby and if she can't go to her parents go to the free clinic and get help and maybe someone to help her talk to her parents lol
2006-11-20 08:01:37 · answer #10 · answered by sexyswells42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first she have to tell her parents, then call the guy out to talk about this. this must be solve. if not the lady is in big trouble. if that guy is a a**, lodge a report . the story ? you know what to do.
2006-11-20 08:03:09 · answer #11 · answered by aeeyo1314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋