This guy and his girlfriend are in my class they are going out and no one knew about it until the teacher asked them in front of the whole class. They never talk during class. No one has ever seen them kiss, hug, hold hands, laugh, and when class is over they sometimes leave together but not always...just the other day the girl left earlier than the guy because he stayed to talk with me. I dont want to get to close to him as a friend because I think his girlfriend is really pretty and I just want to get opinions on whether its right or wrong to start talking to her. last week we talked. Shes real kool and seems to want to have fun and I want to be the one to show her a great time but I dont want to b a homewrecker. Im not sure if this is bad or not to hit on a girl thats going out with a guy. He seems to not care or not want to show her a great time. So should I ?
2006-11-20 08:03:14 · 18 answers · asked by conejo rabbit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, of course. If they are not engaged or married, you may.
2006-11-20 08:06:30 · answer #1 · answered by lindakflowers 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like you think it's a bad sign. If it's less because of time zones and what's going on currently and accessibility, but you both WANT to talk more, than I wouldn't worry since it's just four more weeks. If you feel that you are talking less because you or she or both just don't feel like talking to each other, that could be a sign things are cooling off. This does not mean it's over, however. Sometimes distances have that affect on relationships, but since you will be together again fairly soon, then perhaps the extended silences will disappear and you will be close again. If not, then it seems you have something more to think about.
2016-05-22 00:48:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT HIT ON HER!!!!
If they said yes, that they are going out, it is absolutely WRONG to try to mack on some other guy's girl. The best you should hope for is "friend" status & hope they break up.
A lot of people are really uncomfortable showing public display's of affection. Just because you don't SEE them being affectionate towards each other, that doesn't mean they aren't when you don't see them.
Again, do not try to date her. Find someone else that you want to show a good time to.
2006-11-20 08:07:23 · answer #3 · answered by Miz D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try starting out as a friend wuth the girl and then see where it will take you. if you really like her then it will take some time because the real relationships start out as friendships if you need anything else feel free to ask okay?!?1
2006-11-20 08:14:08 · answer #4 · answered by heather h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This couple sounds refreshingly mature and appropriate with their boundaries. They realize that it's no one's business that they are dating and that they want to behave in a professional manner while in a public setting. She sounds too mature for you and would probably turn you down, so you don't have to worry about being a homewrecker. She sounds very happy with her mature guy!
2006-11-20 08:07:18 · answer #5 · answered by cheyennetomahawk 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Some people know the meaning of being discreet...
and some people need to put chrome wheels on a large piece of garbage to attrack the opposite sex...
Don't go there man, find your OWN woman, not someone elses...
2006-11-20 08:07:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why is your teacher asking them about their relationship? If they are a couple then you should stay out of it. How they relate to each other is their business.
2006-11-20 08:06:13 · answer #7 · answered by justcurious 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all couples are affectionate in public so the fact that no one has seen them 'looking ' like boyfriend means NOTHING. Back off of her if you know she has a boyfriend.
2006-11-20 08:06:08 · answer #8 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no way man, just because they don't show the normal characteristics of those in a relationship doesn't give anyone the right to do such. maybe you can go after her when they break up...
2006-11-20 08:08:20 · answer #9 · answered by Megan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, first off it is so wrong to hit on a gut's gf!!! You can like take bolth of them out to dinner or to a movie or something, but you can not, can not and con not hit on her!!! If they brake up more power to ya, but right now they are going out and that's wrong to hit on her!!
2006-11-20 08:07:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its ok if you don't actually act on your hormones..if you catch my drift..even if they dont' kiss,hug,talk,laugh,or do anything during school doesn't mean they dont after school..who knows thye might not be that kind of couple.
2006-11-20 08:07:18 · answer #11 · answered by southpaw1416 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋