My girlfriend has openly told me she is still physically attracted to 2 of her ex boyfriends. I also found out that she dated these two guys at the same time and she double dipped for almost 3 years. She would meet one guy (who was married) on and off for dinner, drink and sex in the car for about 3 years. She would have the other guy for relationship and on and off dating with other guys. I found this out and she lied at first. She says she is not proud of her skeletons in her closet, but it knaws at me that she could do this. Your thoughts on if this will be too tough to move forward on this are appreciated
2006-11-20 07:56:43 · 10 answers · asked by blueiiz2003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A person can't always be judged on past behavior, but it does remain the best indicator of future behavior. I would be more concerned if she expressed remorse about it or not. If she says she wouldn't do that again or doesn't want that kind of life for herself anymore that's encouraging. On the other hand, she lied to you so can you really believe anything she says? I would say no way if she doesn't express some kind of remorse. All that tells you is she still thinks that kind of behavior is okay.
2006-11-20 08:02:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's done it before, she'll do it again. If she lied once she'll lie twice. I'm not saying that people don't change but that's what I have learned with guys and females are no different.
2006-11-20 07:59:24 · answer #2 · answered by beauty 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
once a player always a player..she may change but she'll always have the urge to play around..and what she did to u is just way too f*ckd up.. U'll find someone better..
2006-11-20 08:01:26 · answer #3 · answered by mich 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater always a cheater. My advice is to let her go. Sooner than later.
2006-11-20 08:00:08 · answer #4 · answered by Only1 Love 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
eew sounds like a slout
2006-11-20 08:00:42 · answer #5 · answered by Lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get rid of her cuz she is just gonna lie to you more about everything and you don't deserve that!!!
2006-11-20 07:59:54 · answer #6 · answered by Shortie<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The past is the past. If she is not doing anything now while she is with you then there is nothing to worry about.
2006-11-20 07:59:10 · answer #7 · answered by joesy617 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
shes a Sl*t dump her
2006-11-20 07:58:54 · answer #8 · answered by ?Whiskey Girl? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ditch her dude
2006-11-20 07:59:43 · answer #9 · answered by chastityelizabeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is not a trustworthy woman
2006-11-20 07:59:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋