To add to this, the family is verbally abusive, passive aggressive, and has a pathological pattern of family problems going back 2 generations. All of the family has turned on one another at one time or another, and has walked away. My husband made the decision to walk away after great consideration (or so I thought) and how has second thoughts and wants to reconcile. I have offered that he go forth without me, and have this relationship on his own (with myself removed only from the "family" situation) but he still does not go back. I feel he thinks he needs me or wants me to blame should things not work out AGAIN. Yet, he is still using me as the reason that is holding him back. What is the hold here ? I do not understand why a person cannot walk away from the abuser, stop the pattern, and start anew.....Any insight would be appreciated.
2006-11-20
08:20:24
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WUDDALIFE
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Marriage & Divorce