i have tried many times to stop her but she cant!she is in deep financial problems and nowhere to go to... the other man is giving her some financial support, she said she havent got no choice and now the man is threatening her of contacting the original family if she will decide to leave him. now she is afraid of losing her family. she sounds very desperate when i last spoken to her over the phone. i do like to help her but how???
should i tell the husband about it? i know their marriage will end up and the children will be so much affected. Im in the middle of their family crisis. im the only person to know.
am i trying to cover up for her because im not telling the husband? am i considered as accessory to the crime because i know whats been goin on??? I really pity my frnd in canada but how about the kids? pls help.
2006-11-20 08:22:56 · 10 answers · asked by NOSREME 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just stay out of it. It is none of your business, let the friend take care of it. The husband either knows about it or will find out about it in time. Time always has a way of working things out, trust me on this one.
If you have ever heard of the statement "don't shoot the messenger" there is a reason for it. You bring bad news to someone, guess what happens......
2006-11-20 08:26:20 · answer #1 · answered by bigguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She made her bed. Let her lie in it. One man loved her - and she screwed him over. Now she's getting used by the guy she chose over her husband? There's a word for that.
Justice.
The ones who are getting screwed in this deal are the husband and her kids. Don't let it go on for a single instant longer. Tell the husband NOW. He will either help her out of the situation, or kick her skanky *** to the curb. Either way, if you let the situation go on without telling him, YOU become part of HER deception and coverup.
Tell the husband. Do it anonymously if you have to, but tell him. NOW.
2006-11-20 08:31:16 · answer #2 · answered by wraith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she's not going to keep her marriage together by continuing with this affair. Tell her you will support her going to her husband with the truth. You can help her by talking to her husband, & councelling him to try to work things out with her after she has come clean with him.
Tell her that she has taken advantage of your friendship by asking you to keep her secret from her husband, who is also your friend, & that you aren't going to allow that to go on much longer. She has to go to him with the truth now.
I think that she has probably grown weary of the deception, & will find getting it all out in the open a welcome relief, & will be gratefull to you in the end.
2006-11-20 08:34:24 · answer #3 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG what an awkward situation! especially when kid's are involved! errr for now . . . i would just keep quiet and if it Carry's on and gets to much out of hand then tell him.
2006-11-20 08:29:19 · answer #4 · answered by red devil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for her and listen to her. She is the only one who can help herself.
2006-11-20 08:25:27 · answer #5 · answered by stacye5398 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't do anything at all. Stay away from the whole mess.
2006-11-20 08:36:06 · answer #6 · answered by gonzalocamilez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay out of it you wont win any friends if you get involved
2006-11-20 08:28:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep well out of it
2006-11-20 08:26:01 · answer #8 · answered by MANC & PROUD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You stay out of it. she got her self into it and she can get her self out of it.
2006-11-20 08:25:40 · answer #9 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you shouldn't care one bit !
2006-11-20 09:23:00 · answer #10 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋