would you mad at your best friend if she went out with your ex boyfriend? you weren't dating anymore, and she decided to go out with him. is that wrong? is it really a big deal to end a friendship just because she went out with a guy you weren't dating anymore???
2006-11-20 08:20:24 · 19 answers · asked by Chrissy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Nothing wrong in it. You aren't dating him any more.
2006-11-20 08:22:36 · answer #1 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are many factors in this. First how long ago did they break up and is she over them. Also how long did they go out and why they broke up. I would think the best thing to do is go talk to your friend. I wouldn't end a friendship over a guy but some people might.
2006-11-20 16:23:29 · answer #2 · answered by Daze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It goes against the unwritten law of friendship loyalty to start dating your best friend's ex. So yes, it is a big deal. You need to decide which one is more important and be prepared to lose either the boyfriend or the best friend, so choose wisely.
2006-11-20 16:25:00 · answer #3 · answered by Rckets 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would beat the living crap out of her..just kidding. The is a universal rule- never date your best friend's ex. That goes for both sides. I wouldn't even talk to her anymore. This is a person who you confided in when your relationship had it's low points and for her to date him after words, knowing all the crap you two went through, that's low.
2006-11-20 16:24:29 · answer #4 · answered by Renee25 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
welll im kind of in a situtaion like that at the moment....my best mate just broke up with some guy and he really likes me but i feel i cant go out with him cos of my best mate like lol..but i sat down with her and had a talk and she said tht she wouldnt mind if we went out and that she would be okay...i once went out with my ex's best friend and that didnt go down well as it was a surprise to him lol, so i have learnt that it is good to talk to people lol just be honest tell your mate how you feel 2 people cant be stopped from seeing if they are right for eachother just because it didnt work out with a friend and nothing like that is worth endin a friendship over!
2006-11-20 16:29:08 · answer #5 · answered by meekaboox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I think that is a stupid thang to get in a fit with your friend.
Your not dating him in the first place so I would not be mad. You brook up with him dating the second place. Cry a river build a brige and get over it and for get about ever thing.Start over like nothing happened.
2006-11-20 16:30:33 · answer #6 · answered by Desiree D 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's difficult to watch her date him but what are you going to say? "I don't want him but nobody else can have him either."? It would have been nice if she asked you first but you're going to look really bad if you freak out. It's not like she went out with him while you were dating. Just accept it.
2006-11-20 16:24:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
from a logical view point it depends on your feelings for you ex. if you still like him a bit that you could maybe get back together, then i say it could be okay for you to be mad. but if you don't like him like that anymore and there's no chance that you two could get back together, then i say it's a free for all.
but friends don't do that to friends so be mad. she's not a real friend.
2006-11-20 16:26:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't find anything wrong with it because you're not dating him anymore and he's already moved on with his life and you should do the same!
2006-11-20 16:37:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, unless they still like him and the friend knows it. but it wouldn't be fair if ever guy a firend went out with was off limits, ya know ?
2006-11-20 16:23:47 · answer #10 · answered by durh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares? Wish them well! Your a big girl now. Wouldnt it be nice if they hit it off? Isnt it nice when anyone these days can? It isnt easy to find someone - wish them well.
As far as not seeing her anymore - if she is a good friend. Dont.
2006-11-20 16:24:23 · answer #11 · answered by Blondana 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋