Family & Relationships - 20 November 2006

Okay so I have kind of a long story...I became good friends with this girl in 7th grade and was in a clique of about 4 of us. Well when high school came we slowly started to fade apart. I stayed good freinds with one of the girls, lets call her allie. Me and Allie were best friends, but then I went through a phase where i was really shy and had problems talkign to people, even allie. I still hung out with her all the time, but she started to make new friends and I became friends with them too. I started to get even shyer and would always disinclude myself from them. Eventually I seperated myself from allie and my other friends because of my shyness. Now I am not shy and I have found myself really alone. Im a junior in high school and really want to make some good, solid friends. But everyone has their own cliques already. Also i feel that if i try to make friends with people they wont want to be friends with me because i have no other friends and they will think im wierd. Advice Please

2006-11-20 07:53:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

we live in different countries as well...the things is, I cant find him...should I be worried?

2006-11-20 07:53:34 · 11 answers · asked by IMCUTEBITCH 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you choose to be single or to be in a meaningful relationship?

2006-11-20 07:53:33 · 11 answers · asked by Only1 Love 2 in Singles & Dating

how do you know when a relationship is over? does it have to do with sex?

2006-11-20 07:52:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've know him forever, but I finally realized I have feelings for him. My ex and his friend hate him (they shunned him once), and those three boys are the only guys I have in my class of 5 (do the math). I caught him and my ex fighting, and they were fighting over who knew me better and longer! I need help!!! He likes me (I guess) and I like him, but I just can't tell him. What should I do?

2006-11-20 07:52:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband has custody of our son. He has been raising him since he was eleven months old. His birth mother is not intimately invovled in his life. She sees him maybe two to three times a year. Last year she went ten months without seeing or contacting him. She does not financially support him, she does nothing. I have been with him for the past four and a half years. Does anyone know if I can legally do something in NJ that will allow me to have some rights over him. Whether it would be to adopt him or have legal guardianship.

2006-11-20 07:52:31 · 4 answers · asked by Mary Popins 1 in Family

Ok 2day travon,said that my boyfriend was goin out with his sis,steven lied to me so we can break up....than i told my boyfriend and now he is gonna fight travon because he don't take no stuff i told my boyfriend that don't listen to him cause he iz a trouble maker.....But no my boyfriend wanna fight him and a fat boy in school and i don't want him to be suspended cause i'm gonna miss him....And today while i was talking to him i didn't even finish and this gurl that i don't KNOW grabs him and starts to talk wit him so i looked at him and left he went to his class and than i got mad because he didn't even pay me no attentoin while i was gonna tell him something important about what steven said to me about what my boyfriend said.........CAN U PLZ TELL ME A GOOD ADVISE.................................

2006-11-20 07:52:09 · 7 answers · asked by Joylissa M 1 in Family

what happens if I slept with my slavemaster

2006-11-20 07:51:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So here it is. I asked this question before but here it is again. I was friends with this girl--- then I asked her out and she said she liked me a lot too and that she would go out with me--- she said she couldn't (later on) because she had already made plans with her mom to go shopping that day--- now we don't talk to each other (not because we don't like each other for some reason) and usually we talk every day. Very strange and theres no way to break the ice. On top of that she is leaving for a week so I can't say anything immidiately. I need help, what should I do?

2006-11-20 07:51:36 · 20 answers · asked by fatttypants 2 in Singles & Dating

how do you know if a girl might like you. given, you dont talk to her that often.

2006-11-20 07:51:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He has used excuses that he was in pain, depression, etc. Now he says he's looking for a job but it's been almost three months since he was fired and still nothing. I can't afford my doc appointments because I'm supporting us both and he gets angry if I tell him I'm going to spend money on a doctor. We've been together for 15 mos. now I want to leave him but he lives with me, has no job and no money and I'm pregnant. He gets angry when I ask him when he is going to work, very defensive and says he's doing his best. He sleeps all day and when I get home from work he takes a nap to avoid conversations. I have told him to leave before but he says I'm pregnant with his child so he's not going to go. I work full time and I'm trying to find a second job to pay for doc bills, etc. He doesn't seem to care, as long as he gets his "spending money". I'm going out of my mind, I've told him the reason I'm so angry with him all the time is because he won't work but it doesn't seem to help.

2006-11-20 07:50:45 · 20 answers · asked by ? 6 in Marriage & Divorce

This is mainly to u guys. i asked when he was gonna ask me out cuz we been talkin for like 2 months or sumthin and he said he just wants to be friends for right now, but he has no problem with cuddling me hugging me or putting his arms around me.

2006-11-20 07:50:34 · 8 answers · asked by bensbabygrl1 1 in Singles & Dating

How long have yall been friends?

2006-11-20 07:50:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been seeing someone for the past 2 weeks, and was in a up&Down, un-healthy relationship until we broke-up yesterday. I had been going back & Forth, trying to decided on whether to take a chance with this new man or sticking with the other. We were together for 2 yrs. and i just didn't know. This new man has made me more happy than i have been in so long, and we get along so well! The only thing is They are mutual friends. But, just like he says, why pass up something that may be "it" just because they are mutual friends? I honestly think he may be "the one', and he feels the same way. I feel terribly guilty about it all, but why sacrifice our happiness for one person who didn't treat me the way i should've been treated? We both had our faults in the whole relationship, but he's almost like a grown man (38 yrs. old) going on 25! I am moving in with this new man, and we are happier than ever, but i'm scared if this is too soon???

2006-11-20 07:50:13 · 5 answers · asked by teeny 1 in Singles & Dating

I live about three hours away from the bride and don't know any of the other bridesmaids! I'm not sure what kind of duties I have as maid-or-honor??

2006-11-20 07:49:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i just started dating this girl from work and she is really hott. well i went out with her yesterday and we had a good time together...but she want to "get it on" already...i mean come on...its the first date and she wants to have sex already!!! do u think i should dump this girl or is it alrite to keep dating her...im going out with her tonite and she expects to be "pleased" if u know what i mean...take note we are still in high school.

2006-11-20 07:48:58 · 21 answers · asked by Gonzo 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-20 07:48:49 · 14 answers · asked by MAR 1 in Singles & Dating

My parents have been divorced for 16 years. I do not get along with my dad's wife. Definition evil stepmother. My mom is dating. How do I only invite my parents? I don't want either one of them to bring a guest. If they do it may be a Jerry Spinger wedding. They both know how I feel about their spouse but are putting pressure on me to let their signifigant other come.

2006-11-20 07:47:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

today me and my friend wrote on a sticky note to that girl if she likes anybody from 8th grade. she' s very attractive. She wrote no. does it mean she really doesn't like me or my friend?~?!

2006-11-20 07:47:53 · 13 answers · asked by max p 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-20 07:47:44 · 28 answers · asked by crazy_amy911 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-20 07:47:18 · 28 answers · asked by Yeah yeah yeah 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in the sixth grade and I am 12 years old. I have this friend who is CONSTANTLY chasing my boyfriend, and she is always talking about him. I know y'all are going to say I am WAY to young to have a boyfriend, but thats not the point.How can I tell her to stop without hurting her feelings?

2006-11-20 07:46:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-20 07:46:35 · 11 answers · asked by apbudge 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and i have been going out for 7 months and i found out he still jacks off... even tho we have sex, is it weird that he still does? like is it me why he does it or do all guys who have girlfriends masterbate? ike i dont see the point if we are having sex.... is this bad?should i worrie?

2006-11-20 07:46:11 · 13 answers · asked by A m a n d a [[D o l l f a c e]] 2 in Singles & Dating

I went out drinking and started a fist fight with my sisterinlaw and the hole bar went crasey and than i guess she got jumped buy 3 girls this is all my falt i blacked out and my hubby had to tell me everything i feel so bad and dont even remeber anything,should i call her and say sorry or leave her alone 4 now.

2006-11-20 07:46:06 · 3 answers · asked by XoAngieXo 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am really attracted to this guy but I kind of messed things up. He has tried to get closer to me several times but I never responded te first two times because I was nervous and the last time I appeared to brush him off. (That wasn't the intent but it looks like thats how he took it.) I would still like to pursue something here but I am not sure how to go about it. Should I just go for it the next time I see him or wait and see if he will try again? I am not sure if he will try again.

2006-11-20 07:46:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

move on or what?

2006-11-20 07:46:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-20 07:45:53 · 13 answers · asked by kitkatgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy I really like, we talk all the time but I'm not sure whether he feels the same way. How can I tell if he does, and what are some ways to get guys to like me?!! (btw, I'm shy so I can't just ask him, I'd die)

2006-11-20 07:45:26 · 2 answers · asked by Sami 4 in Singles & Dating

In response to Doorman's question on "How to keep and make a man happy".....many answered that some form of "sex" keeps him happy. Well, how do you make or keep a man happy who DOESN'T WANT SEX?! Particularly if THE WOMAN DOES?!!!

And before you answer:
* NO! He's not having an affair, and yes I know that for certain.
*YES, kids, work, financial strain, & stress from outside sources
can affect a man's drive (and we have all 4).
*NO, self satisfaction is OUT! Doesn't work for me, (actually
makes it worse with more sexual frustration).
*Also NO on finding another sleeping partner, as well as divorce,
it's not the solution.

2006-11-20 07:44:57 · 24 answers · asked by akmedic 1 in Marriage & Divorce