i just started dating this girl from work and she is really hott. well i went out with her yesterday and we had a good time together...but she want to "get it on" already...i mean come on...its the first date and she wants to have sex already!!! do u think i should dump this girl or is it alrite to keep dating her...im going out with her tonite and she expects to be "pleased" if u know what i mean...take note we are still in high school.
2006-11-20 07:48:58 · 21 answers · asked by Gonzo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on! This is not a good relationship for you. This is a bad thing! She's insulting your integrity and your person by this kind of behavior. Run, run, run
2006-11-20 07:56:08 · answer #1 · answered by lindakflowers 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Warning....Warning......pay attention you your gut.
Well most boys are going to say....are you crazy...go for it.
But listen only to yourself. You will not be sorry in the long run.
Question? Does this seem real to you? Would you expect her to be this hot for you or was this a total surprise?
Be very careful. You may be only one of many and you don't know what you are getting in to here. No pun intended.
Best thing for you to do is go ahead with the date. Do the kissing and petting but no sex. If she genuinely wants you, by not giving her sex will only make her hotter for you. If she is playing with you it won't be long and you will find out. Girls her age are no different than boys. She may have a bet with someone. Don't give her the satisfaction. Take advantage of that for as long as you can.
Right now she is for playing with. Sex brings all kinds of serious problems you may not want.
2006-11-20 08:12:40 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are a little uncomfortable with the quick development of the relationship. I think I would tell her that and see what she says. I would normally say that dating someone from work is not a good idea. Just be careful dude. Don't want any love buns to take care of.
2006-11-20 07:57:13 · answer #3 · answered by Jabberwock 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say if you are looking for something serious, then you should probably forget about it. She is obviously not looking for a relationship but someone to have "fun" with if you know what I mean. If you are still in high school, most relationships aren't serious. It really depends on the type of girl you would like to be with. Someone who is willing to have sex with you on your first date,or someone who wants to get to know you better and become friends and then possibly something else. It is really your decision.
2006-11-20 07:52:44 · answer #4 · answered by Briana S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds very insecure and needy to expect to "get it on" the first date and to let you know she expects it on the second date. A question you might want to ask yourself before "doing the deed" with her: "How many other guys has she been with and am I willing to risk STD's?". You might want to follow your hunches and dump this girl. She sounds like trouble. I'm sure there are a lot of other "hot" girls you could date who have better self-esteem and have healthier expectations about relationships.
2006-11-20 07:53:44 · answer #5 · answered by cheyennetomahawk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not sure. seems like she is moving a little too fast. maybe she thinks that is what you expect from her, to have sex after the first date. maybe try and explain that you two don't need to move as fast and you can still have a good time without having sex.
2006-11-20 07:51:45 · answer #6 · answered by stretchskeleton10 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds a little too fast for my taste. You need to keep in mind that if she is this quick and carefree with you she is probably the same with everyone she dates. If you decide to go with it anyways I would definately think of using protection.
2006-11-20 07:52:18 · answer #7 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woah..... I would never try to get some that early in a relationship. It maybe a little different if you knew eachother like forever but damn.... She sounds kind of etchy to me. If you don't want to do something thouugh, let her know. She can't force you into having sex. Just let her know that you want to know her before you guys get down.
And if you do, all you need is one condom EVERYTIME, okay?
*sigh* Another student probably getting laid before I did.
2006-11-20 08:03:43 · answer #8 · answered by boy_crazy_sasoun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, sounds like that girl needs to calm down...You're still young...Make sure you take all precautions if you do...
but if where you i would check the reputation of this girl and see what kind of girl she really is...after all you'll be working with her and if things don't work out...it will just be tense...
2006-11-20 07:51:40 · answer #9 · answered by $&$& 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is a little fast tail and around here we call them rollers,crankers,buckets etc. If you are ready for sex and you want to do it then do it but you might catch something. Just let her know if your not ready because she is a trick
2006-11-20 07:52:11 · answer #10 · answered by kiki_t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋