My boyfriend and i have been going out for 7 months and i found out he still jacks off... even tho we have sex, is it weird that he still does? like is it me why he does it or do all guys who have girlfriends masterbate? ike i dont see the point if we are having sex.... is this bad?should i worrie?
2006-11-20 07:46:11 · 13 answers · asked by A m a n d a [[D o l l f a c e]] 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's normal... don't worry about it...
remember the saying that men thing about sex every 6 seconds (or something like that), unless your there for every urge he has, he's going to masterbate...
and even then, believe it or not, for many men (me at least), masterbating takes less energy (sex is a workout:)), so it good...
it also feels completly different when with a girl, to doing it yourself...
i can go on, but i'm sure you get the point by now... it's normal, don't worry about it...
maybe you can even do that yourself and watch each other doing it at the same time... maybe side by side in bed, masterbating, and once in a while you lean over and kiss each other... that sounds nice...
2006-11-20 07:51:29 · answer #1 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is perfectly normal. Some guys do it, some guys don't, even when they get plenty of sex from their girl friend. Don't worry about it. You two might do it together to enhance each others' pleasure. You might enjoy giving him handjobs. He will probably enjoy getting them from you.
Just be glad he is not having unprotected sex with another women or worse a man.
2006-11-20 07:55:13 · answer #2 · answered by lobster37 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my bf does this and it really bothered me but I guess it is normal because I have noticed a lot of girls asking this question I would talk to him though and see if there is something he needs more of or if you could help him with one of his fantasy's but overall I would not worry guys need sex constantly
2006-11-20 07:52:42 · answer #3 · answered by Jen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's only been 7 months....wait until it's been 7 years and then you can complain
2006-11-20 07:52:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're able to desire to sense terrible for that, yet im not likely to bash you. you have an extremely small hazard of being forgiven i could ask her if there is something i can do to make it up?
2016-12-29 06:39:45 · answer #5 · answered by melvina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't worry that's just what men do. Not all of coarse but some do. Its prob. like a habit.
2006-11-20 07:50:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats just men they always have to play with it. I wouldnt worry to much atleast he is masturbating and not cheating
2006-11-20 07:49:08 · answer #7 · answered by onehotmama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nahh sometimes it just happens
it's like the heat of the moment just with his hand
it happens to me sometimes i'll get all revved up with nobody to play with if you know what i mean
2006-11-20 07:58:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.. you're either not giving him enough, the way he wants it, or he just wants some alone time. Either way it's completely normal ;)
2006-11-20 07:48:56 · answer #9 · answered by RivatricHistrionic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
usless you are having sex atleast twice a day its ok
2014-09-13 18:42:21 · answer #10 · answered by aussieboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋