I've know him forever, but I finally realized I have feelings for him. My ex and his friend hate him (they shunned him once), and those three boys are the only guys I have in my class of 5 (do the math). I caught him and my ex fighting, and they were fighting over who knew me better and longer! I need help!!! He likes me (I guess) and I like him, but I just can't tell him. What should I do?
2006-11-20 07:52:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've been with my ex since preschool. I can't just cut myself away from him. He knows I don't like him anymore, but he doesn't act like it! He acts like he's still my bf. He won't accept the facts.
2006-11-20 08:27:05 · update #1
why worry about what other people say and do. do what makes you happy.
2006-11-20 07:54:51 · answer #1 · answered by Jon C 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Never let others pick your mate for you.
True friends will give there opinions up front, say there, "I told you so's" in the beginning, but support you if it does fall apart.
It is impossible for "everyone" you know to like the person you like/love the most. You will not like all of your friends chioce of mate, but you give your opinions and warnings, since that is all you can do, because you can give the best advice in the world and their gonna do what they want to anyway.
Make your move!
2006-11-20 08:00:31 · answer #2 · answered by BionicNahlege 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to completely break off from your ex, forget about who hates him (unless of course you and your ex have a child together. You really haven't given enough background info for anyone to really advise you though.
2006-11-20 08:00:00 · answer #3 · answered by Baddest_Bandulu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok u knew him seens 4ever and u got feeling for him why don't you express your feelings and tell him face by face about how you feel....and who cares if you ex and friends hate him they are haters they just doing that because they don't act like they got some sence if you like him go for it..if u can't tell him face by face write him a letter and maybe he will understand where u coming from.......
2006-11-20 08:01:33 · answer #4 · answered by Joylissa M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is yr choice. sounds like some of the ppl you know are not worth knowing with the attitudes they have. maybe its time to find a new circle of friends. tell him you like him and ask him out. read tips on dating and relationships to help you more on this site
2006-11-20 07:55:33 · answer #5 · answered by yummy _ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u should go w/ the other guy anyway!!
who cares what ur ex says....isnt THAT why he is ur ex?
2006-11-20 07:56:45 · answer #6 · answered by Annie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like him go for it and if the others don't like it tell them to go f**k. it's your life so live it how you want
2006-11-20 08:01:46 · answer #7 · answered by tapneye75 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋