I've been hurt before but not like this I never ever want to be hurt by this person again or even see this person again but the truth is I want to forgive this person but it's hard to forget and forgive
how do I face her again???
2006-11-20 07:53:41 · 10 answers · asked by may_jhenae 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you are that willing to forgive that person, just give yourself enough TIME girl for the hurt to go away. If time comes that you think that you are ready to face her without hard feelings, then the two of you can talk about it. It might even be possible that you will be friends again.
2006-11-20 08:06:35 · answer #1 · answered by jadedmestone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can still forgive her and walk away from her for good. That way you will not ever be hurt by her again and you will always know that you still gave forgiveness.
2006-11-20 16:05:05 · answer #2 · answered by jarhed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to forgive or it's going to eat you alive but that doesn't mean you have to talk to this person or have anything to do with this person, but if you decide to be friends again then you'll need to forget or the relationship will never work, because you'll always be wondering if they're doing you wrong
2006-11-20 16:01:25 · answer #3 · answered by BROWNLYN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you forgive this person,
YOU get the benefit.because you will no longer feel hurt or angered by forgiving him,
he gets no benefit.
besides why would you love someone that hurts you?
and since you don't love him, why do you care?
2006-11-20 15:59:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't forgive her. Tell her that you have tried to make thigns work but it is just ending up unhealthy and you aren't being respected. Then, go and find a new friend that respects you for who you are.
2006-11-20 15:56:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember these things: forgive, but never forget....fool me once,shame on you--fool me twice, shame on me!!!!! forgiveness is a way to give yourself freedom from painful emotions, it is also a powerful way to "take the high road( and be the better woman @ the same time)".....free yourself, but you don't have to go back to being cool w/ her(things can't ever go back and be the same)....while your @ it forgive yourself for whatever, you deserve it.
2006-11-20 16:00:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not saying you must forget but you can forgive her ever one make mistake.
2006-11-20 15:57:47 · answer #7 · answered by Melody M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you don't! If she hurt you before, & you forgave her, & she's doing it again, then it's clear that you have let her know by your past behaviour that she can treat you that way, & it's OK with you.
Surround yourself with people who deserve your trust & loyalty, & cut the ones who have shown that they do not deserve your trust from your life.
2006-11-20 16:00:17 · answer #8 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just pray and forgive hold no grudges just move on and choose not to have that person in our life
2006-11-20 15:55:44 · answer #9 · answered by kiki_t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just walk away from them. Time and Good friend dont wait for the people who dont appreciate them. Just let that person regret what he/she did and will be begging you one day........
2006-11-20 15:57:19 · answer #10 · answered by ▒GO FLAMЄS▒ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋