Family & Relationships - 18 November 2006

im really shy sometime... like if im with some friends im calm and funny and all that stuff... but throw me in a crowd with some people i dont know and some girls, you can't get a word out of me.i just need to know how to loosen up and mingle with people i suppose. and not be shy!!!

2006-11-18 15:35:51 · 13 answers · asked by dragonslayer1912002 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-18 15:35:44 · 4 answers · asked by ♥andreaaa 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-18 15:34:47 · 10 answers · asked by Shortydeb 3 in Friends

My mom hates the fact. My step-mom dislikes it and my dad doesn't mind.
I don't care that they (dis)like it. Its hard to get a boyfriend though. I dont understand why they just can't accept it.
_I can't stand the comments from my mom:
"You walk like your father" (Whom I lived with for four years w/o a female in the house)
"can't you be a girl" (which I am I just can't stand dresses/skirts/pink/etc)
"Your a f*cking Dyke" (I am straight)
"Your feet are to big" (I am sorry 9.5 isn't big compared to my dad's 12's{yes they are both mens sizes})
"you only have one boyfriend"(my mom is a whore and I do have proof{she doesn't understand that I am not})
I don't mind the comments from my step-mom:
"Can you try to find a skirt when we go school shopping"(I kindly say yes then find nothing. she knows that happens every time)
_My dad's comment when I talk about others comments:
"Who complains that you like to different things"(cars, guns, jeans, sweatshirts, 4wheelers)
"I dont mind"

2006-11-18 15:34:28 · 10 answers · asked by (Vicki) 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

because my whos 9 gets along with my 2 sons fine my sons dont get along is this normal of no?

2006-11-18 15:33:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

youre in my shoes. there was this girl you were reallly really tight with, and you wre close to asking her out. but then she hooked up with this other guy, and you somehow managed to stay even tighter with her. now shes broken up with the other guy after 4 motnhs. what do you do now? 1. do yu ask her out right away (wudnt want to do that, cus itll look like i was waiting for them to breakup). 2. dont give her the chance (cus remember, its like beign runner up to this girl, and she seriosuly broke my heart back then). 3. or just wait awhile for everything to blow over, and she is worth the wait i guess. cus ive never fallen for a girl this bad. ionoo what to do. anyone help me out?? thankss =)

2006-11-18 15:32:32 · 14 answers · asked by some jersey kid 1 in Singles & Dating

Does the girl HAVE to go on birth control, or is a condom enough? I know that we hear of condoms breaking, but what are the odds? also, my boyfriend and I are both virgins and we have been talking about making love...we are both ready, im a little nervous because im afraid that its going to hurt too much...also, it sounds really stupid i know, but i dont really know where his penis is supposed to go... if anyone can give me a link that shows the difference in location, between the urethra and the vagina..that would be awesome, bc ive searched and i cant seem to find the difference.

2006-11-18 15:30:36 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like a guy and he's with my friend well i don't really call her a friend cuz we barely talk,but anyways he's always hitting on me and so months before he asked me to get with him when he was single but i didn't like him.now he makes me blush.what should i do?

2006-11-18 15:30:17 · 3 answers · asked by marlene 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-18 15:30:16 · 10 answers · asked by muffin 1 in Singles & Dating

My sister, who is older than I, has five children. She is not living with them right now because she cannot afford to get a place of her own. She was staying in a shelter and she has always been on welfare. The oldest of her children calls me and tells me that the people she is staying with beats them and they don't get enought to eat and they don't have any clothes to wear to school. The girl is 9 years old.
There is too much going on for me to type everything but let me say this: my sister is a hoe and she has a different "boyfriend" every two weeks.
I feel so badly for these kids because they are my blood. So much so that I am to the point where I'm just going to call children services and have them go into the system. I have already spoken to the department of children affairs and they told me what I need to do to get custody of them. But it will take awhile because I live in a different State.
I am married and I have no kids, my husband has a good career and I want to finish

2006-11-18 15:29:50 · 42 answers · asked by asia c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My youngest 10 grandchildren have learned to be very MOUTHY and have bad attitudes . How should I handle this when they are in my care? Believe it or not --their mothers are twin sisters and are loud bossy and controlling--One of my sons is loud and but loves kids and is somewhat of a perfectionist , but the other is quiet and lets wife control everythng. I do not want to punish the kids but don not want to be disrespected--Help!! I am 65 --my kids are 41 and 46-daughter-in -laws are 30 and did not have a high school education . I get along well with all of them and go with the flow. Please know that I DO NOT want control of anything or anyone . I just don't want the kids to be so negative and ungreatfull for all the wondeful ways their lives are good in . They can use some pretty nasty language and sign language,,, you know what I mean .

2006-11-18 15:28:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I mean how do the guys in porn do it? Some of those girls are NASTY!!

2006-11-18 15:28:09 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 15 and a girl asked me if i knew how to kiss. and she asked me if i had ever practiced on my own. she said to practice on my hand. is that true?

2006-11-18 15:28:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2006-11-18 15:27:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-18 15:27:22 · 5 answers · asked by nena 2 in Friends

2006-11-18 15:27:19 · 5 answers · asked by royrox 5 in Family

Do you think that it is wrong for someone to call you and tell you that they are on their way, but an hour later you call them and they are still not on their way?

2006-11-18 15:27:07 · 9 answers · asked by hbtm13 1 in Singles & Dating

who dumps her or him first?

2006-11-18 15:26:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when did you get your first kiss?

2006-11-18 15:25:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister is in an unhappy marriage. She wants to come home. She wants somebody in the family to fly to where she lives and help her pack her & her 2 kids' clothes up & help her drive a U-Haul back home. Problem is everybody works. The only thing we could do is drive to the nearest airport 4 hours away & pick her up at the airport. She lives in Illinois & Most of our family lives in Nevada. She is Materialistic & doesn't want to leave her stuff behind. She has called 3 times in 2 moths and said I want to come home & I have made arrangements to get her here & she calls a day or so later & says "things are good now" I know her husband very well knew him before they got married & he's not abusive. THe unhappy marriage is they don't communicate & they both make MOUNTAINS out of MOLEHILLS! I Love my sis & would like to help her, but when I only make 30,000 a year I live from paycheck to paycheck & can't help her & the rest of the family is in the same boat! What would you do?????

2006-11-18 15:24:47 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Got out of the hospital on Sunday. My friends had made plans with me prior to go on a road trip, drinking a big part of it. The condition my husband has was partly caused by alcohol. I left town for a couple of days and left a message on one of their phones the night before they were leaving saying I was taking care of other business. I think they've gone. How do I handle them when they get back; I know they'll be mad at me...as they told be a couple of days after we got home after the hospital, that I wasn't the one in the hospital and that I should go with them. Nice friends, eh?

2006-11-18 15:24:34 · 12 answers · asked by daff73 5 in Friends

2006-11-18 15:24:28 · 8 answers · asked by icy 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm a GUY by the way!

Let's say a guy likes a women, and she likes him, so they both like each other and they both know this.

But the instant the guy let's the girl know this verbally she backs off and does the playing hard to get bit, and this can go on for some time, it's annoying.

But when the guy stops chasing, she will start chasing back, and when he starts to chase again she runs again, eventually she stops and lets the guy CATCH her, but why it's pointless and annoying.

What I don't understand is when the GUY stops chasing for GOOD the girl feels really bad & horrible and won't leave the guy alone and all of sudden LET'S her feelings known, you had your chance so why can't the girl leave the guy alone now????

When the guy showed his feelings you played had to get, now he stopped chasing for good now you want him?

Why play this game....

2006-11-18 15:24:15 · 15 answers · asked by crazyinsane0000 1 in Singles & Dating

We were married for six yrs. We've been divorced for three yrs. and have a seven yr. old daughter. For the past year he has called me everyday (almost) and talks to me like we are best friends, we've always managed to be friends. This past month he's been talking about getting back together. This week he came over and we had sex and acted like we were married again. The thing is, I've been through some rough relationships and so has he, and this has left me feeling skeptical. I wonder does he just want sex or what? We haven't discussed where this going from here b/c we said we would just see how it works out. But, I'm wondering if he is playing games on me like the rest of the men have? I'm just an honest person and I don't like games so instead I'm at the receiving end all the time.

2006-11-18 15:23:51 · 7 answers · asked by precious girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay my best friend/crush had to go to the hospitol to get a tumor removed from his leg and junk was buying him two giant candy bars and a card that says "You always mean something deap down me I hope you get well". To much <.<

2006-11-18 15:23:48 · 15 answers · asked by b 2 in Friends

i cannot stand him..i dont know why. he gets on my nerves so bad and for no reason at all. i wont even be in the same room with him.without something starting an argument.what do i do. i think i have some kind of represed anger

2006-11-18 15:23:19 · 8 answers · asked by morgan l 1 in Family

Its getting to the point where my inbox is just overflowing with useless forwarded emails ... some of them are good, but I just delete them all. Its such a waste of time.

2006-11-18 15:22:36 · 15 answers · asked by synapse 4 in Friends

Ok, my husband thinks tha he doesnt have 2 do any of the house-work! He refuses to do ANYTHING! What should i do?

2006-11-18 15:21:25 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Children are said to be very adaptable, but is that always true?

2006-11-18 15:21:06 · 9 answers · asked by In Honor of Moja 4 in Marriage & Divorce

~My b/f & I have been together for 1 1/2 yrs
~We've just recently started having some slight problems but havn't really been fighting at all
SO here's the problem....
-I found a conversation between him and another girl that I don't know on myspace......
Her: Do you still go out with mary
Him: Yeah why
Her: that sux cuz my dad wnats me to go out wit u i dont know anyway he said i go places with u if u want to hang out anyway call me at ***-***-****
Him: That's cool
Her: wen do u think we can hang out if ya want to?
~Then there's a new convo that she sends......
Her: hey **** mary lol chill wit me lol i dont know me and my b..f broke up yesterday so i need to find me a new one and my dad said things about you..when do u work give me a call later
Hey IM me sometime at ********
~She's about 2 /3 years younger than me and my b/f
I know nothing else about her and I'm not sure if he's called her at all or not but i've found a few #'s in his phone that i didn't recognize... What now??

2006-11-18 15:20:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating