my sister husband cheated on her with her best friend what should she do?

Answer 1

That is the ultimate betrayal from both...she needs to leave him...I don't think that is something she would be able to overcome. He didn't even seek out a stranger. Obviously, he does not care for her or he would not disrespect her like that.

Answer 2

sometimes people make mistakes, i know, people don't always stop and think about who they are hurting, when they do the dumbest things.
this does not necessarily mean he would do it again. what your sister needs to do is, get the Boothe of them together.
as far as the friend, what kind of best friend doesn't know her boundary's, between a woman and her husband.
i know how this feels it has happen to me, i was 8 months pregnant, and i caught my husband with his x-wife in bed bumping uglies, and trust me it was all to ugly,

i flipped out and they both got the shitty end of the stick when i was done with them. nobody deserves to have that unnecessary selfish act done up on them. that is such a selfish thing to do.
she would have gotten one good beat down, I'll tell you that much.
if her husband really loves her, that is definitely no way to show it.
if i was his wife i would humiliate him.
make him call the doc office to make an appointment see the doc, and explain to the doc and the nurses that he needs to be tested for S.T.D's because he cheated on his wife, and tell her to go with him to make sure he tells them the truth about why he is thier,
as far as that nasty little whore, with friends like that who needs enimies. also if i where your sister, i won't even have anything to do with that friend, and let her know that she is never allowed to
even try to talking to her or him agian, also i would make it a point to speard the news. just to humiliate boothe of them. you can bet people are not going to ignor that. she would get one bad reputation.
they should try to work this out if they can get past this, the only thing is that the trust has been broken, that is a hard thing to get from a person, trust is not given away. it is definetily something that is earned. if she would be able to forgive him, she is going to have to trust him, if they are going to continue in there lives together. hopefully he learnt his lesson.
as far as what should you do. there really isn't anything you can do, but to be there for her a listen, try to give her some advise.
advise that is for the better. i hope she makes the rite diisisions in anything that she needs to do.
u just becarful that you don't get caught up to much in this,
cuz things can be turnt around and the fingure will be pointing at you. be there for your sister, just be careful so your not the bad person in the end

Answer 3

Obviously dump him! No telling how many others he cheated with!

If he has already cheated he has already left her. No telling how many more he will claim. Reminds me of the Clinton joke with the case of cans under the bed with hundreds of dollars. Each can represented a girl he cheated with. When the box got full he recylced them!

Now is the time to claim 1/2 or more!!!!!

:D

Answer 4

A cheating situation is never good.if she loves him he has hurt her a lot.and she want be Abel to forget it right away or ever.he might try to make it up to her.but, it will still hurt. the cheating that he did will probably never be gotten over in the marriage.I think they should seek the Lord.he is the only way.counseling want help because they cant fix the marriage they just charge you hundreds of dollars just to hear your problem. I hope i helped you. God bless!

Answer 5

Why complain about the husband alone when the seducer is none other than her close friend?

Answer 6

honestly, it's for your sister to deal with her life. if she's adult enough to make the decision to marry then she's also adult enough to determine and decide what to do in this situation. it's not for you to collect answers here and teach her what to do. it's the benefit of adulthood.

Answer 7

Goodbye Turkey!!!!!!

Answer 8

Simple answer to a tough question. DUMP HIS ***!! One has to have enough respect for themselves to say "I deserve better!!"

Answer 9

kill both of them

Answer 10

leave him