~My b/f & I have been together for 1 1/2 yrs
~We've just recently started having some slight problems but havn't really been fighting at all
SO here's the problem....
-I found a conversation between him and another girl that I don't know on myspace......
Her: Do you still go out with mary
Him: Yeah why
Her: that sux cuz my dad wnats me to go out wit u i dont know anyway he said i go places with u if u want to hang out anyway call me at ***-***-****
Him: That's cool
Her: wen do u think we can hang out if ya want to?
~Then there's a new convo that she sends......
Her: hey **** mary lol chill wit me lol i dont know me and my b..f broke up yesterday so i need to find me a new one and my dad said things about you..when do u work give me a call later
Hey IM me sometime at ********
~She's about 2 /3 years younger than me and my b/f
I know nothing else about her and I'm not sure if he's called her at all or not but i've found a few #'s in his phone that i didn't recognize... What now??
2006-11-18 15:20:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Want to play private I for a while (Get your mind out of the gutter)?
Follow him, find out what he's doing, check his phone, call his work, and if all else fails confront him. If he's unwilling to tell you he might not be boyfriend material.
2006-11-18 15:26:57 · answer #1 · answered by chromecranium 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok so first thing is first. obviously there are some trust issues going on here. you need to communicate. be honest with him and let him know you have found these things. If he is ready to end it with you then you need to let it end and not linger on any longer. the sooner you break it off the better. he may just want to make a new friend but talk to him first and find out first hand. if he lies about it show him the proof print out the conversations and let him know you want honesty. good luck hope this helps
2006-11-18 23:28:27 · answer #2 · answered by brookesingsalways 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u already know the answer... he might not be faithful, from this lil' piece of conversation, it seems that she knows a lot about him and his relationship with u so it makes u wonder what else is going on?! so it's best that u talk to him and from his answer then u'll know what to do.
2006-11-18 23:29:15 · answer #3 · answered by desperate girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out. No reason to stick around. You're so young that there is no point to having a long term monogamous relationship. He's not trustworthy.
2006-11-18 23:24:05 · answer #4 · answered by OU812 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is the thing, this could be innocent of nothing, but it doesn't matter how high you build that fence if that ol dog wants to jump it, he or she will. Sit this one out, see what happens. You can't make someone do things your way no matter how you feel about him.
2006-11-18 23:27:47 · answer #5 · answered by missy j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, DON'T accuse your boyfriend of infidelity - esp since it sounds like he has been broadsided by this girl. Also, do not try to talk with her - keep it between you and your b/f. Did he agree to meet with her? Probably, you don't have anything to worry about! Hopefully, you can trust him.
2006-11-18 23:25:37 · answer #6 · answered by Audania 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be up front with him and ask him. make sure you didnt get the wrong info and if he is goin wit this girl let him, why would you want to be with someone who does that? God bless
2006-11-18 23:29:13 · answer #7 · answered by Lfeata 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like u got a player on ur hands
2006-11-18 23:26:27 · answer #8 · answered by chatter_chipmunk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you've got a problem.
2006-11-18 23:23:23 · answer #9 · answered by Singinganddancing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no trust = no relationship
by the way, are you snooping? maybe you dont have any trust
2006-11-18 23:23:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋