Got out of the hospital on Sunday. My friends had made plans with me prior to go on a road trip, drinking a big part of it. The condition my husband has was partly caused by alcohol. I left town for a couple of days and left a message on one of their phones the night before they were leaving saying I was taking care of other business. I think they've gone. How do I handle them when they get back; I know they'll be mad at me...as they told be a couple of days after we got home after the hospital, that I wasn't the one in the hospital and that I should go with them. Nice friends, eh?
2006-11-18 15:24:34 · 12 answers · asked by daff73 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Your first priority is to your husband! These people lack empathy and compassion. Do you truly want friends such as these? I would have nothing more to do with such people...ever! Hope your husband is better.
2006-11-18 15:31:32 · answer #1 · answered by jom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as though your husband is greater questioning approximately his occupation than his important different and childrens, so take a wreck. particularly of having up early and making breakfast and cleansing, flow to the gymnasium with him. flow to his suits and remind him how stable he's at it. danger is he probable would not anticipate you to do lots of the failings you do and if like some adult men, probable would not even understand you're doing it. Take a wreck from all the housekeeping, without letting it get out of control on your sake, and breathe. Get some girlfriends jointly and take a trip, without your hubby. If he asks why, tell him you choose for a wreck. Marriage is a 2 way highway and if he's no longer supplying you with what you choose for, end giving him better than he desires. Southern bells do no longer should be taken care of like nannies and maids! If all else fails and you may not seem to shake the bitterness, start up searching for legal help and dont experience guiltly approximately it. All you may provide is your superb!
2016-12-29 05:10:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure this will be said in most, if not all, of the answers to this question, but they are not friends. Your husband's condition was your top priority to you, and should have been. You are being supportive of him, and going out on a trip to do something that was (is?) a problem enough to partially cause a medical problem wouldn't be that supportive. You did the right thing, and they have no reason AT ALL to be angry. They should be supporting YOU, also.
2006-11-18 15:28:37 · answer #3 · answered by erinbear_1876 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you are wondering if you did the right thing is the first thing wrong with this scenario. Second, if your friends don't understand that you need to stay with your husband, then they're idiots. You can still be friends with them, but now you know that your friends are idiots.
2006-11-18 15:28:17 · answer #4 · answered by OU812 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u did the right thing staying with your husband, and if they dont understand that there not friends or who needs friends like that they should have supported u and your husband in a time of need good luck and i hope your husband is better
2006-11-18 15:28:59 · answer #5 · answered by tigger 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Isnt your husband more important right now? I think if they are your friends that they will understand what you are dealing with, and that they should want to help you. I dont think you have done anything wrong staying with your husband.
2006-11-18 15:30:52 · answer #6 · answered by designerista 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good god if the friends do not understand a heart attack then they apparently have no heart . Do not tell them anything if they are rude dump each and every o0ne of them!!!
2006-11-18 15:30:32 · answer #7 · answered by hotchilipepper 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't care about what they said. I would be in the hospital with my wife. (I would tell them to eat sh-t, but that's me).
I wonder what they would do if you were in the hospital?
2006-11-18 15:32:57 · answer #8 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you even want anything to do with them? Just be busy with your own life and drift away.
2006-11-18 15:28:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/friend
2006-11-18 15:50:16 · answer #10 · answered by AlwaysWondering 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋