im not sure what to do about my father?

Question

i cannot stand him..i dont know why. he gets on my nerves so bad and for no reason at all. i wont even be in the same room with him.without something starting an argument.what do i do. i think i have some kind of represed anger

Answer 1

Why don't you sit down and write about him...maybe you will realize where this anger is coming from.

Answer 2

Hey, I had the same problems with my dad. I couldn't enter a room without him yelling at me or knocking me across the room and for no apparent reason. I stayed away from him as much as possible. But one day it all came out when he hit my sister and I stood up to him. I was very angry but I didn't hit him and I didn't let him hit me. But he never gave me a bad time again.

Answer 3

i have the same problem with my father and i still have no idea what to do about him as well. i have come to realize that i am more mature than him most times. when i was growing up i had to raise my sister and brother that was some of my problem with my father. my mother worked 3 rd. shift and he worked 1 st. shift. i had to cook, clean and then the moring comes then get everyone and me to the school bus.

Answer 4

Honey, this is your father. You need to give a little here. I know that you fight with him, but we all did this at one stage in our lives. Trust me he might get on your nerves but you do love him. He is the only father you have, so cherish it. It is hard, but try and do stuff together. This might help you's to get along more with eachother. Don't be to hard on him. He might be having a hard time at work or just depressed or something. Try talking to him and tell him how you feel. Tell him that you don't like to fight with him all the time. He does love you to, you know. He might just not know how to express it thats all.

Answer 5

God told us to respect and honor your parents.

If you have no reason to honor them, then you are the problem.

Tell you father that you are a pcs. of shiq and you need time alone (to be with maggots) and you will look him up soon.

If you dont have a good reason to treat your dad like shiq, then you should leave him alone, but at least tell him its your fault.

I think you are pathetic.

Answer 6

do what i do. i write all my thoughts down in a notebook or on a piece of paper. it may sound stupid but it works.

when your in the same room as him just stay calm and it will work out.

if your christian or whatever try praying about it.

Answer 7

I think you do have repressed anger. If he treated you bad in the past it happens.I have the same problem

Answer 8

I don't know your age, but when possible, just yes him to death, when it's important to respond, just say your piece and let it go.