Family & Relationships - 16 November 2006

Help!! ok i went out with my best freind who's a guy last year, and we broke up but since then i've been lovin him like crazy. and since 1st grade we declared ourselves best frineds.I know that he dusnt have the same feelings about him as i do. but a few days ago he asked a girl out and now theyre dating!!! i cant take it. wat do i do? do i stay his best freind? but its sorta hard when u love him and another girl is in the way. plz help!! ps the girl who he's going out with is my freind. I really have feelings for him but i know he dusnt and if i tell him i do (again) it'll be realy embarassing and then my freind wont be my freind anymore!! wat do i do!!!!! should i stay his friend????!!!! WHAT do I DO?!?!! it really hurts inside.

2006-11-16 11:37:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

umm you like say nascar but its not your favourite thing then you know that the guy u like likes it more so you make it your favourite

2006-11-16 11:37:03 · 13 answers · asked by baby g 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 11:36:57 · 7 answers · asked by hard o 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

His father didnt sign the birth certificate.
He doesnt have a job
Hes abusive to me
He dosent want to get a job, he'd rather stand on the cornner.
he older than me but sounds like I have another kid for a babydaddy

2006-11-16 11:36:47 · 11 answers · asked by traci 1 in Singles & Dating

ok for example you have been dating this guy for like about 2 months and then u feel comfortable enough to have sex with him. should u wait over a year to do it or will that be to soon and u will just end up hurting each-other and eventually breaking up?

2006-11-16 11:36:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a friend, and she is constantly trying to hang around w/ ppl that SHE SAID say lots of **** about us ( and thats why we're not friends w/ em) ( im our school, you have ur friends back...but im not so sure if she's returning the Favor)... how can i get revenge on my friend w/ out making it too obvious of what im doing?

2006-11-16 11:36:35 · 4 answers · asked by Lovely<3 3 in Singles & Dating

There's no way it's my fault!

2006-11-16 11:35:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

12 years ago my aunt and uncle went behind my families back and ordered the doctors to cut off my dads life support. Even tho they were not the next of Kin the doctors listened and did it. I dont know if there was money involved or not. They didnt go to his funeral and I've only talked them once or twice since. That was 8 years ago. Should i talk to them? should i even go see them? or should i just forget them? I know its a question for me to answer but im stuck so WHAT WOULD U DO?

2006-11-16 11:34:45 · 21 answers · asked by Lil Kaluha5555555 2 in Family

But i have already went out with 4 people! and i dont know how to tell her i'm mature ebough to and i've been interested in guys since 3rd grade! i mean my mom is way to stric

2006-11-16 11:34:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Came up on the street and told you, you look like a really nice person and introduced myself and asked you to go get some coffee with me to talk?

2006-11-16 11:34:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriends mom is soo picky. Last year we bought her a 5ct. beautiful garnet necklace. She never wore it and gave it to her daughter. We also got her a good cd that she wanted and she returned it. His family doesnt believe in gift cards because they think its like we didnt care enough to take the time and buy a real gift. We plan on spending around $75 on her. What the heck do we get her. All I know is that she is a neat freak and she is not into jewlry, clothes, or electronics.

2006-11-16 11:33:47 · 17 answers · asked by angel l 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My mother is a hateful, bitter, depressing woman. She never likes who I am dating,or any of my friends. She wants me to come to her home for holidays, but doesn't want anyone else around, or complains about it if I do invite someone the next day. She says hateful things to me, like why don't you and your son just stay the **** away from me. The chick is nutts I tell ya, she says don't stand on the porch smoking a cigarette the people will talk, oh don't speak to her the people will talk, tell that person to go away I dont wanna talk, she has completely lost her mind. Mind you I am not a child I am over 30, I have my own home, a career and I am a graduate student. I am always buying stuff for my mom and trying to please her and win her affection by getting rid of boyfriends because she says they are loosers, or getting rid of friends until I noticed that that was everyone that I ever datedor knew. I had enough, she said stay away and this time I am tempted to just leave her alone.

2006-11-16 11:33:27 · 8 answers · asked by Jazz 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

He has more money than I do but I was thinking pebble beach weekend and inviting his best friend to come along for the game so he has someone to play with and then giving him a romantic 2 nights with just him and I with lots of sex and nice dinners.

2006-11-16 11:33:20 · 6 answers · asked by Sxoxo 5 in Singles & Dating

either in a make you smile for the rest of the day kinda way ...or a Clint Eastwood 'come on punk' kinda way...lol...;0)

2006-11-16 11:32:47 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My childs father doesnt want to sign the birth certificate eventhough he know he is the father. He afraid of child support.
He dosent have a job and dosent plan on getting on ang he might have another child on the way which means he cheated.
Why should I let him keep my child?

2006-11-16 11:32:32 · 15 answers · asked by traci 1 in Family

2006-11-16 11:32:26 · 17 answers · asked by Daddy 1 in Singles & Dating

It bothers me and the kids but she won't stop. The youngest one is starting to be affected by this. Any suggestions?

2006-11-16 11:32:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Like besides Make up .... Do they enjoy it more or what?

2006-11-16 11:31:21 · 26 answers · asked by BeatyIsInTheEyesOfTheBeholder 1 in Singles & Dating

I thought I was paying a compliment to my girlfriend by telling her "For a fat person you sure don't sweat much" She got very angry,but we finally made up.

2006-11-16 11:30:31 · 10 answers · asked by sumrtanman 5 in Singles & Dating

Dont u hate it when u give a person so much, like ur heart, ur love, and ur trust??You go through so much to keep ya'll together, be in&out fights, confrontin different girls!!I mean is worth all dat??How could a dude treat someone so bad??I mean espically when they got a good girlfriend, who has never cheated, havent had sex with anybody but him!!And that's how she gets treated??Then to top it all off, Im 7months pregnant!!My cousin always said once a person cheats on u, dont let them get away with it!!I mean I know that inorder for me to move on, I have to forget&forgive, but its sooo hard!!!!But sometimes there are those happy days, that he makes me feel like the world revovles around me!!But I just need to know, what now??I mean I dont work, but things about to change after I have my baby in January!!What cha think about it??We been together for 4years, is it time to go??

2006-11-16 11:29:27 · 3 answers · asked by playagurl062003 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 11:28:44 · 7 answers · asked by copycat 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Please help i need advice?
i am planning to kiss the guy i like, he like me too but he is shy.
wat u think?
if u have tell me how it turn out to be.
please help



this question is for adult only

2006-11-16 11:28:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you had an affair but chose to end it and stay with your significant other, did you still think about it everyday and lie about how you really felt? (just wondering because my man of 6 years met a woman aka whore, at work and they went out behind my back, and he broke it off with me for about a month, just so he didn't feel guilty while partying with this whore. Anyway we are back together living in a new place, trying new things and I am just wondering what he might be thinking about all this. he says he loves me and that if he didn't want to be with me then I wouldn't be here. Could you please answer honestly. Thank you

2006-11-16 11:28:14 · 18 answers · asked by joyall57 2 in Marriage & Divorce

mine was 4 hours long. lol.

2006-11-16 11:28:09 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I finally talked to the extremely shy girl, that i like. HEr friends helped me during my p.e class and i sort of played ping pong wit her and i talked to her. Now shes not afraid of me and she even sat next to me. The only question that i have is.. what should i do next?

2006-11-16 11:27:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 11:27:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well I have this second cousin who I have not said 20 words to in my life. But Me and his best friend kinda had a thing and so did him and my best friend..but neither of those "things" worked out so my cousin started hittin on me. and I kinda "hit" right back. I don't want to do my friend wrong but he doesn't really care bout his friend. Anyway, he wants to do me and I kind of feel the same way right back...is that wrong or sickening? What do I do b/c I really do kinda like him "like" that...oh and he has a gf but he don't really like her that much...and we talk on the phone almost every day. We might get to go to the movies together too... Advice or comments?

2006-11-16 11:26:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What should I do? I dumped my ex because I found out that he cheated on me....and I still want to be with him...b/c he's my first and I love him,but he told me he had a girlfriend now,but he doesnt do anything with her. Then he tells me I cant date, or do anything with nobody. Like he owns me, and we were together for almost 4 years. I mean I've gone through so much **** for him. Should I sacrifice more? It's not like I havent done anything with anybody else. I just dont want to break his heart. Even though he's broken mine. Im almost over him, but Im afraid Im making a BIG mistake. How do I know if he still has feelings for me? He's always jelous and he tells me that he is not a jelous person he used to tell me to stay home and do nothing,and he used to tell me who to hang out with,and that I always choose my friends over him. He is always putting me down. He always asks me if Im going to hang out with my boyfriend or something. I think I should just move on more but I dont know howto

2006-11-16 11:26:05 · 4 answers · asked by Vanessa B 1 in Singles & Dating

is going to be my 2nd aniversary i want to make something with my boyfriend, what do you think that i can do, is a surprise for him.

2006-11-16 11:25:01 · 2 answers · asked by JENNIFER JOPEZ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

There's this boy who used to look (with no expression) at me all the time (in the hallways, lunch, homeroom, and every other place), when I found out, I looked back.
Ever since I've been looking back, he's been ignoring me.
What's the deal?

Btw, I've never spoken a word to him.

2006-11-16 11:24:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating