Family & Relationships - 16 November 2006

I have been with him for awhile now, and about once a week i get disgusted with him. He lives in a dumpy apartment with a dirty roommate, has a crappy job, wears lame clothes and walks like he has a stick between his legs. BUT he is the sweetest, most sincere man i have ever known and we have a lot of interests in common. He supports me emotionally and we get along wonderfully. I feel caring and love for him one day, then annoyance and disgust with him the next. How can I marry someone I'm not sure I'm 100% in love with? If I break it off it will break his heart, and probably mine too.

2006-11-16 10:59:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

as a woman, I'm interested in a meeting of the minds!

2006-11-16 10:59:40 · 14 answers · asked by lu06sh 1 in Singles & Dating

i mean come on try at least to find a steady gf first indstead or a one night stand guys r such pigs not all of u but some of u......... thank god!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-16 10:58:34 · 10 answers · asked by morgan s 1 in Singles & Dating

i think he likes me? what should i do~?????????help

2006-11-16 10:57:47 · 2 answers · asked by my heart is broken 818 1 in Singles & Dating

why do preppy people think their so much better than everybody?

2006-11-16 10:57:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i think i'm falling..for my best friend?
i've never told anyone this but...heres the deal...i met my best friend freshman year..we are now juniors and very close....but the thing is over the past years...i think something clicked inside me..and i've developed feelings for him..strong feelings...i dont know what to do...we do everything together...he tells people he loves them and hugs just about anybody including me..but the thing that makes me wonder the most is..we went with my family on vacation for a week and we stayed at my aunts house for 2 days..when we where wathing tv..out of no where he kisses me on the temple....???..i didnt say anything..but i reagret it everyday..how do i know it he feels the same?...things havent been the same since..its real awkward...WE'VE STARTED TO ARGUE..over silly things but he always ends up hugging me or we just laugh about it...the other night i hugged him and he kept bragging about how good it was???. read the rest please ~V

2006-11-16 10:57:28 · 3 answers · asked by cubs_gurl97 1 in Friends

i was really good friends with this guy in school but he doesn't know i developed a crush on him. recently, my classmates assumed or suspected i do like him even though i deny it (i'm shy ok?). now i think someone's spreading rumors or something. everyone's looking at me differently and now he won't look at me or talk to me like he used to everyday. what's his problem? did i just spend the last month crushing on some chickenshit coward?? right now, i'm like the hot topic in my grade. oh well, might as well give them something to talk about....

2006-11-16 10:56:46 · 6 answers · asked by Annie 3 in Friends

Had a wicked date last night, we got on well, there was spark, he was interesting, funny, attentive, etc, etc, and he text me when I got home, said he'd like to see me again, and we also had a little kiss. BUT, I haven't heard from him today! I may sound neurotic, but I did expect a 'thanks for a cool night' text at least. Or is he reasonable to leave it a day? Or 2?

Have had too many tosser men in the past so don't know if I'm being a cynical over reactor, or if he's being a game player?

Opinions please!

2006-11-16 10:56:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can you please list some do's and don'ts of the first date???

No Rude or Mean Answers PLEASE!

2006-11-16 10:56:39 · 10 answers · asked by Under_the_sunset 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't have any photos, but I have a blank really nice love photo album. Any ideas on what I can put on the inside?

2006-11-16 10:55:46 · 2 answers · asked by booneys_girl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-16 10:55:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

that my first time would be with someone who really loved me and who I was head over heals in love with and my last gf and I were like that but we didnt have sex because she wanted to stick to her religious beliefs of no sex b4 marriage even though we got really close in bed. It broke my heart when we split but I respected her beliefs because I love/loved her but now im wondering am I wrong to be thinking that the fact my first time wont be with my first love and
therefore it wont be as special?
I wanted to ask people is the person who you had your first time with really special to you and deep down do you have feelings for them or are they just that person and nothing more?
or should I just do it with a random girl. Ive waited because I promsied myself to save myself for someone special but now im wondering should I wait because im in 2 minds im desperate to do it so hence why im thinking of a random girl or should I still wait for the next time I feel like its right to do it?

2006-11-16 10:54:30 · 19 answers · asked by Music fan 4 in Singles & Dating

I think I got my girlfriend pregnant and the doctor said we will have a baby in August. The least I could do is name the baby.

BTW, I am a Christian but God didn't make us perfect. We all have problems.

2006-11-16 10:54:21 · 22 answers · asked by God_is_my_Strength 1 in Singles & Dating

theres this guy whom ive been dating for about a month we usually talk everyday n go out once or twice a week cuz hes pretty busy at work. we've already had sex and i didnt really change how things were goin. but sometimes i send him messages on yahoo and he wont reply, he jus signs off a few minutes later. i asked him maybe a week ago what he was lookin for (relationship wise) and he said he wasnt sure, he said the enjoyed my company and he really liked talkin to me but that was it.i dont know if he said that cuz he really doesnt know what he wants n he jus wants to see what happens or hes not interested in a realtionship n just said that to keep me around so he can keep gettin laid...should i try talkin to him again or should i give it a little more time?

2006-11-16 10:53:25 · 15 answers · asked by sandyscheeks 2 in Singles & Dating

Orgasm... This is a serious question. When I was younger, my legs would always shake and that's how I knew for sure.
Lots of times sex and foreplay feels extremely good, but I don't come enought to know if it is just wetness or and orgasm.
Please help, it is so embarassing when a man asks me if I've come and I don't know the answer!
So I just say "I think so."
And they're like "wouldn't you know for sure if you did?!?"

2006-11-16 10:52:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 10:52:36 · 17 answers · asked by mpn501 1 in Singles & Dating

i dont neccessarily mean famous people although you can say anyone you like...you can include family...friends...animals...whatever...have fun...;0)

2006-11-16 10:51:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think that a 20 year boy is to old for a girl who just turn 17 years old???Because this boy asked me out and he is 20 years old and i live in newark nj and he lives in jackson nj thats down the shore from me and that is my older brothers ex gf cousin and i just dont know i only saw him a couple of times when i went down the shore with my brother and his girl at the time he was nice and all but i really want to know what should i do because i told him that im not ready for a realtionship yet but i want to get to know him more do u think he is to old for me and that i told him i would like to get 2 know him better??????

2006-11-16 10:51:36 · 19 answers · asked by njsweetheart69 1 in Singles & Dating

they say women pick men who are like their fathers, so do u believe this to be true. if your father was a screw-up are you doomed to failed relationships or can the cycle be broken?

2006-11-16 10:50:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 10:50:54 · 6 answers · asked by spikehead 1 in Singles & Dating

why doesnt she want to hold my hand. we have been dating for a month and a half and she still doesnt hold my hand. what should i do? plz help any advice will help thank you in advance

2006-11-16 10:50:01 · 10 answers · asked by Sub_Zero 2 in Singles & Dating

(like clues that he likes you)

2006-11-16 10:49:48 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

Your child/children or your husband? Don't say all but in different ways. If you had to choose who would you choose.

2006-11-16 10:49:28 · 19 answers · asked by deedee 2 in Family

i am in highschool and plan to not do it till i am 18. i am not against the whole premarital sex thing but sometimes i fell physically ready and not mentally and as much nice my ex was nice about this it seems like its hard for guys to deal with that especially preps like me in hs

2006-11-16 10:49:17 · 36 answers · asked by no longer caligirl. 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 10:48:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

As i said i'm shy. I tend to get lost for words when i compliment girls. I just don't know how to compliment them bcos wen i do, i sound very nervous (even when i'm extremely serious) and i think that she won't take it seriously. How should i praise a girl for dressing up really well for this dance (not just saying things like "you look nice")? How can i both be honest and compliment her in a unique way?

2006-11-16 10:48:09 · 18 answers · asked by hugh b 1 in Singles & Dating

we used to 2 times a day, after a year, twice a week and now (5 years) three times a month. every time we do its amazing, more so for her because i make sure she gets off twice each time. I want to have sex 4 times a week. Its killing me and making me really upset.

2006-11-16 10:48:00 · 17 answers · asked by bnuts 1 in Singles & Dating

Does the idea of taking your pantyhose off, wrapping them over a guy's head and running your crotch up and down it strike you as something you'd try, or totally sick and perverse?

I saw it in some movie once, and didn't know if women were really into this........

2006-11-16 10:47:58 · 10 answers · asked by heymanchase 1 in Singles & Dating

I wanna be friends with this girl but I dont know how to start talking to her? I tryed to borrow a pen just to strike a conversation but nothing happend.

how do I become friends with her? please help

2006-11-16 10:47:07 · 3 answers · asked by [quarantine] 3 in Singles & Dating

I am 25 years old and no guy has ever had this effect on me, I have been nervous about it all week! What do i do, I dont want to set myself up and just be dissapointed either!

2006-11-16 10:46:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating