Family & Relationships - 16 November 2006

so there is this guy i like and im feeling pretty confident and i want to seduce him . but what do you say to seduce a guy?? how can i blow him away so he cant resist??? but i dont wanna make it slutty ... i wanna make it romantic and passionate. he doesnt know me very well, so i wanna do this to really impress and blow his mind. (i dont care for a relationship after, i just wanna do this)

2006-11-16 10:35:08 · 6 answers · asked by lily 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, I've been with this girl for over six months, and we're really hitting it off. the problem was that my relationship before this was just as good, but it ended really messily. Well, lately, I've gotten back in touch with my ex from that realtionship, and we've become good friends, like we were before. my problem is that I keep getting flashbacks and urges from the time we were going out. I will admit that i still love my ex, but I would like to think that it's not the same love I had for her nearly year ago. It's hurting my relationship and I can't do anything about it. my ex and now girlfriends are really good friends, but my girlfriend is afraid i'll leave her for my ex. I'm afraid that I might too. It really sucks because I thought I was over her, I guess i'm not. Any suggestions?

2006-11-16 10:34:54 · 9 answers · asked by kiatzu_shutendo 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 10:34:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 10:34:19 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this one guy for a little over 2 years, and I think I have fallen out of love with him. What used to be cute is now annoying, and what used to be annoying now makes me want to smack him. He is still VERY much in love with me, and takes for granted that we'll be together forever. He's really sweet and I hate to break his heart. Advice?

2006-11-16 10:33:58 · 22 answers · asked by purrr:) 3 in Singles & Dating

she knows that santa isnt real so shes asking me for it......

2006-11-16 10:33:41 · 15 answers · asked by Missmymama 1 in Family

2006-11-16 10:33:20 · 10 answers · asked by Andrew W. 2 in Singles & Dating

We went out but we broke up because she started to listen to other girls about how I always cheated on somebody and acted like nothing every happen, but I haven't felt the same since we broke up and now we don't talk.

2006-11-16 10:32:48 · 24 answers · asked by Sport O 1 in Singles & Dating

there is a boy at my school that i liked but today i found out hes going out with a girl

2006-11-16 10:32:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really don't get escort services. When you have a girl come to your house, what happens. Can you kiss, makeout? Can you take a shower together? Have sex?

2006-11-16 10:32:22 · 11 answers · asked by slowhand6780 1 in Singles & Dating

i just answered a question about whats better abercrombie or hollister. i mean they are from the same owner and yet different cause ones more peppy and i love them both. and then bigger retards i swear who ask even dumber ones. and my questions like dealing with bf gets deleted for no eson and i know thisone will as well but it really bugs me though

2006-11-16 10:31:24 · 20 answers · asked by no longer caligirl. 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been seeing someone for just over a year. I started noticing that when ever he would refer to what we have, he would avoid saying relationship, there have even been times where he would say rel... and then change it to friendship. So I asked him and he said this is a friendship, then said he thought he made that clear when we started dating (1 year ago) that he wasn't looking for anything serious. But for the past year we do couple things, dates, hanging out with each others kid(s), sex, everything a people in a relationship do. I told him that I don't f*@k my friends, I was really upset and him and at myself for being clueless. He didn't understand my frustration. He said that he is not intersted in being with anyone else and that he loves spending time with me, and can that be so bad to the 2 of us the enjoy spending time with each other. Now about 4 mo ago I told him I loved him and he hasn't said it back. He is 40 and I am in my late 20's. I would love advice from older guys

2006-11-16 10:30:48 · 8 answers · asked by CHA_CHA 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 10:29:44 · 11 answers · asked by ajriz16 1 in Singles & Dating

my husband is the manager at this really nice restaurant. there is this 22 year old girl (shift manger) that calls our house and his cell phone almost everyday. i have met her and i can't stand her! my husband had a interview for another job yesterday and she called and left a message to wish him good luck and was very flirty. i got soooo mad. i told my husband that he needed to talk to her or that i would call her and tell her to stop calling unless its an emergency at the restaurant. we got in a fight about it cuz he said that it would be embarrassing for him if i called her. i know she likes my husband but he doesn't think so. i know that he doesn't flirt back with her but still....it makes me mad that she knows that he's married and we have a 3 1/2 month old baby. i want to call her and tell her to back the **** off but my husband would get really mad. he told me yesterday that he talked to her, but she keeps calling. should i call her or wait til i see her at the restaurant?

2006-11-16 10:28:53 · 18 answers · asked by sexymama06 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am dating a man 6 years older than me and we are engaging in sexual intercorse. We are active together and have been since the first night. (is that bad?) I know he has had a few serious relationships before in which he was really hurt! Apparantly he feels that he cannot love very many people. He is an amazing guy, and things are great, he just doesn't say he loves me, is that bad? Maybe he wants to make sure the love is real, I know I really love him.
I know he cares, but I am too afraid to say it first. what should I do? We have been together for 3 1/2 months, is it just too soon?
I often assume part of it is just because he issuch a serious guy, should I tell him I love him?
I guess its like they say, love is under used and overrated!

2006-11-16 10:28:45 · 2 answers · asked by amy-j 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 10:28:10 · 6 answers · asked by Sheila 2 in Singles & Dating

You still loved................

In the beginning, she was the only thing only thing on your mind, you wouldn't take any chances of losing her.
But once love came along you knew she would never leave, because what you had was special. So you didn't have to try as hard any more to keep her.
The flame still burned but not as high
You still looked into her eyes but not as deep
You still held her hand but not as tight
You always wanted to hear her voice like you did in the beginning but you didn't call anymore
Instead of being her loving night in shining armor, you were a junior high crush in tin foil
You still say i love you and you still meant it, but its not as convincing
You would still walk through fire for her, but you would think twice before you did it.
But one day she looked into your eyes and it caught you, your heart skipped a beat, your hands sweat, chills ran down your back, and you realized why you chose her in the first place, and now thats why your in love.
You realized all you did wrong and you take her in your arms. And you promise that you'll always love her.
The flame still burns but now twice as high
You looked into her eyes but now you get lost in them
you hold her hand so tight she wanders if you'll ever let it go
you always make sure her voice is the last one you hear before you go to bed at night.
Your her night in shining armor, but with gold around the edges.
And everytime you say you say i love you, she knows you'll always always be there.

2006-11-16 10:28:10 · 17 answers · asked by misslikestotalk 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 10:27:51 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i had bad realationship with him he liked to get his own way an when he didnt he hit i finished it and moved on we r both married now.i work in a store and he recently came in with a family member who i had to serve but i didnt acknowledge him i have seen him and his wife 2gether b4 and been civil 2 them but he acts like an *** i dont want to b friends or anything but sometimes i want 2 ask her what her prob is?she knows im married and has seen me about with my husband i know what shes got and shes welcome to it i feel sorry 4 her ...what do u think??

2006-11-16 10:27:49 · 11 answers · asked by sarah71397 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I absolutely adore my wife and we have been married for almost 20 years. Her birthday is coming up and I would like some incredible thoughts from you out there. Thanks in advance.

2006-11-16 10:27:44 · 15 answers · asked by joe d 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Well we broke up after 2 months, but i really like her now

2006-11-16 10:26:49 · 6 answers · asked by iceman484 1 in Singles & Dating

He's a couple years older than me (I'm 14, he's 16) and he hasn't shown any signs of liking me as anything more than a friend, but I just can't stop thinking about him!!! I only see him every couple weeks, but I look forward to our next meeting all the time and think about him daily. This is the first person I've felt this strongly about. Help...what do I do?? We are both Jewish and we met because we're both in the same group of about 6-7 people going to Israel this winter. I only see him when we have meetings about the trip, but I'm hoping for some kind of magic when we go to Israel for two weeks (without parents!). I want to tell him how I feel, but am too nervous and there never seems to be the perfect moment. Also, I'm afraid that it will ruin the trip for me if he doesn't like me back because it would be kind of akward. It's already ruining the trip though because I am looking forward to spending time with him more than the trip itself...what if I am disappointed? Help!!

2006-11-16 10:26:36 · 6 answers · asked by michielev 2 in Singles & Dating

i do not no if i should invite him over imm kinda thinkin 'yes'but if i do, do you think he will come?if i hang out with him to much will he get tired of me?where is the best place to invite a bf to?something that doesent cost to much something where we will both have fun...im going to a dance with him too what should i talk to him about?i no i got lots af questoins but can yal help me??

2006-11-16 10:26:34 · 6 answers · asked by destiny 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 10:24:18 · 14 answers · asked by RC 2 in Singles & Dating

I want him to be mine, and shes just in the way, she don't care about him or anything.

2006-11-16 10:24:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we've been together off on five years, we've done toys, lingere, bondage, dirty talk, i 've stripped for him, every room, out side, in the car, every positon i can think of, porn, what can i do to surprise him?

And he doesn't want a threesome, I've asked!

2006-11-16 10:23:58 · 10 answers · asked by krissy 5 in Singles & Dating

Ceci lived in Morris Plains, NJ and moved to Albuquerque, NM any help would be helpful.

2006-11-16 10:23:40 · 2 answers · asked by jim s 1 in Friends

We have been dating for three months and I really like him the only problem is every time we have sex he's a little too gentle. I don't mind "making love" every once in awhile but most times I just want him to bit(h-slap me on to the bed and overpower me. I love a guy who dominates and does stuff like pull my hair or grab me and just shove it in. I love to feel my guy's strength. But He views sex as such a sacred thing and because of that he's just too nice. How should I tell him to be more forceful?

2006-11-16 10:22:38 · 26 answers · asked by Caligirl 3 in Singles & Dating

when ı see him last time we had an argue.We argue cause ı asked him could u please hug me for a while he said no.That's why i am mad and ı just shut the door and go to my house after that he never call me again:(the last time i saw him 10 days ago.He always doing the same things.When we have an argument he is calling me ten day after such as we never had an argument and he speak so relax like nathing happen.And he never mention to argument. I really couldn't understand his behaviour and i don't know what i have to do?

2006-11-16 10:22:28 · 19 answers · asked by oz 1 in Singles & Dating

did u notice how there are so many gray faces woth like no avatars. isint that weird

2006-11-16 10:22:25 · 9 answers · asked by no longer caligirl. 2 in Singles & Dating