when ı see him last time we had an argue.We argue cause ı asked him could u please hug me for a while he said no.That's why i am mad and ı just shut the door and go to my house after that he never call me again:(the last time i saw him 10 days ago.He always doing the same things.When we have an argument he is calling me ten day after such as we never had an argument and he speak so relax like nathing happen.And he never mention to argument. I really couldn't understand his behaviour and i don't know what i have to do?
2006-11-16 10:22:28 · 19 answers · asked by oz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dump his a$s and get a man that cares for you.
2006-11-16 10:24:16 · answer #1 · answered by Joe Somebody 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
speak out openly, tell him everything that bothers you, what u expect from him,what would you like to have and what you are willing to give...let him know how you feel about just pretend nothing happened...try to be honest about your feelings and expectations, if he cares he'll try to improve things around you both and if he doesn't give a sh... maybe he's not what you need or expect. Think about what do you want for you, what kind of relationship you want. If he is what you want but he has this issues maybe he will learn how to handle the relationship if he is really interested too. Both should be honest for both satisfaction,
2006-11-16 10:41:43 · answer #2 · answered by temperance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girlfriend sounds like he is insecure or not really into you. You are better off without him. Count your blessings. When God closes a door it's for a reason but look close there is an open window! He has the right person for you be patient. It will pay off! Good luck
2006-11-16 10:29:05 · answer #3 · answered by craftylady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont really know.........maybe he is avoiding the fact that your relationship is growing and it will take time to find and answer to your arguments, so he lets it go for a few days in hope that you will forget all about it. he dosent like arguing.
2006-11-16 10:26:39 · answer #4 · answered by *Cherry* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him, if he is going to treat you that way you dont need him at all. He should treat you like a queen and not someone for him to fuse at. Good luck.
2006-11-16 10:28:28 · answer #5 · answered by Smoke Eater 512 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
10 days?!?! That's pretty bad. I just had an argument with my gf and I apologize to her in like 2 minutes!!!
He isn't that serious about you, is he?!?!
2006-11-16 10:31:39 · answer #6 · answered by Webballs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably it's not ok for your boss to hug you like that, so it probably made him uncomfortable for you to ask, but if I were you and had bills to pay, I would think about going back to work.
2006-11-16 10:26:10 · answer #7 · answered by Cheshire Cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you still with him??? he doesnt care!! if he did he would call you after or the next day(after an arugment) leave him and try single life...or actuelly find someone who will care.
2006-11-16 10:27:42 · answer #8 · answered by ninga_person_712 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communicate he may like your friendship ( you as a friend only ) you may have to get another boyfriend. however, you wont know unless you talk. if he does not want to talk well you got your answer.
2006-11-16 10:27:08 · answer #9 · answered by shiznick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest losing his number and forget that you ever knew him. You don't need to take the cr@p from him.
2006-11-16 10:27:08 · answer #10 · answered by shuyin369 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to blow him off because he is not sensitive to your feelings. I am guessing he does not feel the same for you as you feel for him. I would just move on....sorry.
2006-11-16 10:26:08 · answer #11 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋