I want him to be mine, and shes just in the way, she don't care about him or anything.
2006-11-16 10:24:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are the one who should leave him alone. Dont go for guys who already have girlfriends. Is it that hard to find a single guy?
2006-11-16 10:27:10 · answer #1 · answered by AussieHel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah.. that is disrespectful! If she's texting to all people each and every of the time whilst your together with her that is incorrect.. yet adult adult males! i'm a woman who has no longer something yet guy acquaintances and any time somebody could pay me a praise understanding I actually have a boyfriend I seen it disrespectful and does no longer text textile them back. yet she maintains to.. i think of you may desire to talk to her. i do no longer blame something on my previous.. I grew up in an abusive homestead besides, and that i've got been relationship my boyfriend for 4 years now and we don't even cuss at one yet another or flow away on a bad word. If she does not provide up understanding the way you experience.. I say the relationship is a dud. Sorry for being so blunt yet I hate whilst human beings waste time on the incorrect man or woman and are taken care of badly. Love isn't something yet have confidence.
2016-12-30 13:41:00 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, I don't think that's for you to decide. If he wasn't happy with his girlfriend then I don't think she would be his girlfriend. Don't be like some pitiful scavenger trying to snatch someone else's "catch" from them. If he's still involved in this relationship, you need to have enough respect for him (and ultimately yourself) to get out of that situation before getting involved with you. Of course you will see his current relationship in a negative light as you see the girlfriend as more of an "obstacle" than an actual person with feelings.
You also need to keep in mind that if he's messing around with you and he has a girlfriend now, how will you feel when you're the girlfriend that someone else is planning to get outta the way?
2006-11-16 10:40:42 · answer #3 · answered by baybeegrl5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't tell her anything at all. you can't do that. when you get into a situation like that, you have no say so. you have to roll wth the punches. imagine how you would fell if you found out that your boyfriend was hooking up with someone else and that female calls herself trying to tell you that you can't talk to your boyfriend. it makes you look stupid and desperate, and if he really liked you he would have been left her and he wouldn't be putting u through this situation with the real girlfriend. he's just using you. i mean why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free.
2006-11-16 10:36:37 · answer #4 · answered by Emily F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does sound as if you are mainly motivated by wanting to "have him for yourself". I think you are probably kidding yourself in thinking that you care for him more than she does. You are wasting your time with him - anyway what sort of a lowlife is he to be cheating on his real girlfriend with you? If he can cheat on her, he'd cheat on you too, if you were his girlfriend.
You should walk away from him now and not look back. If he cares for you at all, he will end things with his girlfriend and run after you. If he doesn't, then he'll carry on cheating on her with the next willing woman to come along thinking she's special.
2006-11-16 10:34:54 · answer #5 · answered by Specsy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me? You want to tell his girlfriend to leave him alone when you are the one who is getting in the way. You have got to be kidding me. Are you crazy? If I was the girlfriend and you came and told me to leave my boyfriend alone, one of us would be in jail and the other would be in the hospital. Why would you want to be with a guy who cheats on his girlfriend anyways? You need to go find your own guy. Girls like you give the rest of us bad names.
2006-11-16 10:34:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hate to break it to you but she is his girlfriend. you are a fling and nothing more to him. If he wanted you like that, he would dump her. Its not something that should be up to you to do.. next time around try a guy that isn't involved. And if you are just a sleeze by nature, keep the emotions out, guys don't care about there side projects. which is what you are to him.. duhhhh why would you want sloppy seconds. next time you get down and do a raunchy with him, think of him inside of her.. turn you on yet? get over it
2006-11-16 10:31:42 · answer #7 · answered by Dot9330 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Thia is Thinkpink4u101,
See you put your self in a real big situation. This what you do if you want her to leave him alone is tell her that his cheating on her. And take him from her but the only thing is if his doing it to her now, his going to do it to you later. That's not a good idea! just find your own man!
2006-11-16 10:31:25 · answer #8 · answered by thinkpink4u101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't tell her anything, sorry. Your issue is with your boyfriend, not her. if he doesn't want to leave her alone you can't do anything about it either. If he doesn't want to dump her then accept the fact that this girl is going to be in his life and enjoy the time you have with your boyfriend and just get her out of your mind or leave.
2006-11-16 10:28:40 · answer #9 · answered by jryanwinterhaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont know for a fact that she doesnt care for him you are just assuming that because you want what she has. Leave them alone and if he wants to be with you then he will leave her for you if not then your letting him play you too.
Why share a man when there are so many in the world??
2006-11-16 10:27:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋