i had bad realationship with him he liked to get his own way an when he didnt he hit i finished it and moved on we r both married now.i work in a store and he recently came in with a family member who i had to serve but i didnt acknowledge him i have seen him and his wife 2gether b4 and been civil 2 them but he acts like an *** i dont want to b friends or anything but sometimes i want 2 ask her what her prob is?she knows im married and has seen me about with my husband i know what shes got and shes welcome to it i feel sorry 4 her ...what do u think??
2006-11-16 10:27:49 · 11 answers · asked by sarah71397 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She knows that once you HAD him and fears that you may get him again even if you are married. I have the same problem. You try to act normal but she would stare at you to see if you are looking at him or try to catch you looking at him.
It is not your problem that she is very very insecure. Remember he reaction to you is what is worrying her because he should act civil with you also but he does not. That response scares her and it probably show her that he still cares about you.
2006-11-16 10:41:30 · answer #1 · answered by vhat40 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
im currently engaged and my fiance still has limited communication with his ex wife because they have a child together. we have custody of the child and the only time we really see her is when she is giving child support to him and i would usually right out the receipts. before that we would have to allow her to visit with her son with us supervising her. it was hard for me deal with it because in the back of my mind i knew that they once had something together. i think i might have been a bit envious because she married him first and had his child first. we had our share of bumps in the road between her and i, but it wasnt helping anybody in anyway.
i dont think its easy on both sides for the women because women are naturally un easy when it comes to situations like this.
i think that its most important to be the better person and just worry about your own family and priorities and not let some other woman bother you with her giving you the stare down.
im still learning that i have to be the better person and be the best that i can be for my family and future step son. i didnt want any hostility or animosity between the 3 if us adult, so i decided that i should try and work with her for the best interest in OUR son. i tell her from time to time how he's doing inschool and what he needs to work on in hopes that she will respect that and help us out.
anyways.. i hope that you can the better woman and just keep showing respect so long as she gives it to you too.
2006-11-16 18:54:07 · answer #2 · answered by bjperez07 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
She could be jealous over the feelings that he once had for you. My X husband is like that too. I just laugh it off. Cause I could give a rip what he does or who he does. More than likely you are the topic of many of their conversations from the sounds of it. So this girl may be resentful to you, even though you could care less. And then him of course.. Like most are probably telling stories that it was all your fault & all the nasty things you did & that he never did anything wrong. Like playing dumb about everything.
2006-11-16 19:27:49 · answer #3 · answered by Kammaka2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's jealous. Ignore her or you are just contributing to her problem, thus making one for yourself. Don't think about them anymore. Sounds like she is jealous because her man is still somewhat stuck on you in some way. Don't feed it. Treat them like you want them to be nothing in your life but be respectful if you must run into them.
2006-11-16 18:53:38 · answer #4 · answered by Sleek 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your ex might still have a thing for you and she knows it and is jealous. That is why she stares. Just ignore them!
2006-11-16 18:49:59 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some people cannot bear to think anyone ever kissed or touched their mate, which is THEIR problem. Just go on about your life, speak or smile and let them fume or whatever they think they need to do, they are weird not you!
2006-11-16 18:32:23 · answer #6 · answered by ladynamedjane 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get over it,
Why do you care so much.
If your really over him then you can just say hi like nothing.
And when she stares, just walk up smaile and say hey how you doing is everything ok, can i get you something?
really sweetly
2006-11-16 18:55:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dont lower yourself to let her know she bothers you with her staring. Next time she does it just smile and think to yourself that she has your leftovers......**snicker** Kill with kindness
2006-11-16 18:59:18 · answer #8 · answered by classy&sassy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ya need to just stay clear from these people. i think they are just out to cause you problems.
2006-11-16 19:27:17 · answer #9 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he still talks about you to her.
2006-11-16 18:55:48 · answer #10 · answered by V¦NÐiViÐi ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋