We have been dating for three months and I really like him the only problem is every time we have sex he's a little too gentle. I don't mind "making love" every once in awhile but most times I just want him to bit(h-slap me on to the bed and overpower me. I love a guy who dominates and does stuff like pull my hair or grab me and just shove it in. I love to feel my guy's strength. But He views sex as such a sacred thing and because of that he's just too nice. How should I tell him to be more forceful?
2006-11-16 10:22:38 · 26 answers · asked by Caligirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A woman sets the atmosphere for her preferences. You have the authority to get the man to work rough with you during sex. Why don't you just let him know what you want. If you can't say it to him, you can show him.
2006-11-16 10:25:53 · answer #1 · answered by Kelly45 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should tell him what you like and if he's not into all that it's a good thing it's only been three months. Meaning if you have two different view on sex both of deserve to be happy and have what you want, you two should just end it and be friends while the relationship is still fresh and young. IT WOULD BE FOR THE BEST!
2006-11-16 10:27:20 · answer #2 · answered by teriwilburn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her more at a time. my 5 month old gets 8 oz every 4 to 5 hours while she's awake and sleeps from about 8pm till 5 or 6 am. She'll eat then and it's usually back to sleep for an hour or two. I would gradually increase the dosage to 5 or 6 oz, then up to 8 or 9.
2016-03-28 22:52:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL If his view is that sex is a sacred thing, he wouldn't be doing you after less than 90 days together. He's not all that nice! I suppose you could say "Be more forceful"- but I figure if you can't talk about sex outside of the bedroom, you probably aren't ready to be doing it with that person.
2006-11-16 10:26:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him, then appreciate him the way he is. If you demand things he is unable to do then he will misunderstand you. More still if you want him to learn to get rough, then during the act, hold his waist very tight and riggle under him giving the indication that you are starved of him and you need more of him. You can even fake the urgency. He will get the message and try harder to satisfy you. Gradually things will begin to take shape. Good luck
2006-11-16 10:33:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best solution to this case is to simply tell him that you feel like exploring all the diffrent things you can do sexualy. Maybe describe what you want or show him. Sex is a big part of a relation and if he doesn't want to explore with you then I think it's best if you move on.
2006-11-16 10:28:15 · answer #6 · answered by tika ukie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to the guy. Just tell him that you like it nasty a lot of times :) He probably is making gentle love to you because he figures that that's how you like it.
Maybe he'll surprise you and turn out to be a wild animal!
2006-11-16 10:34:22 · answer #7 · answered by Ed A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him, "it would be nice if every once in a while you would..." fill in the blank. It may just be something he never considered, and would be happy to do for you - or, it could be so contrary to his personality that he would not be interested in doing it. You will find out soon. But you have to tell him what you like for him to have a chance to please you.
2006-11-16 10:25:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you think it would be fun to explore new ways to have sex and see if he is into being adventurous. Don't tell him you are bored with the way he does things though, you don't want to hurt his pride.
2006-11-16 10:28:40 · answer #9 · answered by veronica c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl just go ahead and get you a thug since a soft sensual guy is not what you need. just tell some thuggish guy you like to be treated like a s l ut and you want it ruff. i am sure there is some rapist out there who won't mind fukkkkking your brain out
2006-11-16 10:27:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋