Orgasm... This is a serious question. When I was younger, my legs would always shake and that's how I knew for sure.
Lots of times sex and foreplay feels extremely good, but I don't come enought to know if it is just wetness or and orgasm.
Please help, it is so embarassing when a man asks me if I've come and I don't know the answer!
So I just say "I think so."
And they're like "wouldn't you know for sure if you did?!?"
2006-11-16 10:52:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't know it hasn't happened.
2006-11-16 10:56:40 · answer #1 · answered by krissy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, for me, theres a difference between "getting wet" and having an orgasm. An orgasm almost freezes me in postion for a few seconds. It is a muscle contraction of some sort that is going on down there that is extremely pleasureable. Buy yourself a massager, that plugs in (sex toys w/ batteries dont have strong enough vibrations). Use it on yourself, You should definitely get on then if you are unsure of whether you have one or not. To me its a pretty distinct feeling. My first was with a massager...so...
2006-11-16 18:59:50 · answer #2 · answered by candirenee74 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel tingly all over...and ultra sensitive like my skin is inside out and the nerves are all on the outside...
I can feel the muscle contractions inside my pelvis when I orgasm also...as could a guy if he was inside me at the time...
That's just external/clitoral orgasms...I've not had a vaginal one so can't describe that but most women do say the feeling is not exactly the same...
2006-11-16 18:55:33 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i read that sometimes for some women, an orgasm can be as long as an hr or more or it could be as easy as a couple of minutes.
when im extremely turned on, i tend to just get really wet and when i orgasm, i know that my whole body gets hot and i feel like im going to explode down there. afterwards my clitoris usually feels very sensitive to the touch and is swollen.
its different for many women. depends on your body. i recommend masturbatng by yourself so that you know what feels good to you and get your self to orgasm (trust me, you'll know when you feel it). watching porn helps.
share your experience with your partner and get him to do something that will turn you on and get you going. you have to lead him in the right direction in order to satisfy you.
have fun!
2006-11-16 18:59:48 · answer #4 · answered by bjperez07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when i orgasm which lets be honest is usually brought n by myself this wave of pleasure which starts at my clitoris spreads outward towards my legs then eventually through my whole body and yes it is true when you orgasm you know and sometimes my legs shake just because it feels good not because im having an orgasm. so my advice to you would be to buy a vibrator relax in your room spread the lips of your vagina apart and place the vibrator on your clitoris and you will have an orgasm
2006-11-16 18:56:54 · answer #5 · answered by teresak713 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think being wet is just your body being stimulated and producing natural lubricant , as for an orgasm, girl! you know when it's one cause it sends your body into wonderful waves of exstacy, the trembling legs are probably you almost getting an O" or trying to get one...
2006-11-16 18:57:50 · answer #6 · answered by nissdonna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, when it happens, you'll know. It's an intense release. Oh Gosh...I can't even explain it. Just trust me, you'll know.
2006-11-16 18:54:36 · answer #7 · answered by gapeach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll know, it's like no other feeling in the world. Nothing feels better...........
2006-11-16 19:14:38 · answer #8 · answered by venus11224 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would know if you had and orgasim. I mean if you don't know, then maybe you never have.
2006-11-16 18:56:43 · answer #9 · answered by jelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you just get excited but trust me you will know!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-16 18:56:25 · answer #10 · answered by shiznick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋