theres this guy whom ive been dating for about a month we usually talk everyday n go out once or twice a week cuz hes pretty busy at work. we've already had sex and i didnt really change how things were goin. but sometimes i send him messages on yahoo and he wont reply, he jus signs off a few minutes later. i asked him maybe a week ago what he was lookin for (relationship wise) and he said he wasnt sure, he said the enjoyed my company and he really liked talkin to me but that was it.i dont know if he said that cuz he really doesnt know what he wants n he jus wants to see what happens or hes not interested in a realtionship n just said that to keep me around so he can keep gettin laid...should i try talkin to him again or should i give it a little more time?
2006-11-16 10:53:25 · 15 answers · asked by sandyscheeks 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and please i dont want any lectures about wait for until marriage for sex becasue thats obviously not my belief. another thing i wanted to add is that when we do talk on the phone we actually talk about our friends and family and our lives...were gettin to know eachother and i have been to his house and no hes not married...
2006-11-16 11:08:41 · update #1
He probably is in for the sex, but you never know. Give him some time and ask him outright. If you don't feel comfortable doing that, talk to him face to face more. Email me at johnluisduffy@yahoo.com
2006-11-16 10:59:34 · answer #1 · answered by Firefighting Hero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like he's only wanting you as a friend with benefits. But don't miss out on the opportunity to tell him how you feel. Ask him what he meant, if he wants to be in a relationship or not. Hopefully he will be direct with you. If not, I wouldn't waste any time on building a realtionship with him. Good luck!
2006-11-16 18:59:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he just wants the sex to me. If it's good sex, enjoy it but keep looking for Mr. Right.
2006-11-16 19:00:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex
2006-11-16 18:56:39 · answer #4 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guy rules as follows
1 sex
2 sex
3 lust
4 sex
5 sex
6 tellyou that he loves you so he gets better sex
7 lust
does this help
2006-11-16 18:56:38 · answer #5 · answered by jac 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first of all y did u have sex with him,y not save that for marriage, relationships r not based on sex , they r based on trust and love and respect for each other . ya , he used u , like he told u , he don't even know what he wants , and he blows u off, hello, i hope u learn a lesson about this and move a lot slower next time ,and don't just give yourself to a guy sexualy, what do u think a guy thinks of a girl that does that?think about it
2006-11-16 19:03:39 · answer #6 · answered by cc 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
He's on a different page than you if you want a relationship and he is unsure then date other guys don't wait for him. Good Luck :)
2006-11-16 18:58:59 · answer #7 · answered by Kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man wants you then he KNOWS he wants you. Men who say things like "I dont know what I want in a relationship" dont want you. I mean they may WANT you (for sex), but you arent
"the one". Move on.... you deserve a guy who wants you, a guy who wants to be with you, a guy who calls, answers your emails.
2006-11-16 18:56:51 · answer #8 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should end your relationship, no need to wait so long to figure out what he really wants.
it's obvious he wanted sex
2006-11-16 18:59:16 · answer #9 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm try shutting him off lol unless its just sex to you
if you likes you he will stiill hang out with out sex lol if he likes you and you dont use him for sex then send him paking it gose both ways first find out what you want
2006-11-16 18:57:27 · answer #10 · answered by johnny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋