Had a wicked date last night, we got on well, there was spark, he was interesting, funny, attentive, etc, etc, and he text me when I got home, said he'd like to see me again, and we also had a little kiss. BUT, I haven't heard from him today! I may sound neurotic, but I did expect a 'thanks for a cool night' text at least. Or is he reasonable to leave it a day? Or 2?
Have had too many tosser men in the past so don't know if I'm being a cynical over reactor, or if he's being a game player?
Opinions please!
2006-11-16 10:56:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guy's perspective: sometimes we don't think it through that much! We know we're going to text the girl soon-ish, so exactly when doesn't matter! Waiting is only natural because he doesn't really think it's going to bother you!
2006-11-16 11:01:56 · answer #1 · answered by btomkins88 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only way you're going to find out what he truly feels about you is to wait it out. If you contact him you're going to put him on the spot and he may make an excuse or may set up another date purely because he feels embarrassed.
Play the waiting game, it will be worthwhile if you want to know where you stand.
If he doesn't call you, you're better off without him anyway and you can be thankful not to have wasted any more time on him.
Hope it works out the way you want it to.
2006-11-16 19:08:28 · answer #2 · answered by carnival queen 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with that one guy who said guys don't think like us. I'd say definitly wait a few days, if he doesn't call you after maybe two days at the least, then I'd say give him a call. It's the 21'st century, women don't have to wait around, in fact, some guys like a forward woman, makes them feel wanted or like, hott, lol. Just don't come on too strong, no flowers sent to him like that one girl said.
2006-11-16 19:25:45 · answer #3 · answered by Rhiannon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always tended to call the next day. If I liked the girl I want to let her know. So I don't et why some guys don't call the girl the next day.
I'm married now so all this is in the past but if I were dating I would still call the girl the next day.
Good Luck to you
2006-11-16 19:02:55 · answer #4 · answered by St.Anger 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He may be waiting for you to text him to say that u had a good night. He did text you last night
2006-11-16 19:00:02 · answer #5 · answered by gaulde 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Let me let you in on a little secret....men have this thing that they need to wait at least 2 days to call a woman they like. I guess its a guy thing but almost any guy you ask will tell you this. It's nothing personal against you.....just a manhood thing.
2006-11-16 18:59:08 · answer #6 · answered by Tiffany 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Take charge of the situation and txt him to say hi etc, be cool, maybe he is waiting for you to text him.
2006-11-17 01:04:23 · answer #7 · answered by andrea l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be expecting a text too but god knows what goes on inside the minds of men so leave it for a day or two, he prob doesnt wanna text cus he doesnt wanna seem to keen.
2006-11-16 18:58:39 · answer #8 · answered by Caz 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
hes probably leaving the ball in your court text him..and if u don't get a reply then you were u stand, he may be waiting on you!
2006-11-16 19:01:08 · answer #9 · answered by choc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-16 18:57:55 · answer #10 · answered by bcuzimagirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋