ok for example you have been dating this guy for like about 2 months and then u feel comfortable enough to have sex with him. should u wait over a year to do it or will that be to soon and u will just end up hurting each-other and eventually breaking up?
2006-11-16 11:36:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well for me, I would wait until I was married and in a committed relationship. There is a lot to consider when starting a sexual life with someone. Are you sure your ready for the ups and downs?
2006-11-16 11:42:22 · answer #1 · answered by Lily 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I believe the best time to 'do it' would be on the honeymoon. Guys lose respect for girls who 'give it up' and for only a 2 month relationship. Sex is the most intimate personal relationship a woman can have with a man. It is special, and should be reserved for marriage. Also, sex comes with the risk of pregnancy, and being forced to make a difficult decision about whether or not to end the life of a life that has began in you. Even so called 'safe' sex is not 100% failsafe. Also, if he has ever 'been with' other women(I'm not saying he has, but if he has), he could have STDs.
Some guys, once they get it, do infact break of the relationship, become irritable or angry. They also usually brag to their friends, and you will lose respect among his friends, and acquaintances.
Respect yourself, abstain.
Any guy who cannot respect a girl who waits, is not worth waiting for!
2006-11-16 11:50:11 · answer #2 · answered by Mike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your age and maturity
follow your heart
When the time is right the time is right
You should talk to your bf and other close friends or even a family member before makin such a decision
If you decide to have sex use protection being birthcontrol, condoms.. better safe than sorry!
2006-11-16 11:39:25 · answer #3 · answered by Diamonds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of thinking about sex, you should read a little bit more. That way you will stop anoying people with stupid questions. Pleeeeeeeeeeease! Wait until you are 21 to have a boyfriend. Study and go to college. Do something with your life. I don't want to have to pay for your baby through my taxes...
2006-11-16 11:39:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you really feel confortable with him. Two months is too soon. Wait a year and see what happens and how he is. If he becomes a jerk, forget him, if you grow closer to each other, then talk it out with him. It's up to the two of you. Hoped I helped. ROCK ON!!
2006-11-16 11:40:40 · answer #5 · answered by celloman2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say this but guys will usually do it with u then end it cuz they got what they wanted and then they can move on... i think a year... two months is really the beginning and you have a lot more to learn about him... i bet you dont no everything... so wait... and when you do have sex... make sure you use a condom and get std tested... together!
enjoy
2006-11-16 11:41:18 · answer #6 · answered by summersweetheart_16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are emotionally ready for it. This will bring you even closer to someone. You just have to be ready to handle the consequenses of your actions. Use protection and enjoy if you are mature and ready.
2006-11-16 11:44:55 · answer #7 · answered by Renee C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A year seems a little long. He might leave you for me by that time!
2006-11-16 11:54:43 · answer #8 · answered by Pardon Moi? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the right time is always different, just make sure all the proper precautions are taken by both parties!
2006-11-16 11:39:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you nuts? I say you should bang him on the first date! A year? Holy sh*t!
2006-11-16 11:40:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋