My mother is a hateful, bitter, depressing woman. She never likes who I am dating,or any of my friends. She wants me to come to her home for holidays, but doesn't want anyone else around, or complains about it if I do invite someone the next day. She says hateful things to me, like why don't you and your son just stay the **** away from me. The chick is nutts I tell ya, she says don't stand on the porch smoking a cigarette the people will talk, oh don't speak to her the people will talk, tell that person to go away I dont wanna talk, she has completely lost her mind. Mind you I am not a child I am over 30, I have my own home, a career and I am a graduate student. I am always buying stuff for my mom and trying to please her and win her affection by getting rid of boyfriends because she says they are loosers, or getting rid of friends until I noticed that that was everyone that I ever datedor knew. I had enough, she said stay away and this time I am tempted to just leave her alone.
2006-11-16 11:33:27 · 8 answers · asked by Jazz 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You should never stop trying because she is the only mother that you will ever have and you need to have a relationship with her. All you can do is show her respect because no matter what she says or does to you she is still the reason that you are alive today and that is something that you should always be thankful to her for. You should not end relationships or friendships because your mother dislikes them you do not have to bring them anywhere near her. Try staying away from her and letting her see just how her life would be without you and your son. I promise she will come around and start treating you better when she sees that she can lose you
2006-11-16 11:42:17 · answer #1 · answered by <<SEXY MOMMA>> 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 15:46:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say have a nice big break from her. Tell her you have other plans this Christmas and spend it with your son and some friends(if she hasn't made you alienate them all). See if she's any nicer to you after not seeing you or hearing from you for a few months. You don't deserve to be bullied like that by anyone, let alone your mother. Best of luck.
2006-11-16 11:40:06 · answer #3 · answered by Curious1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her who you are dating. Don't visit for awhile. Let her call you. Have a less involved, dependent relationship w/ Mom. Ignore what she says that you don't like, that's just her, her issues. But don't tell her that. Once you can emotionally break with her, you won't be hurt, or tempted to throw things back in her face. Such as insults. Pray that she has a happier time of it. Live your life.
2006-11-16 11:39:11 · answer #4 · answered by robert r 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You could try talking to her. I see where you are coming from but your mother will always be your mother. Try talking to her about the things she says and does. Let her know that they bother you and you are tired of it and if it doesn't stop you will be tempted to stay away from her.. Say what you mean and mean what you say.
2006-11-16 12:08:07 · answer #5 · answered by Carrie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away for awhile and see if she contacts you. I'm a mom and i could never treat my two children like that who are now grown. is she trying to control you because you had a life and she is not happy with herself? you do not have to buy mom!!!!! moms should be just a wish away!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-16 11:39:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes. Simple.
2006-11-16 11:40:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's what prozac is for
2006-11-16 11:35:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋