Family & Relationships - 16 November 2006

OK, there's this one boy who i am kinda going out with. he just moved and told me he was going to call me when he got there. on tomorrow it'll be a week. I know he's getting settled in his new place and all, but he hasnt called. He's visited this place before and when he did he called me from that house that he's living in now and his cousin's cell phone so i have both of those numbers on my previous phone bills. I was going to text his cousin and ask what his cousin is up to. Do you think i should or just sit back and wait on his (the boy i'm talking to) slow behind?

2006-11-16 12:13:10 · 5 answers · asked by questioner 4 in Singles & Dating

I want to get him the right gift. I thought about breaking up but want him to know I feel different now. HELP?????

2006-11-16 12:12:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Everyone is so untrue...((((sigh))))

Why can't people just..
>say it if they like you
>say it if they fell out of love
>say it if they just want out of the relationship
>say it if they love you
>say it if it really hurts
>say it if it really matters
>say it that you can't wait forever
>say it if it they don't want commitment
>say it like they really mean it

2006-11-16 12:12:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 12:12:17 · 1 answers · asked by Diana J 5 in Family

I want to be a vet tech, but the school i want to go to doesnt' start till next fall. So in the mean time i want to work at a vet. I don't care what i do that i just want the experiance.
I have a lot of job experiance, but not in this field. I have been bartending and waitressing my whole life. So i need some advice and tips on how to get a job in a vet's office. What are they looking for. what kind of jobs can I apply for.

any help would be great
oh, yea, do you think it's ok that I am illergic to cats?

Thanks for help

2006-11-16 12:12:08 · 1 answers · asked by jelly 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-16 12:12:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have a friend coming ovr tomorrow and i dont know what we r going to do

2006-11-16 12:11:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok...theres the really shy guy @ skool, i like him, I say hi 2 him every moring. He says "hey..." when my friend says "hey" He laughs. does he like her?????

2006-11-16 12:10:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok my friend and her bf jus started havin sex like 2 weeks ago. well she wouldnt use the condom cuz it doesnt feel as good... well tonite she and him had sex and iguess they used it but it "slipped",... and she asked me howlong before would she know if she was preg? I got preg and didnt realize til like 3 wks later when I missed a period. so wha should I tell her?? and isthere anyway for her to find out sooner? oh and she jus got off Birth controllike a week b4 they started having sex and she doesnt know when her period will be..

2006-11-16 12:10:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 12:10:02 · 6 answers · asked by hi miley your so kewl 1 in Singles & Dating

These three guys, who are all friends with each other, are always looking at me and checkign me out and flirting with me. They all know that the three of them like me (I was told). One of them suggested that I go out with all three of them since I have no idea who I want to go out with. They`re all friends and for some reason have no problem with it. They say they don`t anyway, but I`m not sure if they would say it if they did. I like them all a little, but I`m not sure if I want to do it because I`m not sure if it ould work out. This makes me sound like a s***, but I`m usually not. Anyway, do you think that it could work? I need advice!!

2006-11-16 12:10:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'VE BEEN MARRIED FOR FIVE YEARS, TWO KIDS. MY WIFE HAS THE TENDENCY WHEN WE HAVE A DISAGREEMENT TO GO OFF. ALL OBSENE PERSONAL ATTACKS AND VULGARITY.ALTHOUGH SHE PUSHES ME ENOUGH TO BRING ME TO HER LEVEL. I FEEL THIS IS MY ONLY LEVEL OF DEFENSE. I HAVE NEVER CHEATED ON THIS WOMAN, I HAVEN'T BEEN OUT OF THE HOUSE FOR THE LAST FIVE YEARS. LITERALLY WORK AND HOME. I'M PUTTING HER THROUGH NURSING SCHOLL AND EVERYTHING. THESE ATTACKS AT TIMES MAKE MY SEX DRIVE PRACTICALLY NON- EXISTENT. THEN I'M ACCUSES OF CHEATING EVEN MORE. IT SEEMS I CAN'T ESCAPE THE SHADOW OF HER PAST RELATIONSHIPS AND WHAT THEY DID, NOT TO MENTION WHATEVER WAS ON DAYTIME TV THAT HAD TO DO WITH BAD RELATIONSHIPS. AT FIRST I THOUGHT BECAUSE OF WHAT SHE WENT THROUGH SHE DESERVED THE OPPORTUNITY TO VENT. BUT IT'S BEEN 5 YEARS AND WHERE I'M FROM PATIENCE RUNS THIN.

2006-11-16 12:09:24 · 19 answers · asked by STRENGTH 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so my BFFLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL is totally obsessed with this guy and i found out that he likes me and i like him a lot and someone told me he was gonna ask me out. my friend was joking and saying dont go out with him or else i wont be your friend, and i dont know if she really meant that, and if i go out with him she'll call me a backstabber to my face and behind my back. WHAT SHOULD I DO? p.s. hes like the hottest guy in school and all the girls like him and its really rare that a guy like him would like a girl like me and i really want to go out with him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and i really really really really really like him!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-16 12:08:47 · 12 answers · asked by Sammi Poo 1 in Friends

my 11 year old dog; a great pet, friend & family member doesn't have much longer. & will either pass on by himself, or will be put to sleep by the time i get home for winter break.
this seriously upsets me. & after just reading an email from my dad about his condition, I'm in even more of a wreck! but i still have work/class to contend with for a few more weeks (not including the time off i have for thanksgiving next week). but I'm unsure if i can take all the BS I'm constantly surrounded by. what advise do any of you have?

2006-11-16 12:07:19 · 5 answers · asked by drunken pumpkin 6 in Family

I want a girlfriend, but I feel kind of hopeless. I mean, I haven't made any serious attempts or anything, but I want a girlfriend?

2006-11-16 12:07:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

now my husband finds me ugly please help what can i do ,, my pic is in tthe corner, do you think im ugly , please answer both parts of question honestly im distressed

2006-11-16 12:07:04 · 12 answers · asked by jac 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am stuck between looks and good personalty!

2006-11-16 12:07:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am invited to thanksgiving day dinners or spend x-mas day with friends, but I sit back holding in tears, because it hurts so much to see how familys come together and are happy and close, and I wish that I had that. Now that I have childern of my own, I celerbrite it with them, but its not the same, what can I do to forget the passed and move on? By the way my mother should have never had kids.

2006-11-16 12:06:37 · 8 answers · asked by Diana J 5 in Family

2006-11-16 12:06:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just found out my boyfriend has some friends that I knew nothing even heard of them. These are not new friends, we have been together for a while nowabout that he hangs out with regularly. I have never met them or and this is so strange and sudden. He also hangs out at this methodist center and I never knew that he went there why would he not tell me, he is not even methodist?

I even asked him about who he was with today (he was with a male friend of his, which i am certain of) and he says that he was alone at his apartment and he was not with anyone.
What does this mean?
WHY DOES HE HAVE TO LIE ABOUT SOMETHING SO SIMPLE? He says that he wants me to trust him but how?????

2006-11-16 12:06:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He calls and says I'am picking up the baby on so day., when the day comes he calls and cancells and ask me to call him and tell him its okay.

2006-11-16 12:05:54 · 7 answers · asked by melly 2 in Singles & Dating

what made it worse was that he put the number under a boys name and i found the message on his fone he won't answer my questions about that night and when i see his friends they go on about that night all the time how they went to a strip club and did lots of wild things then look at each other and laugh im going out of my mind with worry i love him loads but i car'nt go on with the relationship without noing what happened other wise i'll have these images of him with another girl tormenting me for the rest of my life what makes it worse is that we have a 3 year old son together i'm realy worried i'd loose my partner but i car'nt go on without noing i've not talked to no one about this i need some answers!

2006-11-16 12:04:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

One that wants to settle down, live the good life.

2006-11-16 12:04:18 · 3 answers · asked by NIGHTSHADE 4 in Singles & Dating

When I first met my boyfriend, he told me about his past (big mistake..i know..but its too late). He said he had 2 serious gfs and then 2 other girls whom with the relationship was purely "sexual". I was bothered by that, but I got over it because I love him. Well, a few months ago we brought up the topic of one of the girls he just "did it" with. He said they broke up because she had to go back to school, and as soon as they broke up he deleted her number from his cell phone because if he ever made his way out to her area it woud be too "Tempting" not to call. A few months later, he was showing me something on his phone, when I saw her number saved in the phone. I confronted him, he denied he ever said he deleted it. That was a while ago. Lately, he told me how she met his family and how they dated, went out places, hung out with friends...when he said she was just sex! I am pissed that he over and over again LIES about her....more below

2006-11-16 12:04:13 · 7 answers · asked by HlpMePlz 2 in Singles & Dating

IT THIS GUY AT SCHOOL HE IS SO CUTE HE LIKE ME AND I LIKE HIM , BUT HE HAS A GURL FRIEND SO WHAT DO U THINK I SHOULD DO

2006-11-16 12:03:54 · 11 answers · asked by Angel_Bratt 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 12:03:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Thats my first question. I hate love I'm so devistated and lost at the moment and I don't know what to do. I hate the person who I'm in love with for doing this to me. She ruined my life! I want to let go but I can't seem to. I don't get it I'm fine one minute and the next I'm not. I just wish people stopped playing games and with people's emotions. It takes a toll on me.

2006-11-16 12:02:48 · 8 answers · asked by Just Wondering 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'll cut to the chase. When my husband has too much to drink, he's mean. I've asked him to cut back on drinking, but he won't. He just brings home booze anyway. What do I do?

2006-11-16 12:02:37 · 9 answers · asked by Francesca 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am always nice to my friend and i always complement her on what she wears but she is always saying how ugly i am and how much of a loser i am and even though she always say jkjk and i know that im pretty and am not a loser, i can only go so long with someone making fun of me

2006-11-16 12:02:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

This is a 2 part question...

1.) What is your opinion of it? I've heard that some people think it's very tacky, others think it's a lot of fun (and good for spending money on the honeymoon!)

2.) How does it work? Do you just stand there until someone puts money in your bag to dance with you? Does your fiance do it, too?

Thank you!

2006-11-16 12:02:13 · 14 answers · asked by jaye 3 in Weddings