These three guys, who are all friends with each other, are always looking at me and checkign me out and flirting with me. They all know that the three of them like me (I was told). One of them suggested that I go out with all three of them since I have no idea who I want to go out with. They`re all friends and for some reason have no problem with it. They say they don`t anyway, but I`m not sure if they would say it if they did. I like them all a little, but I`m not sure if I want to do it because I`m not sure if it ould work out. This makes me sound like a s***, but I`m usually not. Anyway, do you think that it could work? I need advice!!
2006-11-16 12:10:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you know what they say Theres always a first time for everything
2006-11-16 12:12:55 · answer #1 · answered by Lil_B4ByLV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What it is a contest who will you do first or they want to talk about you but what may happen is that they will get into a big fight and they will not be friends and one will be hurt cause he will really like you . What I would tell them that they all are nice but they are too your friends and if you are that hot then find some other guys. I am sure it is a turn on but go and break some other guys heart. They are most likely thinking about you as we talk at home in there room....
2006-11-16 12:17:13 · answer #2 · answered by isitreal1963 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's my opinion (as a guy)...
As long as you are up front with all of them and say. I am just dating and getting to know people right now. How can they get mad? You've told them that you are not interested in a mutual and monogamous relationship.
If all they are interested in is a mutual monogamous relationship then they should keep looking.
Also I would like to note that one typically dates to get to know people... Many people don't seem to get the difference between "OK, lets talk more" and "I have invested interest in your well being and growth as a human being".
Date all you want, just be clear about your intentions.
2006-11-16 13:03:51 · answer #3 · answered by Aves 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want tog et caught up and thne u mess it up with all of them. Your best bet is to be friends with all of them first and as a friend it means being honest and not trying to hurt anyone. Write down all the positives and negatives of each guy and discuss with a best female friend the benefits of being with each guy and get another view oint of someone that will look out for you. Then decide who you can see yourself with most and go from there.
2006-11-16 12:13:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sweetie, do what you want to do. You will never know if it works out unless you try... you might get a great boyfriend and 2 good friends out of it. The least you will have 3 dates, thats not a bad thing either.
2006-11-16 12:13:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If they are friends and u are one hott gal then they just want to **** u cuase if they werent friends wanting to have sex with u at once then they would be fighting over u i know my friend dated a girl he knew i had feelings for but it was just physical attraction i had for her and so did he and tht relationship didnt last long lol now he calls her a ***** cause he didnt get none.
2006-11-16 12:13:44 · answer #6 · answered by Epidemic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you don't have to announce what the winner gets, but if you just wanna see who spends the most money or attention on you and makes you smile the most, whatever your damn quirky criteria is. It's all fun and games until they start fighting each other maybe, but it's definitely a gentlemans' game for sure
2006-11-16 12:13:52 · answer #7 · answered by Nate L 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The nature of men are jealous... don't do this girl, you're gonna create chaos. Besides they're friends... i wouldn't take this chance.
In my opinion, i think you shouldn't pick neither of them... you should keep waiting until they get bored with this and turns away... the last one still there is your perfect man
2006-11-16 12:14:15 · answer #8 · answered by J 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl you better watch what you are doing. Dont ever go out somewhere with all 3 of them and just yourself.You never know what could happen,,have you ever thought of rape? **** happens you know?? be careful and dont be too naive.
2006-11-16 12:13:25 · answer #9 · answered by michelle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just find the one you like the most..and fvck no! dont be a ***** and go out wit 3 guys at once..
2006-11-16 12:12:18 · answer #10 · answered by itstony 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋