now my husband finds me ugly please help what can i do ,, my pic is in tthe corner, do you think im ugly , please answer both parts of question honestly im distressed
2006-11-16 12:07:04 · 12 answers · asked by jac 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Divorce him I think you are awesome darlin .
Oh yes how's it hanging ? LOL !
2006-11-16 13:08:38 · answer #1 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll be blunt: I don't blame your husband. I mean he once had a wife and now he has a man. You've changed your identity and expect your husband to feel the same? That's not fair at all.
As for what to do? well there isn't much I guess. Even you change back to being a women you won't be the same.
I have no problem with sex change but it messes up families, it's not fair to spouses and kids, as you should have either gotten a divorce before you put your family through this or shouldn't have gotten the surgery at all. If you're selfish enough that all of a sudden you want to change your life, you should know that it'll effect him too and the least he can feel is that you're ugly.
You're not an ugly person, you're just not the woman he married.
Unless he's OK with you I guess you should ask him whether he wants a divorce or not?
2006-11-16 20:26:03 · answer #2 · answered by Shelley S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I'm not sure I totally understand what circumstanced made you decide to change sexes when you're already in a relationship. I'm surprised your hubby allowed you to go through with the operation. I mean you have asked him to give up being happy with a women in his bed and to instead be with a man. Is he bisexual? or gay? Did he tell you he would be happy with you being a man? Because I think most men would resent their spouse changing sexes. I know your depressed, and I'm so sorry for what you're going through, but, maybe it's time to move on to a person who can accept who you are now.. Your present husband will always think of you as the woman you were, and if he's trying to see that women he may think you're ugly whether you are or not.....Whether we see you as good looing or not really doesn't matter.
2006-11-16 20:18:28 · answer #3 · answered by Kristen 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I studied about "people like you" (excuse me, don't take this offensively) back 2 years ago. If you believe that this is the right choice, then no one can, or should stop you. Maybe you thought that you were a man living in a woman's body? Perhaps you can talk to your husband about the issue, and I suggest that you go to counseling about this matter.
2006-11-16 20:11:53 · answer #4 · answered by DN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was your husband okay with your sex change before? If he cant love you for who you are in the inside, then there are no grounds for your marriage. Its not fair for someone to love someone else solely on their looks.
2006-11-16 20:10:54 · answer #5 · answered by Mia 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What was that you said about deceiving and not hiding on the Internet? Does this apply to you?
2006-11-16 21:27:31 · answer #6 · answered by sylviavnpttn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee. You were once a female, right? Now you got a dick and balls? Not. You're an abberation.
2006-11-16 20:12:11 · answer #7 · answered by Johnny P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now why do you have a husband, not a wife??? for a woman, u're ugly!
2006-11-16 20:09:12 · answer #8 · answered by angelic_234 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
u rather looks like a guy...with alot hair
suicide and divorce would work
2006-11-16 20:08:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i can answer 1 can you speak to your husband about it because them you to might work somthing out ok
2006-11-16 20:10:48 · answer #10 · answered by cuteteddy34 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋