Everyone is so untrue...((((sigh))))
Why can't people just..
>say it if they like you
>say it if they fell out of love
>say it if they just want out of the relationship
>say it if they love you
>say it if it really hurts
>say it if it really matters
>say it that you can't wait forever
>say it if it they don't want commitment
>say it like they really mean it
2006-11-16 12:12:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You heard bitterness here? I have made peace with myself. I have accepted that I cannot have all I wanted. That's life and reality bites. But my heart never ceases to hope.
I posted this question to know what others feel and think. So, express yourself..
2006-11-16 13:59:38 · update #1
i totally agree...you are my idol
2006-11-16 12:14:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the way that society has developed. I am sure many years ago in a much simpler society things were done differently.
I often say when a girl doesn't want to hang around with another g/f she should say so instead of just disspearing from her life or making excuses when asked for coffee ect. Nope can't be done cos that would be being honest.
Never going to happen I am afraid cos they are all scared and living in a plastic world.
Hmmm some bitterness here ??
2006-11-16 13:52:33 · answer #2 · answered by sandiemay01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh I so agree with you. This would make things so much easier and save me a lot of time. But as much as I want other people to be straight with me I find it's hard to do the same because the truth is usually not what you or they want to hear.
2006-11-16 12:16:40 · answer #3 · answered by redpillowcase 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually, in a case like this, there is an overriding motive. It's called the Okee-doke, like what they tell models, -smile and wave- honesty, is the ultimate half-truth, it so often robs rather than rewards.
Welcome to this game we call life
2006-11-16 12:17:20 · answer #4 · answered by NIGHTSHADE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is a great thing but sometimes i prefer being fooled , rather than get shocked with some reality ...
2006-11-16 12:19:42 · answer #5 · answered by Dali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree... Honesty makes things so much simpler.
Most people don't just say things, though.
They need to be asked. Directly.
Unless you're dealing with straight lies...
2006-11-16 12:18:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want people to be honest, and that's fine, but also if one is honest sometimes then you hurt people's feelings. So honest or not, it always hurts.
2006-11-16 12:17:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are just too cocky and mean to be honest. They are too low to be a real person. So to lie is better for those who will not be honest
2006-11-16 12:15:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely agree
2006-11-16 12:16:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree y can't people just be honest....I guess sometimes it's hard to tell the truth.
2006-11-16 12:15:07 · answer #10 · answered by pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, i only noticed you, b/c our avatars are almost identical.
how weird is that?
well, i know what you mean. but, i haven't had trouble with dishonest men, so i can't help you there. i'm a very honest and blunt person, so i'm very picky... what was your question again?
2006-11-16 12:16:55 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋