When I first met my boyfriend, he told me about his past (big mistake..i know..but its too late). He said he had 2 serious gfs and then 2 other girls whom with the relationship was purely "sexual". I was bothered by that, but I got over it because I love him. Well, a few months ago we brought up the topic of one of the girls he just "did it" with. He said they broke up because she had to go back to school, and as soon as they broke up he deleted her number from his cell phone because if he ever made his way out to her area it woud be too "Tempting" not to call. A few months later, he was showing me something on his phone, when I saw her number saved in the phone. I confronted him, he denied he ever said he deleted it. That was a while ago. Lately, he told me how she met his family and how they dated, went out places, hung out with friends...when he said she was just sex! I am pissed that he over and over again LIES about her....more below
2006-11-16 12:04:13 · 7 answers · asked by HlpMePlz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
shes a hour away but shes a whore (they slept together the first date plus tons of other stories i never asked to hear)...and he even said to me,"she was the BEST at sex"...i feel threatened...what should I do? why does he lie???
2006-11-16 12:06:11 · update #1
thanks everyone..basically, we will be watching tv or something and something will remind him of a past story...when i found out that they dated and it wasnt just sex, it was because we were talking about family gatherings and bring you bf/gf, and it "slipped" out
2006-11-16 12:21:24 · update #2
Omg..i am so pissed for you...what an asshole, i say u leave him. Why would he go on and on and on blabing about his ex and how good she was?! Girl he aint worth sh!t..I say you find yourself someone better, cause hes a whore too!
2006-11-16 12:08:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's time to let this bum go, he's a player, and all you are to him, is a passing fancy. He's using you, for his own pleasure. If he cared for you, he would have lied more convincingly, but he told you the truth, that he plays around and will again, at least with one of those girls.
To him, it may just be sex, which is okay, but what does that do to you? If he cared for you, he wouldn't do that. He's cheating on you, and lying to you.
Why ever would you want to stick around some one like that. women, astonish me, with what they will put up with, by saying "But I love him", as if that was an answer. It's just self delusional, you may love him, but he doesn't love you.
Forget him and find someone, who will love you, and return your love. This one, just isn't worth your love, just your pity.
Dump him as soon as you can, and start searching for Mr. Right, this one isn't that.
2006-11-16 20:12:37 · answer #2 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that you have already decided on what to do... You just want someone to agree with you..He probably did tell you he deleted her number and at the time it was probably gone... Seems she maybe contacting him again.. I don't really see why he is telling you she met his family and all unless you are question him or he is just mean.. You don't talk about your ex's with your current g/f especially if it was just sex.. You seem to be in a difficult situation..
2006-11-16 20:17:48 · answer #3 · answered by sweetchic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go easygrrr, put 'er in neutral, your forgetting she's an hour away and ur w/ him. Don't sweat the small stuff, find the good in his little white lies, he was most likely concerned about ur feelings. We can all fantasize a little about love lost, don't you? It may sound trite, but get over being jealous, that's not attractive.
2006-11-16 20:11:38 · answer #4 · answered by NIGHTSHADE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should leave him there is someone out ther 4 you and treat u much better so u think about that
2006-11-16 20:12:41 · answer #5 · answered by Angel_Bratt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg!! GRRR! TAHT JUST PISSES ME OFF! i totally kno how u feel...and i kno thsi is really gonna sound mean..but DROP HIM LIKE ITS HOTT! DUMP HIS ***! i had about the samething happen to me and after i accepted it decided to get back with him and shyt...and felt really strongly about him..he dumped me and went back with taht girl! dump him girl cuz im sure hell end up hurting u in the end !sorri but tru stori !!
2006-11-16 20:12:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether she is a threat or not you seem to have lost respect for your b/f. Without respect you can not truely love.
btw it seems he has been lacking respect for you.
2006-11-16 20:09:55 · answer #7 · answered by gatzap 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋