Family & Relationships - 14 November 2006

he doesn't abuse me but I'm not the skinniest or prettiest girl and I don't wanna be alone forever. I do love him and we have a baby, but I think I am only staying with him cuz I don't think I can get anyone else. We have many problems but they can be worked out easily. what should I do?

2006-11-14 09:25:44 · 24 answers · asked by jojo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

like for example me and my friends were walking to class and he yelled and said come here and my friends were waiting for me to go to class and he yelled at them and told them to go ahead she dosent need you shes wit her man and then yelled at me and said why the **** was your friends comein like they was goin to help from me and then he grabed me tight and tounge kiss me ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

2006-11-14 09:25:20 · 20 answers · asked by danielle 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it my fault?
my boyfriend and i had been dating sort of long distance and got in a fight like about 3 weeks ago and since then he hasnt been taking my calls. i think i hurt him i was saying i didnt think it was working and that i had removed my self to the point of being just friends..because of how hed been acting i donno he would call me maybe 2 nights a week after he was with his friends and totaly neglected me bu ti think i hurt him so much and ruined his trust and now he wont talk to me...take any of my calls and i wrecked it pretty much. tell me what i shoudl do?? shoudl i blame myself??
i did get ahold of him the other morning and he said that he had moved up north. and that he didnt see us being more then friends anytime in the near future, and that he coudlnt trust me. i cried and begged told him i loved him only to be rejected....he did say wed hang out when he came down tho...i guess maybe will he come back and forgive me after awhie

2006-11-14 09:24:44 · 11 answers · asked by krista22here 1 in Singles & Dating

It is obvious if a guy can't fall in love he doesn't care having sex with someone he doesn't like or care about---for instance escorts or someone at a club for one night stand only. Well actually most guys at younger age seem to prefer that.
What about yall Ladies, Do you prefer to love someone and enjoy the sex or you,as most guys, don't care for love and are looking for sex too?
Or Ladies are trying to get love by just giving sex to the guy they barely know?
Ladies I appreciate your honest answers

2006-11-14 09:23:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well my boy friends in to most sprots mainly football rugby he does athletics and running he dont really dress in poss cloths mainly sporty cloths some times combats and he dont wear hats !!!???

2006-11-14 09:23:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i asked a question about being stuck up. then my friend read my question.. she said she liked biend my personal project.. now when she is some where out and about she dosent feel as stupid as she use to... my friends know me so when i say project they know what i mean... people for years have been calling me for advice. lol some of my friends say i should have a show like dr. phil. it is worng to voice your oppion even though its not always nice? or should i just stop? my friend have a lot of growing up to do and i try to give them another persons point of view. is it wrong?

2006-11-14 09:22:57 · 2 answers · asked by diamondg4u2c 3 in Friends

And How Horny Do you girls get watching it.

2006-11-14 09:22:11 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i was in a relationship with this guy named gabe, i kinda proposed to him a while back(we both work together) but i dont want to be with him any more, i kind of like someone else i tried telling him its about 2 times its over between us(gabe) but he's the kind the person who holds on to things and wont let go. (bad thing is i kinda told gabe i liked the another guy at work and his name) how do get away from gabe and go to the other person without hurting gabe, he is a nice guy but i dont want to be with him anymore.

2006-11-14 09:21:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i'm starting to feel like intimacy without emotional attachment would be better for someone who feels like s/he's being vulnerable by making love and being in love with that person at the same time.

do you ever feel the same

2006-11-14 09:21:12 · 9 answers · asked by Eden 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Let me explain, It's been so hard for me and my boyfriend to spend time together anymore. We have such difficult schedules: He goes to work full time and I work part time and go to school full-time. I sometimes feel terrible because we hardly talk like we used to. We've been together for 3 years and I feel lonely because our lives are so hectic. I've mentioned to him how I feel and all he says is sorry but doesn't seem to care. Anyone have any advice of what we can do to help our situation? or what I can do?

2006-11-14 09:20:49 · 7 answers · asked by Mona217 2 in Singles & Dating

(im just curious)

2006-11-14 09:20:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-14 09:20:10 · 16 answers · asked by justlaf_kcd 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if you and your partner decide to go on a break what exactly does that mean, how does it work and how long does it last?

i may consider this with my current boyfriend

2006-11-14 09:20:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does anyone have sites that can tell me if the guy i like will be a good boyfriend? not those silly 8 Balls. those aren't real. also, it must be for free cuz if a free one is available why not use that? thanks.

2006-11-14 09:20:03 · 4 answers · asked by funkypolak17 3 in Singles & Dating

What do YOU think are the 5 reasons of DIVORCE?

2006-11-14 09:19:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have felt love for this girl for about 2 years about to be three and i think about her all the time and i talk about her alot becuase i love to talk about her it makes me feel so happy and it also puts a smile on my face and im only 14,shes my first love and i know shell always have my heart,shes the woman of my dreams and she always will be ,but my older sister (shes never been in love nor infatuated) shes 17 and she thinks im obsessed with her just becuase i talk about her so much, i always tell her its becuase im in love with her and shes my favorite girl,its not like i have lots of pictures of her plasttered in my room or i stalk her or dont give her any space to breath,and have my freinds stalk her i know im not obsessed but it gets me mad when my sister tells me that, my first love goes to a differnt highscool than me now and i miss her shes been gone for a month and 2 weeks i think and i still think about her all the time even though shes out of my life right now

2006-11-14 09:19:18 · 4 answers · asked by passionateloverman2 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance's White female friend of five years can't stand Black women but she loves Black men. Although I believe that it's because she's very insecure and is somehow threatened by Black women, my man always finds himself defending African-American females from her sterotypes. She knows about our wedding but feels hurt that my man invited everyone else except her on account of me so that there isn't any tension at the wedding. Should I invite her and kill her with kindness, or should I leave the decision up to my fiance? Or should I leave things the way they are? Afterall, if the girl can accept only one race's gender and is not accepting of the entire race, then is she not worth thinking about, especially on a day that's not her own?

P.S.
Before anyone starts assuming, no, they were never an item, they never messed around, and yes, I trust him.

2006-11-14 09:19:08 · 9 answers · asked by wrtrchk 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay. My boyfriend of two years and I, just moved in together. I love it. However, yes, there's a but.....he has an extra curricular activity that I don't partake in, nor do I approve of when abused (just to keep all the guessing at bay, he "smokes"). I always knew about it, and it bothered me to a degree (an he knows it)...but I didn't see it as often as I do now that we live together. My question has two parts I guess: Do I have the right to be bothered by this considering I knew about it? AND as his live-in partner, am I allowed to make the suggestion of him cutting back....at least while I'm around? It could be worse, I know. I guess I just don't like looking at him and knowing he's not on the same level as me. Even though it doesn't seriously affect him (like making him stupid or lazy such as the misconception)...but it just makes me feel like maybe his attention won't be at crisp, or he won't take things seriously, or THE biggest, he'll forget what I'm talking about.

2006-11-14 09:18:50 · 15 answers · asked by PrimaDonna 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend (more like a sister) and I have stop talking for the past three week. She stated that I did something to upset her but never told me what I did. I have been racking m brain as of what to do about the situation. One part of me say let it go. If she was a true friend then she would have brought to me what I did to upset her and the other part of me says to reach out and find out what is the problem. Just asking what anyone think I should do.....

2006-11-14 09:18:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

There is 22 of us going and I have a small child. My day will be filled "baby this and that". What do I get to do for fun?
Help I need Ideas...it sounds like seven days of hell to me.
The others are young partiers and babysitting is NOT an option for them (I'm just the wife of a family member).

2006-11-14 09:18:00 · 3 answers · asked by Denise W 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

my bf and me broke up yestorday because he told me "my parents and my sister dont think we should be together". but get this, the story changes today.He wrote me a note saying that we need to talk and we both cant stall. so at lunch (im a junior in high school) and i sit with him and he said the reason we broke up was because "i flirt alot with other girls and i dont know how to control myself." then he says "you know that i love you and i know that you love me too!" i was like aight but i do miss him. should i move on or try to make this work!

2006-11-14 09:17:58 · 6 answers · asked by ♥la chica♥ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

or can you sleep with someone else?

2006-11-14 09:17:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is a serious question help me

2006-11-14 09:17:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok my best friend matt started going out with this girl. Its his first girlfriend. ever since he started going out with her he pays no attention to me and his other friends and goes to this girls house every night and i havent seen matt since he started goin with this girl. what do i do? have i lost a great friend?

2006-11-14 09:17:01 · 10 answers · asked by flonkas 3 in Singles & Dating

okay i like this guy, but i dont know if he likes me. like sometimes he'll come up and like "run into" me, and he'll sit with me at lunch some days. and play with my hair some days. but then sometimes he flirts with this other girl. [hes liked her for a while, but shes moving away. so i have a chance..right? well anyways, i asked him if he liked her and he said no, and she doesnt like him] but he flirts with her. heres my question..

does he still like her?
does he like me?
what can i do to make him like me?

2006-11-14 09:16:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm happily married but my husband keeps telling me he'll go back to his country (pakistan) and he'll take the baby with him so his family can meet him. He says he'll come back but I know it's not true...once they go back there with the kids (specially if they're boys) they NEVER come back.
Is there any way i can stop it from happening?, i mean, is it possible for my husband to take the baby to the airport and just fly away with my kid without my consent?, what can I do?
Please help, i'm really scared, i work and i fear coming back someday and not seeing my baby home again...

2006-11-14 09:16:35 · 8 answers · asked by Sairax 2 in Marriage & Divorce

today is my boyfriends birthday and they didn't let me be with him. I was going to take him to do a tattoe he wanted and i was going to pay as a birthday gift but my parents said NO. I freakin hate the fact that we don't see as much and then my parents have to be like that.

2006-11-14 09:16:07 · 7 answers · asked by ~ceci-y-coco~ 3 in Family

me and my family keeps fighting and they are always blaming it on me, and when my mom and dad fight they blame it on me, it is getting me so mad, what should i do?

2006-11-14 09:15:24 · 10 answers · asked by underoath_chick_1991 1 in Family

I was dating this gal for a while and we were pretty serious. However, she started to get scared and would want the relationshiop to work for one week and then call it off again. She did that a few times. Why?

2006-11-14 09:15:04 · 9 answers · asked by volkswagenf 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance's White female friend of five years can't stand Black women but she loves Black men. Although I believe that it's because she's very insecure and is somehow threatened by Black women, my man always finds himself defending African-American females from her sterotypes. She knows about our wedding but feels hurt that my man invited everyone else except her on account of me so that there isn't any tension at the wedding. Should I invite her and kill her with kindness, or should I leave the decision up to my fiance? Or should I leave things the way they are? Afterall, if the girl can accept only one race's gender and is not accepting of the entire race, then is she not worth thinking about, especially on a day that's not her own?

P.S.
Before anyone starts assuming, no, they were never an item, they never messed around, and yes, I trust him.

2006-11-14 09:14:00 · 12 answers · asked by wrtrchk 5 in Weddings