It is obvious if a guy can't fall in love he doesn't care having sex with someone he doesn't like or care about---for instance escorts or someone at a club for one night stand only. Well actually most guys at younger age seem to prefer that.
What about yall Ladies, Do you prefer to love someone and enjoy the sex or you,as most guys, don't care for love and are looking for sex too?
Or Ladies are trying to get love by just giving sex to the guy they barely know?
Ladies I appreciate your honest answers
2006-11-14 09:23:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I prefer to be in love and enjoy sex with only the one Im in love with.
2006-11-14 09:27:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I prefer to love someone for who they are than what they got sex is great if thats what u want to do but some people think that you having sex with someone all the time can keep u together but if thats the case u don't need to be in a relationship for the sex. But before u start doing all these things just tell the person you just want sex and nothing further.
2006-11-14 09:32:13 · answer #2 · answered by andreamcklvy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, i used to be the girl that didn't care for love, just wanted to see how many guys i could get to look my way. now i kinda regret it. i was lucky enough to not get any diseases or anything like that, but now that i am looking for mr. right, and i would have to tell him that i don't know how many guys i've been with...it's a little embarrassing. i know that if he truly loved me, he'd be ok with it, but it's something i can never get back. now, though, i am looking for mr. right with a few mr. right now's in between. i think if you love someone it won't matter about the sex...my parents love each other deeply, but haven't had sex in like 6 months. don't mistake sex for love...i've made that mistake too.
2006-11-14 11:11:45 · answer #3 · answered by trisha_r_c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ther are a lot of girls out there that would like to get with a guy for just to know what they are like in bed, but they would never want to be with them. There are also some girls who think sex is the only way to keep a guy. You know those girls that don't like to be alone. Sex I think has more to do with the touch and feeling more than any thing.
2006-11-14 09:32:16 · answer #4 · answered by Valerie W 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sex is definitely better when its with someone u love and the feelings are mutual....but i have to agree with what "justlooking" said....i just got out of a relationship too and though i dont want to be by myself i know i need time to myself....but i could definitely use a friend with benefits cause im used to gettin it on the regular and doing the job urself just isnt the same!
but at the same time...im scared to put myself out there like that...
2006-11-14 09:38:31 · answer #5 · answered by MsNic 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the only way you can truly enjoy sex is to have strong feelings----anything less than that just makes us animals. If you just give sex to get love---you may as well charge for it too.
2006-11-14 09:27:31 · answer #6 · answered by Meme 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have sex with someone when I'm ready to have sex with them.
Not to make them love me.
And not because I'm IN love with them.
I don't sleep around. I have only had one one-night stand (with a friend).
Being in love with someone and having sex with them is amazing. But rare to find that kind of connection...
2006-11-14 09:29:22 · answer #7 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
right now.. i'm at a point in my life where i'm interested in the sex. i know that sounds kind of bad, but i just got out of a relationship and am not really looking for another one..but hey, i'm a woman, we have needs.. LOL
i would love nothing more than to find a local friends with benefits who can give me what i want right now.. yes, i have needs i want to fulfill, but i also don't want to just go out and find the next random guy every weekend of the damn year.. so a friends with benefits thing would suit me well right now..
i don't think you can find love if you are looking for it.. i think love finds you. i'm not going to run from it if i find it, but i'm not out looking for it..and i'm definitely not putting out in hopes someone will love me.. i'm putting out in hopes that i can freakin' enjoy a few hours of that night too, LOL
2006-11-14 09:28:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's all of the above. You won't get the same answer from any chick you ask. They all want it all.
2006-11-14 09:33:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋