Is it my fault?
my boyfriend and i had been dating sort of long distance and got in a fight like about 3 weeks ago and since then he hasnt been taking my calls. i think i hurt him i was saying i didnt think it was working and that i had removed my self to the point of being just friends..because of how hed been acting i donno he would call me maybe 2 nights a week after he was with his friends and totaly neglected me bu ti think i hurt him so much and ruined his trust and now he wont talk to me...take any of my calls and i wrecked it pretty much. tell me what i shoudl do?? shoudl i blame myself??
i did get ahold of him the other morning and he said that he had moved up north. and that he didnt see us being more then friends anytime in the near future, and that he coudlnt trust me. i cried and begged told him i loved him only to be rejected....he did say wed hang out when he came down tho...i guess maybe will he come back and forgive me after awhie
2006-11-14 09:24:44 · 11 answers · asked by krista22here 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO, your making yourself look desparate for him, don't do that, sorry but the truth hurts. From experience sweety long distance relationships really don't work out. It's better to leave it at friends. If he is requesting it to then he really wants to be free, come on think about it, if he really liked you that much he would have called you and wouldn't mind since he moved farther to still be with you. Just move on, maybe later when you guys see each other he'll maybe regret leaving you. But for now just be friends and try to move on. Trust me you'll be happier if you get a guy that's a little closer to you.
2006-11-14 09:32:21 · answer #1 · answered by Lilmamasita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think that you really need to get over him. Because incase you haven't been told already, LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS NEVER WORK & if they do, it's only because there is a lot of cheating going on. Men are like pennies, you find them everywhere. Eat some chocolate if you want to feel real love.
2006-11-14 17:30:38 · answer #2 · answered by Virginia H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like your pretty young still, and he musta been feelin the same way if he didn't put up a fight for ya, move on there r soooo many boys out there for ya and if he comes back and wants to talk take it from there but quit calling him and let him take the lead and if he doesn't then u know
2006-11-14 17:33:33 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG I can see why "nameless" is Nameless. sounds like they are also brainless. Anyway. to me it sounds like you need to forget about him. It will always get less painful in time, I promise. If you, being honest with him about how you feel, made him react like that he is not worth it, and he could be trying to make you feel like crap ( it is working too). If he reacted like that to you being honest with him . He is immature, but truthfully it does sound like he really does NOT want to be your Bf anymore. But I think you are better off. Oh BTW Don't beg guys really hate that and they lose whatever respect they had for you. Just hold your head up and you will meet someone that lives closer to you and that deserves your love.
2006-11-14 17:31:35 · answer #4 · answered by sandy p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are way to young to be having a long distance relationship. You may actually be to young to even be asking these questions. What the hell is wrong with our school systems and parental skills?
2006-11-14 17:29:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont kno but you should really move on it seems as though he has, there is no use it beating your self up over it, look at it as fate if your ment to get back together you will but getting all depressed over could prevent you from meeting some one else that could turn out to be mr right
2006-11-14 17:29:55 · answer #6 · answered by SHRee P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might I suggest you dry the tears, govern your emotions, and start going to school. Your spelling is awful. Besides, when you are at school there are other guys and you will meet one and maybe love will bloom again. AHHH Amore!
2006-11-14 17:29:00 · answer #7 · answered by raiderking69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its funny how he turned it on you, in my opinion move on and remember that long distance relationship hardly ever work out. who cares whos fault it was obvisouly it was only meant to be friends if that. Find someone wonderful in your area who wants to spend time with you.
2006-11-14 17:28:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You "Just want to be friends", that is the kiss of death to a guy. Once those words come out of your mouth, he heard "I don't ever want to see or hear from you again".
2006-11-14 17:27:32 · answer #9 · answered by Racewalking Invicta Swami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont blame urself, and u should never beg a guy 2 come back 2 u it gives them control and makes them think they can juss get u whenever they want which will make them think they can watever they want whenever they want
2006-11-14 17:28:12 · answer #10 · answered by ♥BitterSweet♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋