if you do these things deos this mean your obsessed can only experienced people with love talk please?

Question

i have felt love for this girl for about 2 years about to be three and i think about her all the time and i talk about her alot becuase i love to talk about her it makes me feel so happy and it also puts a smile on my face and im only 14,shes my first love and i know shell always have my heart,shes the woman of my dreams and she always will be ,but my older sister (shes never been in love nor infatuated) shes 17 and she thinks im obsessed with her just becuase i talk about her so much, i always tell her its becuase im in love with her and shes my favorite girl,its not like i have lots of pictures of her plasttered in my room or i stalk her or dont give her any space to breath,and have my freinds stalk her i know im not obsessed but it gets me mad when my sister tells me that, my first love goes to a differnt highscool than me now and i miss her shes been gone for a month and 2 weeks i think and i still think about her all the time even though shes out of my life right now

Answer 1

Well, if she hasn't moved very far, why don't you call your first love on the phone and also hangout other places besides school. Just because you two go to different schools doesn't mean you can't hang out or be together. The two of you can go to the mall, movies, ice skating, parties & dances, and just hang out at eachothers houses.
If she lives far, it may be best to just keep a friendship with her. Try and contact her through phone/computer. If you're unable to contact her at all, then she just becomes a part of the past and eventually, with time, you will move on. Until then, give yourself time for the healing process.

Answer 2

Well I don't think your obsessed, but I am not sure your in love. You may just be infatuated which is totally normal during your teen years. I was in love with this guy for a long time and I was always thinking about him and talking about him too! My family told me the same thing your family is telling you but me and you both know its something differen. you cant help it. Well my only advice is to pursuit it! Get her number and call her! Dont be a dummy like me and wait until its too late. If your scared of rejection your just going to have to put those fears behind you because life is way too short. If she turns you down you can start attempting to move on and find someone else and if she likes you as much as you like her then you can move forward with the relationship. Right now its stuck so get it moving!

Answer 3

Hunny, it isn't love--you are too young, it is infatuation and you will get over it

Answer 4

Sometimes focusing on other interests helps (sports, hobbies, etc.)