i'm starting to feel like intimacy without emotional attachment would be better for someone who feels like s/he's being vulnerable by making love and being in love with that person at the same time.
do you ever feel the same
2006-11-14 09:21:12 · 9 answers · asked by Eden 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
whoops, you didnt really get my question. i'm not saying that i even like that. i just said it would be better in order not to get hurt but i do not like it
thanx anyways
2006-11-14 09:37:03 · update #1
I understand your question now! We can get our panties in a bunch can't we? LOL I'm sorry...Let me reword the question for you..."Do you think sex with someone you love would be more enjoyable if you knew you weren't as vulnerable while having sex with the person you love??" Is that what you meant to say? Now, I understand what you mean...! Yes...I do feel that way sometimes. If you feel as though you are being taken advantage of...then taking the emotions away...with the person that one loves...it would be easier!
2006-11-14 10:20:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Intimacy is emotional attachment. You can't have one without the other. Being intimate requires not only the physical connection, but the mental and emotional. If you don't have it all, then it isn't intimacy you are talking about.....you would be talking about pure sex.
2006-11-14 17:23:42 · answer #2 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You're right. Not all women need that emotional "love" attachment in order to have amazing sex. I feel the same way, when I'm in a serious relationship I can never have the crazy fun sex I want. It always turns into the same ol' positions and nothing new, because you know what's comfortable for you and your partner.
Having non-emotional sex can bring out a whole new world of foreplay and fun.
2006-11-14 17:35:37 · answer #3 · answered by Pirate Hooker 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think the first person who answered you has it right! You are really missing out ! What you are talking about is "having sex"...but you could be "making love". You don't want to feel vulnerable?? Life is all about making sacrifices! Your question is the saddest thing I've read all day!
2006-11-14 17:43:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Very true. I actually enjoy intimacy without emotions more. I find emotions messes with sex when things aren't going good between the couple.
2006-11-14 17:24:09 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sometimes, emotions are a funny thing and how they are attached to sex
2006-11-14 17:24:13 · answer #6 · answered by Michael D 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
women are complicated, so you need complicated measures to deal with normal life.....sounds like a convoluted mess
2006-11-14 17:30:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
no I think that's an emothion only street walkers carry in their hearts and souls.
2006-11-14 17:31:51 · answer #8 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
wow never saw it like that before, something to think about.
2006-11-14 17:29:10 · answer #9 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋