Family & Relationships - 14 November 2006

My ex dumped me through an email a month ago just after she started seeing a therapist due to her unhappy life, father passing away, and low self esteem. At the time I understood her reasoning saying she needed to sort her life out. She asked me not to hate her and that because of her the timing of us sucked, even though she thought we had really good potential. She said she still wanted to be friends and talk cuz thats all she coudl handel. So after a while I agreed cause I cared for her and wanted to be there for her as a friend through this tough time. She sends me an email last week saying she hopes everything with me is giong well and to drop her a line whenever. Then I get in an accident 15 minutes from her house last night. I was in shock when the accident, my first, happened. I knew she was close, I needed a ride and voice, but when I txt her, thats how she likes to communicate, she never replied or called me today to ask me how I was... What should I think of this??

2006-11-14 13:07:12 · 10 answers · asked by cds1666 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this boy at my school that I kinda have in mind. We both play on our schools basketball team. We are both in different grades. I need true answers. I really want to hook up with him.

2006-11-14 13:05:55 · 12 answers · asked by Ebony H 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok my father is 50 years old, has no job, has almost never had a job, and is now living with me, my husband and our kids. He is not in anyways sick or disabled. And he has recently begun sleep all day. Yes he dose help out with the house work and the kids every now and then but only when I tell him to. We all get along great, but I think my husband is getting tired of my father living with us and off us. My father thinks the only way he can get a job is to open his own business, only he has no money to do so and we don't have the money to give him. Pulse he never finishes what he starts anyways. Is there anyways to convince him to get a regular job and move out. I don't want him to be on the street, but I don't want him living with us forever ether. What should I do??

2006-11-14 13:05:03 · 9 answers · asked by Danielle 3 in Family

I started dating my b/f about 2 months ago and I am happy with our relationship. I also have a good friend (also an ex b/f) who is having a ruff time with his life. He broke up with his girlfriend about a week ago and I am the only true friend he really has. I have no problem in being there for him but I had my best friend ask him about me and he told her, he wants to date me agian but my boyfriend, Alan, is in the way. I dont want to stop being friends with him because we have always had a well grounded friendship. But everyone tells me I need to quit talking to him because he is more concentratred on getting close to me. I dont want anything to come in between, alan and I's relationship but i also dont want to let down my duty as a friend. I promised my friend i would be there but its seems as if its either him or my boyfriend. It bothers alan but he tells me its ok if I want to talk to him... and I kno he is lying.... What should I do?? I jus need some friendly advice please?

2006-11-14 13:04:13 · 7 answers · asked by tubbychubbypp 2 in Singles & Dating

i'll use codenames for this question. My friend john and this girl lisa. Now there's this dance thing and i was on the line with bolth of them. One on each line. So i was talking to john and he said that he wanted to go with lisa. But so did i!! So i switched lines and asked lisa if she wanted to go with him. Lisa said she wouldn't feel right, and she's feel more comfortable if she went with me. (my heart skipped!!) i switched lines again and told john and he said ok and then hung up. So now i'm talking to lisa and were not really saying anything about going together!! So should i just not say anything when i call her back in about 5 Min. Or should i ask her. Start from this, she picks up the phone and says hello what should i say!!?? I know this is confusing but i'm in a big hurray....

2006-11-14 13:03:15 · 6 answers · asked by John 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a 29 yr old guy. I'm a pretty athletic looking attractive guy, but I've always been shy, especially around women I'm attracted to. So I'm single quite a bit of the time. When I DO meet a woman I like and we start dating I tend to obsess a bit over where the relationship is heading if the dates have gone well. The main reason is that I know that if it doesn't work out with this one, I might not find another date or mate for a long period of time. Is this a common problem. I seem to have run off at least 2 potential girlfriends in the last year and a half because of my over eagerness to find and keep a relationship. Is this a common problem? How can I keep my mind off my crush long enough not to seem too eager?

2006-11-14 13:03:02 · 3 answers · asked by mu 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-14 13:02:58 · 5 answers · asked by kitty cat 3 in Singles & Dating

It's OUR house ( all us kids' house)--and he's taking off on a job tomorrow for two straight years.
When he leaves, that's two weeks of bills he has run up at the house.
What to do before he leaves?

2006-11-14 13:02:13 · 1 answers · asked by bettyboop 6 in Family

that he nw says he dsnt love me and dsnt wanna call me his gf though he still wants me. we r again not talking. Do you think that due to this disease multiple sclerosis, he dsnt want me in his life? does he want me to leave him so that i dnt suffer or something? because i get confused with his behaviour sometimes.

2006-11-14 13:02:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my uncel died a little while ago and i still cant get happy. everything seams to have no reason no importance. i want to get back to being a normal 14 year old girl but it is not getting easer for me. im woundering if is beacuse i never really siad good bye to him and i feel bad i never cried for him. there is so much i wish i could change. will you guys help me im so miserable i wish i would have died with him. why me i mean everything in my life was awsome a never lost any one else before him then he died and it turned my whole life around. how can somthing as small as that affect my whole life. im not one to tell people my feelings im much to shy. but i just want to be normal i feel like im crazy. any help would do so much for me .

2006-11-14 13:01:50 · 6 answers · asked by sk8erhjk 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 18 but I have fell madly in love with the man of my dreams....but he is 49 years old.....my family cannot accept the fact that i love him and i am getting married to him. What do I do?

2006-11-14 13:01:09 · 25 answers · asked by blitzyditz 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My babe and I have been dating since Sept 2005, and everything was great until the new school year starting, because their has been this kinda hot new girl that almost EVERY guy is craving, that's fine but MY guy has his eye on her as well.....I feel intimidated by her a bit, considering i'm on 14 and having lost my virginity to him in june, i feel like he loved...no really liked me, but he seems confused about everything now, it seems like he's trying to get with her,until she accepts him or something, but i am really upset because i love him, and all my friends tell me how he's been cheating , what do you think

2006-11-14 13:01:05 · 17 answers · asked by hotpinkchica 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex fiancee broke up with me because he is going to irak. He knows that i love him and he says tha he love me but he has been hurt by someone else while he was in irak and he is scared that i will do the same thing. he doent wnatto be withme now but he says that when he comes back he would like for us to get back together. right now, he is just acting really wierd. one day he says that he loves me and misses me and the other day like today he didnt even say i love you too. we've been fighting letely but he knows that i love him and sometimes i can understant his decision but i am not like the other girl. is it just an excuse that he is making up? or should i understand him and leave him alone to get his thoughts straigth. i really need y'all help.....

2006-11-14 12:59:40 · 11 answers · asked by sholla 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so today my crush was like pushing my chair next 2 his! Is that flirting or if he says "Give me a high five"! Please no bad answers!

2006-11-14 12:59:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-14 12:58:06 · 4 answers · asked by Alicia Wierzba 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-14 12:56:59 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What does it mean?

2006-11-14 12:56:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My best friend in the whole world is an awesome girl. We used to do EVERYTHING together, and it wasn't like many friendships. We never got into fights, always understood eachother and nothing got into our way. She is my only girl friend that i trust and would tell her everything. Normally we wouldn't let guys get between us, but her boyfriend of about a montha and a half she changed her mind. I hate her new boyfriend. She deserves so much better and he is just stupid. He told her that he loved her within a week, started to cry because she wasn't hanging out with him within 2 weeks. He is still 21, living at home without a steady job. i told her how i felt about her the situation but she still decided to choose him over me. i haven't talk to her in a few days and i am starting to hate it even more. I want to kill this guy because her is just so STUPID. She said that she is going to stay with him because he isn't a sex driven jerk. should i just give up on the friendship or let it go?

2006-11-14 12:56:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

theres this guy. he said he had a gf untill he found out i liked him. he stayed the night at my house 1 night with his lil bro and his age step bro. he knows i go to a diffrent school i mean da we're both 10 and in the same grade who wouldn't notice? i know people r gonna say im to young 2 date. but i need to know. he and his bros like me and i like all 3 of them but i like him the most. hes really cute and i know i like him, but im not sure if he knows if he likes me. should i move on to 1 of his bros or keep hoping he'll figure it out soon.

2006-11-14 12:56:11 · 6 answers · asked by Kaysea [Electric] 2 in Singles & Dating

We are at the same college. I'm graduating and she has another year and a half. I am moving a hour and 15 minutes away, we have been dating a couple of months and have a good time with each other. Also, her plans are to possible go overseas after she graduates. What should I do, or tell her? Break up and go our separate ways or stay together??

2006-11-14 12:55:57 · 12 answers · asked by Bucky for Prez 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Alrit so I finally found some courage and told my crush EXACTLY what I felt about him! He blushed A LOT, and DIDNT make eye contact...although, he seemed happy to hear it! What do you think I should do now? I don't want to ask him out because now I suppose it's his choice....+ if he wanted to ask me out...he would have done that right then and there right? So, should I just think that this "crush" is over?!?! Or what?? Should I move on?

More to my story: Well he actually ran away from me when I asked him first to talk to me (but that would have been because 10 other friends of ours were pretending that we were at the altar getting married...I even got offers for bridesmaides) But later, when I told him that I wanted to talk to him somewhere else, he won't listen to me, he just said that he wanted to talk where we already were (and there were a lot of people there!)

2006-11-14 12:55:39 · 6 answers · asked by HAPPY <3 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-14 12:54:28 · 17 answers · asked by molly 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-14 12:54:26 · 16 answers · asked by el k 1 in Singles & Dating

How can a very ugly guy get a girl way out of his league. Is it possible? will i girl forsake looks for personality?

2006-11-14 12:54:18 · 29 answers · asked by Xavier W 1 in Singles & Dating

He said that we would always be friends after we break up because we were friends once before. What has changed now? He said that it might work out in the near future but I dont want another chance. He doesnt seem like himself when he's around me, seems kinda mean and demanding, but when he's around others he seems happy. He's happy once in a while but when I notice him looking at me, he looks upset. Whats the deal?

2006-11-14 12:53:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-14 12:53:40 · 9 answers · asked by QueenofLeon 4 in Singles & Dating

i wanna know this because my boyfriend kisses me alot on the forehead alot

2006-11-14 12:52:36 · 7 answers · asked by dominican_loca 1 in Friends

Ok so I dont even know this girls name but I wanna be friends with her, I took someones advice and asked her for pen when I was waiting for the bus. So what should I say when I give it back to her? I dont wanna go asking her out because I dont know if she has a BF or not.

2006-11-14 12:52:24 · 8 answers · asked by [quarantine] 3 in Friends

Alright, my boyfriend cheated on me and now I'm always scarred he's going to do it again. But it gets even worse because he suspicius I'm cheating on HIM and I'm not. He knows I'd NEVER do anything to hurt him. What should I be thinking right now?

2006-11-14 12:52:17 · 5 answers · asked by Danii 1 in Singles & Dating

My parents are against all drugs, smoking etc. But, as far as I know, hookah isn't bad for me. I'm also Indian, so maybe I could say I'm going cultural? =)


Thanks

2006-11-14 12:51:27 · 5 answers · asked by NitrousFlare 1 in Family