My babe and I have been dating since Sept 2005, and everything was great until the new school year starting, because their has been this kinda hot new girl that almost EVERY guy is craving, that's fine but MY guy has his eye on her as well.....I feel intimidated by her a bit, considering i'm on 14 and having lost my virginity to him in june, i feel like he loved...no really liked me, but he seems confused about everything now, it seems like he's trying to get with her,until she accepts him or something, but i am really upset because i love him, and all my friends tell me how he's been cheating , what do you think
2006-11-14 13:01:05 · 17 answers · asked by hotpinkchica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One evening last week, my girlfriend and I were getting into bed.
Well, the passion starts to heat up, and she eventually says, "I don't feel like it, I just want you to hold me."
I said, "WHAT??!! What was that?!"
So she says the words that every boyfriend on the planet dreads to hear...
"You're just not in touch with my emotional needs as a woman enough for me to satisfy your physical needs as a man."
She responded to my puzzled look by saying, "Can't you just love me for who I am and not what I do for you in the bedroom?"
Realizing that nothing was going to happen that night, I went to sleep.
The very next day I opted to take the day off of work to spend time with her. We went out to a nice lunch and then went shopping at a big, big unnamed department store. I walked around with her while she tried on several different very expensive outfits. She couldn't decide which one to take, so I told her we'd just buy them all. She wanted new shoes to compliment her new clothes, so I said, "Lets get a pair for each outfit."
We went on to the jewelry department where she picked out a pair of diamond earrings. Let me tell you... she was so excited. She must have thought I was one wave short of a shipwreck.
I started to think she was testing me because she asked for a tennis bracelet when she doesn't even know how to play tennis.
I think I threw her for a loop when I said, "That's fine, honey." She was almost nearing sexual satisfaction from all of the excitement.
Smiling with excited anticipation, she finally said, "I think this is all dear, let's go to the cashier."
I could hardly contain myself when I blurted out, "No honey, I don't feel like it."
Her face just went completely blank as her jaw dropped with a baffled,
"WHAT?"
I then said, "Honey! I just want you to HOLD this stuff for a while.
You're just not in touch with my financial needs as a man enough for me to satisfy your shopping needs as a woman."
And just when she had this look like she was going to kill me, I added, "Why can't you just love me for who I am and not for the things I buy you?"
Apparently I'm not having sex tonight either....but at least that b i a t c h knows I'm smarter than her
2006-11-14 13:03:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
i think that since u are to young that u should break up with him becasue he is not appriciating u at all. he is disrespecting u by doing or even thinking about another girl. some people find their sole mate when they are that young but if he trully was your other half he would never look at another girl but u.. if he dosent reaspects u drop him and i suggest to be abstenent and try not to have sex with n e one else until u graduate from high school.. you are too young and do not need drama like that.. like i said if he loved u he would not be thinking of no one else but u.. good luck with that.
2006-11-14 13:06:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time you get a grip on what you find acceptable in your little 14 years of life experience.
People treat you the way you let them treat you.
People show you who they are.
He is showing you who he is. He is 14 and out to get laid.
Dump the creep and respect yourself.
2006-11-14 13:07:09 · answer #3 · answered by uzurhead 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't get hung up with a boy at 14. Let him go. Afterwards, be careful of who get with. Your life is only starting, so don't let somebody get you pregnant before you have a chance to really grow up.
2006-11-14 13:06:18 · answer #4 · answered by Eddie S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its no longer properly worth it believe me u dont have time for video games. U ought to be utilising that factor and searching somebody else merely think of roughly it is that this style of person u desire to marry. U would be depressing merely like u r now. unload his *** and flow one, no longer unavoidably right into a sparkling relationship yet get urself together first.
2016-12-14 07:23:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, he's definetely cheating on you. My advice is that you should tell him how you really feel about the situation and then see how it goes from there. If he still has some love for you, he will let that girl go and stick with you.
2006-11-14 13:05:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
listen to your friends, they're probably right. even if you've lost your virginity to him, it means nothing. you're 14, guys around your age aren't looking for love, they want to date a lot of girls, and if you guys are in " love" then you're taking it too fast. live a little!!
2006-11-14 13:09:23 · answer #7 · answered by PinkPanther 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a teenager and so are you so you both are young but whats the worse that can happen if you leave him.... you find smoeone else to take his place. if he aint responding leave him i know you feel for him because he took your irginity but thats all he wanted to do and he's done it so he's movin on, why dont you?
2006-11-14 13:09:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're 14..................you don't have time for love. Date someone else before he leaves you and that way you can say you broke up with him before he makes a fool of you.
2006-11-14 13:04:17 · answer #9 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't stay with any guy who only "really liked me".
2006-11-14 13:04:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋